Topic: WHAT? he clicked on MAYBE?
DTHRomeo's photo
Mon 02/02/09 12:46 AM
I be like ... spock

907daydreamer's photo
Mon 02/02/09 12:52 AM

I be like ... spock


rofl

transientmind's photo
Mon 02/02/09 12:56 AM

I think I would have a severe lack of concern.
That.



Try talking, then he might talk back.

Kind of like a conversation, I've heard.

TheRebelSun's photo
Mon 02/02/09 12:59 AM
I would think they are trying to not come on too strong, OR, they just aren't sure they're interested yet.

Either way, a maybe is better than "No" isn't it? Insinuates there is a possibility.

Peccy's photo
Mon 02/02/09 12:59 AM
Hold it.......wait a second........dang! I almost cared!

joshyfox's photo
Mon 02/02/09 01:08 AM
Not to sound rude, but unless I REALLY know the person, I always pick Maybe. It's not an insult to me, I would like to know the person more, but would rather not take a risk before I did.

This is not to be confused with a Friend list invitation, which I would say yes to.

transientmind's photo
Mon 02/02/09 01:20 AM
Hi...

-cute kids.
-love your eyes.
-I like your music selection, what do you think of polka? :tongue:
-can you really fart the national anthem?
-nice truck/car (guys like that if they put work into it. Be ready for gearhead-speak, though).
-challenge him to talk about something interesting.
-ask him about a subject he's passionate about.
-challenge him to mudwrestle for moonpies.

Anything but hiding. If you can't talk here, where can you?

soundedmind's photo
Mon 02/02/09 05:47 AM

Hi...

-cute kids.
-love your eyes.
-I like your music selection, what do you think of polka? :tongue:
-can you really fart the national anthem?
-nice truck/car (guys like that if they put work into it. Be ready for gearhead-speak, though).
-challenge him to talk about something interesting.
-ask him about a subject he's passionate about.
-challenge him to mudwrestle for moonpies.

Anything but hiding. If you can't talk here, where can you?



...ugh... now I want a moon pie...

DTHRomeo's photo
Mon 02/02/09 05:49 AM
Damn! me too

no photo
Mon 02/02/09 05:54 AM


"Maybe" is the same as "No," in that it shouldn't appear in a person's mail if he or she clicked "Maybe." I could have received a hundred maybes but don't know because they don't notify you in the event of a maybe.


Yes they do.....they go to your mutual match. Or have it gotten this all wrong? Yes/Maybe's both will go into your mutual match category if you both have selected one of those.


Yes, from what I've seen, a maybe will end up in your mutual matches just as a yes would. So, I don't see the difference.

RKISIT's photo
Mon 02/02/09 05:58 AM

How would you feel if you knew that the person you are/were interested in clicked on MAYBE?
mutual match no matter if they click on yes,maybe or no. the answer is still ,no response.just sayin

misstina2's photo
Mon 02/02/09 05:59 AM
Edited by misstina2 on Mon 02/02/09 06:00 AM
wouldn't care because I don't use that feature nore do I need tolove

Fade2Black's photo
Mon 02/02/09 06:30 AM



Who friggin' cares. They'll only dump you at some point, anyway. :laughing:


Dude.....you really live a life completely void of hope....don't you?


You calling me... CYNICAL? :laughing:



Wasn't there a thread or TWO around here bout cynicism? Just sayin' :tongue:

Mr_Music's photo
Mon 02/02/09 06:37 AM


How would you feel if you knew that the person you are/were interested in clicked on MAYBE?
mutual match no matter if they click on yes,maybe or no. the answer is still ,no response.just sayin


Be careful. You don't want to be accused of being a cynic, because that's bad. indifferent

Fade2Black's photo
Mon 02/02/09 06:38 AM



How would you feel if you knew that the person you are/were interested in clicked on MAYBE?
mutual match no matter if they click on yes,maybe or no. the answer is still ,no response.just sayin




Be careful. You don't want to be accused of being a cynic, because that's bad. indifferent


Now now dear Keith .. it's not bad. flowerforyou

Seakolony's photo
Mon 02/02/09 06:38 AM
I would always click maybe bcs you never know if you are compatible. There is no guarantee you will be mentally compatible, therefore aesthetically I may think they are hot, but if you can't hold my mind hit the road jack.

74Drew's photo
Mon 02/02/09 06:43 AM
personally, i don't see the big deal.

no photo
Mon 02/02/09 06:44 AM
I'm just wondering how you'd find out that someone clicked maybe.

Seakolony's photo
Mon 02/02/09 06:45 AM
Maybe they told them later on down the road

Fade2Black's photo
Mon 02/02/09 06:47 AM

I would always click maybe bcs you never know if you are compatible. There is no guarantee you will be mentally compatible, therefore aesthetically I may think they are hot, but if you can't hold my mind hit the road jack.



ditto