Topic: trust
1andonlyCJ's photo
Mon 01/26/09 11:19 PM
how can you distill trust into a girl that your pursuing when shes not sure about you?

and im not trying to just get laid, i really really really like this chik

Shagwell's photo
Mon 01/26/09 11:21 PM

how can you distill trust into a girl that your pursuing when shes not sure about you?

and im not trying to just get laid, i really really really like this chik



give her time and let her know the real you! drinker

Winx's photo
Mon 01/26/09 11:21 PM

how can you distill trust into a girl that your pursuing when shes not sure about you?

and im not trying to just get laid, i really really really like this chik


I think it's shown with behavior. Words don't mean anything without the behavior.

no photo
Mon 01/26/09 11:22 PM
DO WHAT youre going to say and say what youre going to do.........consistently!flowerforyou


Oh!!! and buy her chocolate!!!bigsmile

Shagwell's photo
Mon 01/26/09 11:23 PM

DO WHAT youre going to say and say what youre going to do.........consistently!flowerforyou


Oh!!! and buy her chocolate!!!bigsmile



what is it with you women and chocolate, like it taste good or something! :laughing:

GodoftheMind's photo
Mon 01/26/09 11:24 PM
Chocolate... drool ANYWAY! Actions speak louder then words. If you've done anything in the past to make her have doubts, girls hold grudges FOREVER... I grew up with a family of girls. But yeah, be yourself, if she doesn't trust you still then it's not worth pursuing after a while. Just move on.

1andonlyCJ's photo
Mon 01/26/09 11:25 PM


DO WHAT youre going to say and say what youre going to do.........consistently!flowerforyou


Oh!!! and buy her chocolate!!!bigsmile



what is it with you women and chocolate, like it taste good or something! :laughing:


chocolates and aphrodesiac man....yea i know i dont know how to spell it

Drifters13's photo
Mon 01/26/09 11:28 PM

how can you distill trust into a girl that your pursuing when shes not sure about you?

and im not trying to just get laid, i really really really like this chik


Chill and be a friend, show her who you are.

But at the same time keep an eye on your wallet and don't let her take advantage of you and your kindness.

I had a girl that acted the same way and she was only after favors and money. But they arn't all like that. Just keep your eyes open.

Just my perspective.

1andonlyCJ's photo
Mon 01/26/09 11:31 PM


how can you distill trust into a girl that your pursuing when shes not sure about you?

and im not trying to just get laid, i really really really like this chik


Chill and be a friend, show her who you are.

But at the same time keep an eye on your wallet and don't let her take advantage of you and your kindness.

I had a girl that acted the same way and she was only after favors and money. But they arn't all like that. Just keep your eyes open.

Just my perspective.


well im certain she aint after just money

Mr_Music's photo
Tue 01/27/09 02:01 AM
First, you're better off trying to INSTILL trust rather than DISTILL it.

Secondly, you're 23 years old. Time to grow up. Forget about girls, move on to women.

Thirdly, is she little and fuzzy and yellow with a beak and goes, "peep, peep, peep"? If not, it's probably best not to refer to her as a chick.

1andonlyCJ's photo
Tue 01/27/09 06:14 AM

First, you're better off trying to INSTILL trust rather than DISTILL it.

Secondly, you're 23 years old. Time to grow up. Forget about girls, move on to women.

Thirdly, is she little and fuzzy and yellow with a beak and goes, "peep, peep, peep"? If not, it's probably best not to refer to her as a chick.




instill....thats what i meant to say.

good point, she is 22, but she can have an immature mentality at times.

im figuring ill just give it time and let it go and see if she contacts me anytime soon instead of me always pursuing her.

lilith401's photo
Tue 01/27/09 06:39 AM
Some women are used to being pursued and that is their preference. But do not give her the power, then you have lost. It sounds as though maybe you two should just talk, as it is sounding a bit like a game.

Citizen_Joe's photo
Tue 01/27/09 05:35 PM

how can you distill trust into a girl that your pursuing when shes not sure about you?

and im not trying to just get laid, i really really really like this chik


You distill alcohol. Stop chasing her and just enjoy her company.

SitkaRains's photo
Tue 01/27/09 06:43 PM

how can you distill trust into a girl that your pursuing when shes not sure about you?

and im not trying to just get laid, i really really really like this chik


Trust isn't something you instill in someone. Trust has to grow very slowly and with out pressure. That is usually done by getting to know the person and letting them see into the real you.

I believe before trust is given. Yes it is something given not taken. It is a very precious gift. Anyway I digress, You must have intimacy to have trust. I like the saying and break down of that word.

Intimacy
In-to-me-U-cee...


good luck

PATSFAN's photo
Tue 01/27/09 06:45 PM
smokin Trust no onesmokin