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Topic: Too fast?
_Amanda_'s photo
Sun 01/18/09 05:47 PM
ok, so here's my scenario:

I've been talking to someone for a bit over a week, we've met twice, and he has told me on numerous occassions already that he wants to spend the rest of his life with me.

I'm sitting here telling him to slowww down, and he agrees that it is fast, but says that he's never felt like this before and knows what he wants.

Could someone know that that soon? I know I couldnt.

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sun 01/18/09 05:49 PM
cough*bulls!t*cough

PATSFAN's photo
Sun 01/18/09 05:50 PM
shocked That's way to soon

rlynne's photo
Sun 01/18/09 05:50 PM
I would say run...but try not to attract attention..so walk away and never look back


I don't think anyone could KNOW that so soon...

_Amanda_'s photo
Sun 01/18/09 05:51 PM
would it be vain to wait till after he fixes my car?:tongue:

Queene123's photo
Sun 01/18/09 05:51 PM

ok, so here's my scenario:

I've been talking to someone for a bit over a week, we've met twice, and he has told me on numerous occassions already that he wants to spend the rest of his life with me.

I'm sitting here telling him to slowww down, and he agrees that it is fast, but says that he's never felt like this before and knows what he wants.

Could someone know that that soon? I know I couldnt.


yea that can actually happen. as i told my guy that i felt that i met my bestfriend..

SweetnFunny's photo
Sun 01/18/09 05:51 PM

shocked That's way to soon


Agrees.

Winx's photo
Sun 01/18/09 05:51 PM

ok, so here's my scenario:

I've been talking to someone for a bit over a week, we've met twice, and he has told me on numerous occassions already that he wants to spend the rest of his life with me.

I'm sitting here telling him to slowww down, and he agrees that it is fast, but says that he's never felt like this before and knows what he wants.

Could someone know that that soon? I know I couldnt.


Someone once asked me to move in with him after our second dinner date. That scary to me. I ran and never looked back.
I found out a year later that he was stalking me.

Tanzkity's photo
Sun 01/18/09 05:52 PM
He know he wants to screw you................just trying to get in those pants girl........aint no way in hell someone knows a person that quick.....................grumble

mchstiger06's photo
Sun 01/18/09 05:52 PM
he either wants some ass... or he is genuinely in "lust" ... i've noticed that guys with a bad history of dating tend to "fall in love" a lot sooner than others. now i'm not saying he loves you this soon, he just thinks he does.

i recommend slowing down the conversation and stuff between you two if you're looking to slow things down.

no photo
Sun 01/18/09 05:52 PM

would it be vain to wait till after he fixes my car?:tongue:
vain? you mean useing him don't you ask yourself this what if the roles were reversed would you like itfrustrated

PATSFAN's photo
Sun 01/18/09 05:53 PM

would it be vain to wait till after he fixes my car?:tongue:


slaphead If you have any questions about cars , I'm a mechanic by trade. Oh that poor guylaugh laugh laugh

Queene123's photo
Sun 01/18/09 05:53 PM

He know he wants to screw you................just trying to get in those pants girl........aint no way in hell someone knows a person that quick.....................grumble


have you ever thought he could be a gentalman.. there are some still out there. and i found one of them

Winx's photo
Sun 01/18/09 05:53 PM

ok, so here's my scenario:

I've been talking to someone for a bit over a week, we've met twice, and he has told me on numerous occassions already that he wants to spend the rest of his life with me.

I'm sitting here telling him to slowww down, and he agrees that it is fast, but says that he's never felt like this before and knows what he wants.

Could someone know that that soon? I know I couldnt.


It's humanly impossible to know that soon, I think.

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Sun 01/18/09 05:53 PM
To him his feelings are real. Though I don't think it is "love", I'm sure to him it is.

I have to say that it is nice to hear a man be so open with his emotions... misguided or not.

Tanzkity's photo
Sun 01/18/09 05:54 PM


ok, so here's my scenario:

I've been talking to someone for a bit over a week, we've met twice, and he has told me on numerous occassions already that he wants to spend the rest of his life with me.

I'm sitting here telling him to slowww down, and he agrees that it is fast, but says that he's never felt like this before and knows what he wants.

Could someone know that that soon? I know I couldnt.


Someone once asked me to move in with him after our second dinner date. That scary to me. I ran and never looked back.
I found out a year later that he was stalking me.


Thats a cute pic Winx............flowerforyou

_Amanda_'s photo
Sun 01/18/09 05:54 PM

He know he wants to screw you................just trying to get in those pants girl........aint no way in hell someone knows a person that quick.....................grumble


I would think he could find some ass a bit closer to home, we live a bit over one and a half hrs apart.

Winx's photo
Sun 01/18/09 05:55 PM



ok, so here's my scenario:

I've been talking to someone for a bit over a week, we've met twice, and he has told me on numerous occassions already that he wants to spend the rest of his life with me.

I'm sitting here telling him to slowww down, and he agrees that it is fast, but says that he's never felt like this before and knows what he wants.

Could someone know that that soon? I know I couldnt.


Someone once asked me to move in with him after our second dinner date. That scary to me. I ran and never looked back.
I found out a year later that he was stalking me.


Thats a cute pic Winx............flowerforyou


Wow! Thanks.happy flowerforyou

You know that I like yours too.flowerforyou

dbh1966's photo
Sun 01/18/09 05:55 PM

ok, so here's my scenario:

I've been talking to someone for a bit over a week, we've met twice, and he has told me on numerous occassions already that he wants to spend the rest of his life with me.

I'm sitting here telling him to slowww down, and he agrees that it is fast, but says that he's never felt like this before and knows what he wants.

Could someone know that that soon? I know I couldnt.


Depends on his honesty, desperation for relationship (how long has he been without someone), If he knows healthy relationships. Personally I don't see reason to move so quickly. Wheres the fire? spock

Winx's photo
Sun 01/18/09 05:57 PM


ok, so here's my scenario:

I've been talking to someone for a bit over a week, we've met twice, and he has told me on numerous occassions already that he wants to spend the rest of his life with me.

I'm sitting here telling him to slowww down, and he agrees that it is fast, but says that he's never felt like this before and knows what he wants.

Could someone know that that soon? I know I couldnt.


Depends on his honesty, desperation for relationship (how long has he been without someone), If he knows healthy relationships. Personally I don't see reason to move so quickly. Wheres the fire? spock


It's creepy, IMO.

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