Topic: I give up for now
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Mon 01/19/09 09:52 AM
I'm done trying to meet people to date even being young it seems people I meet show initial interest then just decide to stop talking to me. I'm not looking for pity just trying to vent. I guess I'm just wondering why I can make friends easy but never dates or relationships I thought meeting someone in person rather than online would work but it didn't. I guess I'll just think about what makes me unattractive to women and fix that or hope someone can look past whatever that may be. Well im done here venting

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Mon 01/19/09 09:54 AM
I wish I could offer you some words of wisdom. When you least expect it, the right person will come along, I'm confident.:smile:

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Mon 01/19/09 09:55 AM
it always seems to happen that way

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Mon 01/19/09 09:55 AM
waving

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Mon 01/19/09 09:56 AM
do you want a make over?????


<----gets out the blow drier and gel!!!bigsmile

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Mon 01/19/09 09:57 AM
You're young focus on more important things like a career and your friends.

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Mon 01/19/09 09:59 AM
I agree dating online is a lot harder than the real world, chances you will meet someone at Walmart and get their number are a lot greater than online, maybe 10:1, but this is a good place to kill some time and have some fun in the forums! good luck! flowerforyou

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Mon 01/19/09 10:04 AM

I'm done trying to meet people to date even being young it seems people I meet show initial interest then just decide to stop talking to me. I'm not looking for pity just trying to vent. I guess I'm just wondering why I can make friends easy but never dates or relationships I thought meeting someone in person rather than online would work but it didn't. I guess I'll just think about what makes me unattractive to women and fix that or hope someone can look past whatever that may be. Well im done here venting


Never let rejection get you down. Concentrate on the important things in your life, like work, and your friends. If you stop looking for love, it will find you when you least expect it.

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Mon 01/19/09 11:37 AM

I guess I'll just think about what makes me unattractive to women


I'm guessing that's a big part of the problem right there. That initial assumption. You know, the problem doesn't necessarily always have to be "you."



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Mon 01/19/09 11:57 AM
Actually with all the stuff you have going on right now with College and a career. If I was you I would not even be looking but instead putting my time where it is needed more into your future.

Yeah I can say this for you see a lot of times we all make mistakes when we are younger and put our energy into the wrong thing instead of where we really needed too.

If I could turn the clock back and change anything it would in fact be where my head was when it came to my career instead of let my thoughts are with finding someone.

You see if you’re good at your career it will always be there and you will get better at it. But relationships no matter how hard you try at times or how well you are they don’t last like we want them too.

So focus on your future and your career you will be happy you did down the road.

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Mon 01/19/09 12:04 PM

Actually with all the stuff you have going on right now with College and a career. If I was you I would not even be looking but instead putting my time where it is needed more into your future.

Yeah I can say this for you see a lot of times we all make mistakes when we are younger and put our energy into the wrong thing instead of where we really needed too.

If I could turn the clock back and change anything it would in fact be where my head was when it came to my career instead of let my thoughts are with finding someone.

You see if you’re good at your career it will always be there and you will get better at it. But relationships no matter how hard you try at times or how well you are they don’t last like we want them too.

So focus on your future and your career you will be
happy you did down the road.

I'm very focused I get all a's and b's in school I have a3.78 Gpa, but I still want someone to be with I hate seeing people my age happily with someone while I only have friends I'm just sick of being screwed by girls lately or completely ignored I just want someone to be with sometimes besides my friends and my focus is always on school but is a gf or relationship so much to ask

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Mon 01/19/09 12:05 PM
Hey if you see unread deleted don't be disappointed, some users (.01%) get 100 new emails a day if they have a great picture up. People like that don't have time to read

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Mon 01/19/09 02:32 PM
and the beat go and the beat go........crazy

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Mon 01/19/09 02:37 PM
I am just the opposite. I am a full time student and work full time and also do an internship. My plate is full. If I were to start a relationship, I would lose my focus. Also, it would't be fair to the other person because of lack of time. We would never have together time. JMO

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Mon 01/19/09 02:37 PM
There are a lot of females on here I started talking to and it seems we both decided to just stop messaging because we realized that we are two different people with nothing really in common. However if you keep trying you can find the one that is almost the same person as you and maybe that conversation will keep going until something more comes out of it. At least that is what has happened to me. I'm talking to a wonderful woman right now and whats better is that I never would have expected to find it on this site.

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Mon 01/19/09 02:37 PM
immma let this ride out........



booo turn the lights out,

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Mon 01/19/09 02:46 PM

I'm done trying to meet people to date even being young it seems people I meet show initial interest then just decide to stop talking to me. I'm not looking for pity just trying to vent. I guess I'm just wondering why I can make friends easy but never dates or relationships I thought meeting someone in person rather than online would work but it didn't. I guess I'll just think about what makes me unattractive to women and fix that or hope someone can look past whatever that may be. Well im done here venting


That's a pretty good position you are in about it. When I surrender to it my attitude changes and my demeanor. I don't try so hard or try to control it so much. Its like a paradox. Keep that attitude and you will find someone to date. Maybe that's why they say when you stop looking... BAAM!!! There she is.laugh laugh Be patient.

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Mon 01/19/09 02:51 PM
:smile: anyone like some cheese with that whine? i like cheese...be seeing you