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Topic: Control Issues?
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Sun 01/18/09 07:04 PM
spock Would you say you have control issues? spock

ledi180's photo
Sun 01/18/09 07:05 PM
No issue at all as long as you do what I say laugh

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Sun 01/18/09 07:05 PM

spock Would you say you have control issues? spock


frustrated Yes, I lost the remote to my TV frustrated

PATSFAN's photo
Sun 01/18/09 07:06 PM
:angry: Shut up & get me a beer , Jerk:angry:

smokin And do it when I tell yousmokin







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Paul5bs's photo
Sun 01/18/09 07:06 PM
nope

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sun 01/18/09 07:07 PM
I have no issues with it at all. It's really no problem because I am in control of it...lol

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Sun 01/18/09 07:08 PM
Edited by sensualsweet on Sun 01/18/09 07:09 PM

spock Would you say you have control issues? spock



Are we talking "Bladder" here???

Just had to go for it... sorry, I just feel tho thilly tonight. blushing

galendgirl's photo
Sun 01/18/09 07:08 PM

I have no issues with it at all. It's really no problem because I am in control of it...lol


...and we just let you keep on believing that flowerforyou

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sun 01/18/09 07:09 PM


I have no issues with it at all. It's really no problem because I am in control of it...lol


...and we just let you keep on believing that flowerforyou


Hey. What does a man have if not his delusions???

dbh1966's photo
Sun 01/18/09 07:09 PM

No issue at all as long as you do what I say laugh


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dbh1966's photo
Sun 01/18/09 07:10 PM

:angry: Shut up & get me a beer , Jerk:angry:

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ShagnaC's photo
Sun 01/18/09 07:10 PM
I think a lot of people have different issues with control, just different areas in their life. As long as you dont try and control others then I dont see a big problem with it as long as it doesnt control you lol

galendgirl's photo
Sun 01/18/09 07:10 PM



I have no issues with it at all. It's really no problem because I am in control of it...lol


...and we just let you keep on believing that flowerforyou


Hey. What does a man have if not his delusions???


Touche' :banana:

dbh1966's photo
Sun 01/18/09 07:11 PM


spock Would you say you have control issues? spock



Are we talking "Bladder" here???

Just had to go for it... sorry, I just feel tho thilly tonight. blushing


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galendgirl's photo
Sun 01/18/09 07:11 PM
...and since the cat is back for 'lap time' while I'm on the computer, I know that I am totally NOT in control.

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Sun 01/18/09 07:12 PM
Edited by Krimsa on Sun 01/18/09 07:16 PM

spock Would you say you have control issues? spock


YES. I am a VERY controlling person. A lot of that comes from my past career which was in the field of science. I am a very analytical and precise person by nature. I possess a very exacting sense of dicipline. Submissive men tend to fall under my spell quite easily so it works out well in that respect. It’s never been a hindrance and I’ve always viewed it as a positive attribute of my overall character.

dbh1966's photo
Sun 01/18/09 07:12 PM

I think a lot of people have different issues with control, just different areas in their life. As long as you dont try and control others then I dont see a big problem with it as long as it doesnt control you lol


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Sun 01/18/09 07:12 PM

spock Would you say you have control issues? spock


The only issue with "control" I have is when the other party seeks to exert more control than is acceptable toward me. Otherwise, I'm pretty laid back and have no issues.

FreeToB's photo
Sun 01/18/09 07:17 PM
There is positive control and negative control. I lived in the D/s lifestyle for a very long time where positive control was...positive. However, I never felt the need to control someone, or "make" anyone do anything. I do control most situations that I am involved in but not like a dictator, tyrant or sadist. Just as a calm individual who thinks before he acts.

But negative control, where one feel the need to control another person against their will or to feed their own ego is a bad thing that I have not done.

One would say it's good to control your children and teach them well. If an authority figure controls a situation, it is good.

My point is that control can be good or bad depending on the context it is exercised in.

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Sun 01/18/09 07:22 PM
Control issues???



Who said I had control issues????




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