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So move to NJ with Randy, have a couple of kids, and when Randy walks out on ya, move back in with your yucky parents. Or get a job and move out on your own for a while. Or join the military. 
There are NO jobs in Ohio! Its soo hard to find a good enough job to live on my own an have money for rent an crap! |
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I'm afraid that as long as you live under their roof, you will be subject to their rules/mandates. 21 or not,,, it is their home. Maybe they treat you like a child, cause you act like a child? Thats how it used to work with us. Your parents want you to get a job and be independent I'm sure. And your still there at 21 years old. *shrugs* I moved out on my own at 18. Only went back when my father was sick with cancer. You have to take responsibility of your own actions. If you don't like the situation your in, get a job and move out on your own. Believe me, once your living in the 'real' world, the parents pad won't look so bad after all. ok but now I cant use my car to go look for a job. How dd I get a job with no car? I wanna get a job an live on my own They don't have buses in your neck of the woods? |
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Where there is a will, there is a way.
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So move to NJ with Randy, have a couple of kids, and when Randy walks out on ya, move back in with your yucky parents. Or get a job and move out on your own for a while. Or join the military.
There are NO jobs in Ohio! Its soo hard to find a good enough job to live on my own an have money for rent an crap! Work two jobs. go back to school and learn a trade. Move to another state. Move to another country. Don't tell the military you got a bad back. |
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BTW, you posted that you went to see a band last weekend, so you obviously have some kind of transportation.
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Edited by
rlynne
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Tue 01/27/09 05:08 PM
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if you want out badly enough you walk.. you don't have kids so really its just you right?
as for not letting you use the car...they probably don't think you will be successful on your own.. not because they doubt you but because they see your actions.. . so they are trying to keep you from making what they think would be a mistake..on your part thats their job as parents |
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Edited by
AllSmilesInTulsa
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Tue 01/27/09 05:11 PM
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they should let me learn on my own! isnt that what life is about? live an learn If you are back home with your parents, your choices are obviously impacting them. |
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My friend was nice enough to take us to the concert.
I really want to get a job an be on my own. I am tring so hard to find a job but like you all know not the best time to find a job with millions geting layed off. Just never mind..but thanks for your advice. |
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So move to NJ with Randy, have a couple of kids, and when Randy walks out on ya, move back in with your yucky parents. Or get a job and move out on your own for a while. Or join the military.
There are NO jobs in Ohio! Its soo hard to find a good enough job to live on my own an have money for rent an crap! There are jobs for people willing to look for them. Getting a job is a job. Later this quarter, I'll be hiring an electronics tech/linux geek and I've already hired 2 others as general labor/machine operator. If you think escaping to your man is going to solve anything, well, you're really in for a lesson in life. |
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I have been looking for a job!!! I was out all day today! I had to wait for my mom to talk my dad into puting me on the insurance so I can look for a job. He wanted me to get a job first. HOW DO I GET A JOB IF I CAN;T DRIVE?!?!?!?!?!?
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Holy crap, what a case of Deja Vu I just got. Raised 4 daughters, heard this too many times to count. Thank God they, and I managed to live through those times. Now they are great, I have 4 grandchildren, and ALL of my girls have come back to me at one time or another to say thanks for not just giving them what they thought they wanted at the time. But I truly understand why some species eat their young.
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I have been looking for a job!!! I was out all day today! I had to wait for my mom to talk my dad into puting me on the insurance so I can look for a job. He wanted me to get a job first. HOW DO I GET A JOB IF I CAN;T DRIVE?!?!?!?!?!? Have you asked your parents this question? |
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okay driving.. makes it easier
I have known a number of people who do not drive don't have a car or even a driver license and they still manage to get to work often two jobs or school, you know how they do it? this is amazing.. they WALK wow....now they work crappy jobs and the pay sucks.. but you do what you have got to do |
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I did ask them... they change the subject!
See you all don't know the whole story. They NEVER stand behind what I do. when I was trying to find what I wanted to do with my life my father kept telling me he didn't think I could do it..he tells me all the time I will never become anything. He is soo negative towards me. |
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They NEVER stand behind what I do.
If it is a poor choice, I don't blame them. |
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okay driving.. makes it easier I have known a number of people who do not drive don't have a car or even a driver license and they still manage to get to work often two jobs or school, you know how they do it? this is amazing.. they WALK wow....now they work crappy jobs and the pay sucks.. but you do what you have got to do |
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They NEVER stand behind what I do. If it is a poor choice, I don't blame them.
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okay, this may seem odd.. however I really do understand what you are experiencing
how can you move forward when you are asking for help and all you get is "Oh we can't help you" or "you'll never make it, anyway" but here is the thing... do NOT depend on a man to save you...it will be one of the biggest mistakes you could ever make... If you cannot depend on your family to help you, because they are negative.. do it as if they were not there.. if you didn't have them at all what would you do to get a job... also who's name is on the title of the car in question? |
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They NEVER stand behind what I do. If it is a poor choice, I don't blame them.
You didn't specify the choice. I think that would be a good choice but I don't know you, your history, nor your current situation. I do know that parents want the best for their children. I wish I had listened to my parents... it would have been far better than the school of hard knocks. |
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cause i've got to be free
free to face a life thats ahead of me 
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