this reminds me of the time I coloured my hair black, when I was in my 20's. I think he noticed he just didnt want to hurt my feelings because I looked terrible with black hair!!

He could have said SOMETHING though.....instead I thought he was a retarded pot head!!!

Just for men keeps me in the game

Do you change your hair often? Wear it up and down back and forth a lot?

Amazes me how many say run or forget them for they are not paying attention to you.

But.....has anyone considered first of all she did not say for sure what the change was.

If in fact it was her hair and she changed the color. Was it that drastic of a change that he would notice it? I mean I have seen many tims that others would color their hair so much that you finally don't even pay attention to it any more. If in fact she cut it in a different style or wore it different shhshs come on most the times guys don't notice that kind of stuff.

But in no way does it mean that they don't care about them.

more correctly it shows something about that person .. and it's not good

I was a hairstylist back then.......but I know you were asking the OP.

That we all have different needs and expectations from our significant other but without clearly communicating with them we often leave them clueless to what we as a person need from them to feel "loved"

Yes, he may not have noticed your new hair color, but did you notice that he filled your car with gas for you, etc etc.

If having a compliment for something that you did different is something you "need" from your relationship but they are not normally the type to "notice" trying then saying "I did this _____" and asking them. People aren't mind readers and as much as we'd like to them to be it's usually easier to actually talk about it than have the let down or disappointment involved otherwise.

If you get a boob job they definately will NOTICE!!!

Just another dumb question, why not ask your partner/lover/sign other? How do you like the change I did to whatever?

they will notice the change, you will get your feedback - no guessing needed

jmo

Yeah... I used to wear my hair up a lot in a pontytail when it was long, and I changed the color from red to brown a lot. Hell, half the time I didn't notice if it was different....

How is the guy going to notice nuances like that? I mean we don't have enough information, maybe you shaved it bald and died your scalp pink, who knows?

it means that if a pickle hit you upside your head would you ask the pickle who threw it or find the person who did and ask why they did it?

What's this topic about? I didn't notice.

My dad noticed when I coloured my hair red. He called me ugly.......I guess I have to stick with blonde.

you can't be right, too simple

go right to the source or find the source

ask questions when seeking answers

prevents anyone from getting their feelings hurt and others from guessing.

I did change my hair from blond to dark brown, very dramatic, and the guy I was seeing at the time didn't notice, and we ended up falling into the limbo zone of our relationship. I think I should have noticed with the hair thing but I didn't want to read too much into it.

He's a normal guy???

Brunettes

perhaps your not noticing the things he does differently. that has a direct effect on his motivation to prais you on the little things your changing. it really works both ways.

you compliment him on the next thing you notice differently, the im sure you'll start seeing a change in attitude, although if your methods don't catch on. you might want to reevaluate the relationship perhaps.

my apologies its over now, anyway *Edit*

It has the flu.

this goes with out saying.. but men do need to be more aware.. as women do actually do this... and if she judges you for not noticeing litle things.. get real and have a talk about it.. running isn't an answer.