Perhaps they see the child in you because you haven't found your inner adult?

An adult takes on each challenge and overcomes it.
An adult doesn't rationalize away reasons for taking responsibility.
An adult is not helpless.

Imagine now, for just a moment, that this man you're running to turns out to be an abuser or othewise fails you. What will you do then?

but the car was mine before I left for job corps. I just signed it over to him so we could use it while I was away.

I wanna get my PHD in Pharmacy.

I live northeast Ohio, by canton.

I am trying my hardest to get a job. Thats my challenge right now. I am not rationalizing anything! well I am kinda helpless right now.

He is nothing like that,I know him pretty well. I know he is the one for me.

solve your parent problem lizzy borten style

why not just get it all done in one shot?

Wow..young lady...You are 21, and the world is yours for the taking...You can do anything you want to do. And guess what, YOU are ONLY responsible for YOU..Thank you're lucky stars, that you don't have children yet. It won't be easy, but you can do it..Work, anywhere and everywhere, that can work with you're class schedule..Canton has enough resturants, that you can do it, to make you're rent, and utilities..just find a place close to school, and work..walk if you have to..I'm sure you have friends that will take you about, since you don't have a car in you're name...If you're parents see that you are totally responsible...theres NO way, that they won't help you...Its up to you, to make the 1st move...Don't wait until you have children to take care of also...Good luck sweetie...

You weren't using your car to get a JOB... you were using it to go see your "man".

One thing I find exceptionally funny-
You are ranting about being 21 and an adult but don't have a job!!!?!???!
Part of being this "adult" you claim to be is at least having a job and supporting yourself.

JMO

I'm trying to find a job!! oh my god does no one read these?!?!?! I just got back from jobcorp so I was at school the last 5months! I had to quit my job to go an they are not looking for any help.

really? The college I was looking at said nothing about that. But thanks I will keep that in mind.

umm ok you dont know the whole story. had to wait to get on the parents insurance so I could go look...online was not really working so I got on the insurance last night.. spend all day today out looking.. did 7apps. no one was hiring right now. I was planing on going out the rest of the week looking as well..but now I cant because my dad is using the car.

Legally the truck isn't yours anymore for what ever reason.

I am going to give you the same advice that I would give my kids.. CAN'T can't do a bloody thing I might respect you a bit more if you started telling me what you can do. I as the parent am seeing that you are living in my house I am paying all the bills since you have no job. I am paying for your food, ultlities, gas, insurance etc.. So Yeah if I wanted to use the truck and you wanted to go have a hot date with your guy. sorry Kiddo not happening. Get a job and if you want one bad enough well you will find a way. Also if you went to Job Corps. You should have some skills that employable at some level. I know if I didn't have a job McDonalds would look good.

Bottom line put this negative energy to getting what you want if it is an education then do it.

That's not what you said in your opening post. You said you wanted to go see your boyfriend in New Jersey. Sounds to me like you are just mad at the fact that you can't use the car to go see him.



I don't know about anyone else, but it sure would be interesting to hear the parents side of this story!

so you don't have a job and get to stay at their house and you're pissed? Am I reading that right? If that's the case you have a lot to learn about humility and being grateful for things, if "your man" is all that he can come see you, or just be patient. I don't get why people who are seeing people are on this site anyway, but whatever, good luck with all that.

Why did you go to jobcorp?

Because it's not just a dating site, it's a social site as well. You know, where you make friends? Half the members here are only here because they've made good friends and like to interact with them here.

I said I couldnt use the car for the rest of the week...was gonna go look for a job.

But Im done with this post, maybe I am wrong, I dont know anymore. I give up. no point in trying to explaining myself to anyone! but thanks for who did try to help.


I went to jobcorp to get a trade..but after threats I left, plus the class couldnt get anything done because other students would act up an we couldnt get anything done, also the teacher was leaving an I was not about to sit around in that hell whole waiting for a new teacher.

Amen! I'm tempted to ask the OP to put her parents on here!

was just going for the weekend!

more excuses

whatever! leave me alone! your cold!