Be honest about this now!

Absolutely.

i would it is not all about looks it is what is in the persons heart i am not a person that judges by looks you know their is alot of nice guys out there that is big that alot of women dont give a guy a time of day because they way they look i guess i am one of the few that dont go by looks they way i look at it everyone needs love to no matter how small or big

I don't know. I like men with some meat on them. BUT, I doubt I would willingly start a relationship with a grossly obese person as although accidents & health stuff can happen to anyone, I would not willingly choose to get emotionally involved with a walking heart attack or stroke victim waiting to happen.

I am pretty sure based on experience and what I have read, that lack being big is more of a turn off toward women than being big is. I read somewhere after shown a picture of a "big and tall" man and a "short/athlectic" man and asked who they would rather date about 3/4 would rather date the "big and tall" man.

Sure. I like a guy who's bigger than I am.

In my experience, It's not always the way you look. It's also mostly, in how confident you are, and good humor is a plus. Now, I'm nothin man either. It seems to me that a smile, and a funny joke opens up a lot of doors...

If you ever seen the documentary on the science of sexual attraction or read about it, like 80% of getting a relationship started is about how the other sex initially percieves you physically for both sexes look at the face to make sure it has symmetry the length between the the eyes is equal to the length of the eyes themselves, when you add the width of you mouth and the with of the nose right between the eyes you the mouth should be 2/3rds of the two widths added together and the nose 1/3rd, which also is the way a woman's hips should measure to there waist. A tall man with a deep voice is more attractive then men who are shorter or who have higher tone voices, and women are more attractive short and with higher tone voices. The More of these qualites one has the more attractive they have because we subcontiously dectuct that they have good genes thus have better genes to pass on to offspring which ultimatly is one of the major goals of any Major relationships which is what most of us are looking for. So the majority of people man or woman will first deduct if they want to base someone on looks then personality humor intelligence job ect..,

yes I would... I have..

only time I actually get iffy about a man being large is if his 'breasts' compete with mine..

but if I genuinely like him as a person I'd still go out with him

Yeah that's what I wanted to know too

Depends on what kind of woman you're talking to. Chances are if she's lookin in a mirror every 5 seconds; a woman who's into herself first, her hair second, her clothes third, and her nails fourth, chances are she's too shallow and insecure in herself to love ANY man, and she'll listen to society's call to be perfect and with a perfect-looking man.

I have dated guys who were bigger than I am, and in general, what the world views as "big". Like many of the women have posted, it's more about confidence and personality than anything. Big guys may not be a woman's "type" per se, but it's generally not a breaker. At least not for me or for my girl friends. So steer clear of conceited women.

i wouldnt date a big guy.

im massive man certified and it's all about how you carry yourself,

welcome to the wonderful world of being shallow... most girls want one thing and thats a guy who all he has in the world are his washboard abs... but then a guy comes along with a little more fluff then your average guy with intelligence and more to care about then how much time he spends in the gym... who will love you and cherish you til the day you die... and she choses the meat head... lovely world aint it...

i think all thats bullcrap, there was a time when i had some wieght on me, and girls wouldnt even look at me! now that ive lost most of the wieght, i get a little more attention. 90percent of women out there are ONLY interested in MONEY or LOOKS, and mostly BOTH especialy out here where im from in callifornia. ever see some real big fat guy at a dinner eating with some fine ass girl that looks like she can be a model? yea, either its his SISTER, or that man is LOADED! i remember when i was fat, i totally felt discusted with myself, i always sweated, always short of breath, had this big ass gut that you couldnt hide in any shirt you wore, i felt so discusting, and i can only imagine what girls thought and felt when they would look at me or they were any where around me.

so whenever a good looking girl says they would go out or even have SEX with a heavy or fat guy, they are lying through there god damn teeth just to be nice. if you do get sex, its probally the "I FEEL SORRY FOR YOU" sex. you know its true ladies, so dont even bother lying about it....

Women don't like big guys. Story of my life. Haha, its the truth.

Women like to be FRIENDS with big guys. If a guy can't fit into the stuff at Abercrombie, they're obviously not suitable for a relationship.

well theres always different "classes" of big. either your confident in your self or you doubt your self. im big but that does not stop me as a girl. people love fat. people love skinny. people love red hair. people love tattoos. people love deep voices. people love cute voices. people love all kinds of differnt things in people. its not wether wed all date you. its who loves everything about you. if they dont love you the way u r fat or skinny. then there not for you.

Honestly, I look for intelligence, charisma and personality. I would hate dating a guy who worshiped his abs more than listening to me...

I would date YOU