Because it's not just a dating site, it's a social site as well. You know, where you make friends? Half the members here are only here because they've made good friends and like to interact with them here.

I said I couldnt use the car for the rest of the week...was gonna go look for a job.

But Im done with this post, maybe I am wrong, I dont know anymore. I give up. no point in trying to explaining myself to anyone! but thanks for who did try to help.


I went to jobcorp to get a trade..but after threats I left, plus the class couldnt get anything done because other students would act up an we couldnt get anything done, also the teacher was leaving an I was not about to sit around in that hell whole waiting for a new teacher.

Amen! I'm tempted to ask the OP to put her parents on here!

was just going for the weekend!

more excuses

whatever! leave me alone! your cold!

My intent is not to be cold. My intent is to try for you to see where you make excuses and it is everyone's fault but your own that you have yet to be successful.

My thoughts exactly.. I think you may need to take a step back and really do some soul searching. Since whether you realize it or not. You are giving a lot of excuses on the reason you can't.
I stand my statement.

"CAN'T" Can't do anything

I am actually of the age where I get impressed when I hear I am or I will....
good luck..

ok yes I did make mistakes in the past but I am trying to better myself.. just no one sees it! If your life was threaded would you stay there? I went to someone about it an all they told me was they would keep on eye on me. People were getting beat in their own rooms.

if you live east of Canton.. why not try Malone college out that way? I hear they have a very good nursing program ..Or you could go to Kent State which I know has a great nursing program and you can apply for student loans through them.. I speak from experience on this I went to Kent State and a few friends went there for the nursing programs.. There is a campus in Canto right off 77... It sounmds like your whiningg now and not wanting to make somethin happen for your self.. don't expect life just to be roses all the time or someone else to provide for you.. cut the excuses.... and if you need help with it.. I will help you go through the process.

I am trying.

Move out and be on your own. That way you don't have to answer to anyone, but while you are living under their roof, their rules rule....

I don't wanna do nursing.. wanna get into Pharmacy.. any school doing pharmacy tech? I really need to get into that first. will help in the long run.

when you do that, learn on your own, you will realize how foolish you were for not listening to your parents. right now you can't see it.

Pharmacy Tech is a long way from being a pharmacist, but it is at least a step. I would caution you on student loans. They have to be paid back regardless of whether you complete the training. I see all too often the garnishments on employees wages because they couldn't/wouldn't/didn't pay back the student loans. Check into grants before you put yourself in debt right off the bat.

yes i would, my step-brother went to job-corps...but he finished and stuck by it. Now has a job and a trade. I lived in the country as well where there wasn't anywork,besides splitting firewood, which i did until got enough money to pay for a uhaul on the day i graduated, moved closer to the city, walked to 2 jobs(block buster and target) and used pell grants to go to school lived in a tent. Saved up, bought a car, and got on my own insurance, got a roomate and then got a place...point being where there is a will there is a way...depends on how bad you want it.

It is an itsn't I will be around the drugs, making an what not. getting to know them an what they do. I am already in debt... like I said I have made mistakes. but thats my plan is try to get grants to help with school.

I'm sorry but there's nothing I wouldn't do to help my dad. If his car was broke, I would walk or take the bus before I left my dad without a car if he needed it.

BRAVO!!

If you were tremoring yesterday like you reported in your post your parents just might not want you behind the wheel of a car killing yourself or somebody else.

They might actually care about you and not want you slideing off the road and freezeing to death.

They might not want you to jump out of the skillet into the fire with a guy who is probably telling you that you can move in with him so he can make headway at getting into your britches.

Maybe they know enough if you run off from them again, and end up with him and what is most likely to happen is he gets you pregnant or worse he pimps you out, you will be too humilated to come home again.

There is a point in your life when YOU have to decide wheather you are going to LIVE UP TO YOUR OWN EXPECTATIONS or down to someone elses.

You want prove you are more than what your parents see you as then do what you have to do to make something of yourself.

Evidently you have a lot more than many young women your age. Least you have a roof over your head, food to eat, clothes on your back, and access to a computer. You could learn a lot just useing the computer if you set your mind to it. Applying that willfulness there would be no stopping you if you just stay put until you get your feet really under you.

I don't know about the car deal but maybe your parents will keep it in leui of the free room and board they are putting before you. You are a grown woman now that isn't their job any more. I can think of any number of foster kids who would be glad to trade places with you and see a car title about as worthless a thing to be tradeing your good fortune for as a soiled paper towel. You don't have a job and can't support a vehical. You are lucky it isn't and anchor around your neck.

I don't know why you came home from Job Corp but if you can get back in I would. Least you won't be up to your neck in tuition costs to get training to get you started. If that is out of question you might want to get a live in job as an attendant for a disabled or elderly person and work your way up to your dreams as an EMT or Nurse. There are Independent Living Centers in Indiana I know for a fact and you could interview with the people that go there looking for caregivers.