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| Topic: Are you mean to people who find you attractive... | |
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...when the feeling is not mutual?
Have you ever been called out on this? Would others agree with you? I notice a lot of people -men and women alike- will become very short and rude with someone if they find out they are attracted to them and don't live up to their standards. What are your thoughts? |
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I'm generally not rude to any one for no reason. If you're and a$$ then I'm likely to act like a b**ch - has nothing to do with feelings not being reciprocated.
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I agree with Ledi...
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Hi Patsfan I think I like you!! F*ck off Behotch!!
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i'm not rude but i won't beat around the bush about stuff like that.
i also won't make a massive effort to keep them entertained. its like i won't be rude in a bar but i won't go home with them either. i have however been called rude names for not liking someone back. which made no sense to me!!! i don't expect every guy to like me. i shouldn't be expected to like every guy. |
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Oh no. This is one of those threads that will probably lead to arguments. Krimsa ducts for cover. I’m never intentionally rude to men who might find me attractive. I tend to have a flirtatious personality by nature or what men seem to perceive as flirtatious but to me, it’s just how I communicate. The worst of it is generally a misunderstanding but I m never rude to men with the sole intention of hurting their feelings or belittling them in any manner.
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...when the feeling is not mutual? Have you ever been called out on this? Would others agree with you? I notice a lot of people -men and women alike- will become very short and rude with someone if they find out they are attracted to them and don't live up to their standards. What are your thoughts? Nope unless they get stalker like with it or if they try to tell me what to do in my life. |
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Oh no. This is one of those threads that will probably lead to arguments. Krimsa ducts for cover. I’m never intentionally rude to men who might find me attractive. I tend to have a flirtatious personality by nature or what men seem to perceive as flirtatious but to me, it’s just how I communicate. The worst of it is generally a misunderstanding but I m never rude to men with the sole intention of hurting their feelings or belittling them in any manner.  So I can't chase you around the farm
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Yeah I should have you and beachbum come visit here. These alpaca spit though, look out.
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Yeah I should have you and beachbum come visit here. These alpaca spit though, look out.
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Regardless of whether or not you find them attractive...Why be rude to another who is being/saying something nice about you? Makes no sense...
I say thanks alot!! and move on. |
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I'm not trying to set anything ablaze here, and I expect people to be civil.
That having been said... I think a lot of this just has to do with an overall decline of manners and respect in the world today. It just astonishes me when a simple smile, or a respectful nod can cause such vanity in some people to ooze forth. |
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Regardless of whether or not you find them attractive...Why be rude to another who is being/saying something nice about you? Makes no sense... I say thanks alot!! and move on. Agreed. I like that attitude. |
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I dont take any chances, i am mean to everybody
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Edited by
Krimsa
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Fri 02/13/09 06:25 PM
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I'm not trying to set anything ablaze here, and I expect people to be civil. That having been said... I think a lot of this just has to do with an overall decline of manners and respect in the world today. It just astonishes me when a simple smile, or a respectful nod can cause such vanity in some people to ooze forth. Oh I know. I didnt mean to imply you were doing anything wrong. I just mentioned that it had the "potential" for problems. Sometimes these threads devolve into gender wars but hopefully it remains civil. Peace. 
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Insightful. I think wether or not people like to admit it it is a common defense mechanism. I'm guilty of it myself.
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Edited by
TenTigers
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Fri 02/13/09 06:28 PM
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I'm not trying to set anything ablaze here, and I expect people to be civil. That having been said... I think a lot of this just has to do with an overall decline of manners and respect in the world today. It just astonishes me when a simple smile, or a respectful nod can cause such vanity in some people to ooze forth. Oh I know. I didnt mean to imply you were doing anything wrong. I just mentioned that it had the "potential" for problems. Sometimes these threads devolve into gender wars but hopefully it remains civil. Peace. No worries milady. I'm not as scary as I look.  Edit: That came out wrong... |
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If someone finds me attractive and I don't feel the same---I wouldn't be mean to them. I have had that happen to me.
I try to think how would I feel in their shoes? How would I want them to handle it? |
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I only get curt with people who disrespect me.
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I'm generally not rude to any one for no reason. If you're and a$$ then I'm likely to act like a b**ch - has nothing to do with feelings not being reciprocated. ..i suppose acting like a b**ch when someone else is acting like an a$$ is necessary at times..but it may not be necessary at all times...allowing someone else to dictate one's own behavior may not be that good at times, i.e. irate customer and the employee matching the intensity of the irateness...base behavior would be better in this situation..in my opinion.. roco |
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