Topic: Are you a cheater?
Totage's photo
Sun 01/11/09 07:25 PM

Have you ever cheated while being in a relationship? Have you been cheated on?

Why do you think it happens?


Yes
Yes
It just does. ohwell

I did learn from it though, so it wasn't as bad as it could have been.

Deadline's photo
Sun 01/11/09 07:38 PM



i did. bigsmile
well, weed ... but who hasn't done weed?


as for the cheating?
i was cheated on twice .. out of three relationships. have i ever cheated? no. (honestly) but i wouldnt put it past me to cheat .. it's in my dna. mad


That's my point! Everyone has a least tried drugs!
Not my DNA either...

tessa68's photo
Sun 01/11/09 09:18 PM

Have you ever cheated while being in a relationship? Have you been cheated on?

Why do you think it happens?


NO!Never!mad mad mad

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sun 01/11/09 09:23 PM
5 relationships. Been cheated on 4 times.

Tanzkity's photo
Sun 01/11/09 09:28 PM
No but temptation is a biotch on wheels sometimes...............even adam couldnt stop himself he had to eat the apple................oh its so hard sometimes to be good...........

cityblues21's photo
Sun 01/11/09 09:44 PM
noway


i`m guessing 99.99% of the people who respond to this thread will say they are not cheaters. especially the ones on here looking for a relationship...lol


lol... true...
and its funny... I had asked before if people used drugs at all and EVERYONE said they never did. What a bunch liars... lol




Did it occur to you that perhaps that the people who have cheated will just choose not to respond to this thread at all? And that the people who are actually responding are telling the truth?
You are assuming just because the numbers are not what you feel they should be, that everyone is a liar... this really isn't a scientific poll to be able to base your theory upon of everyone not telling the truth. So you are unfairly categorizing everyone who responds as a probable liar...

And to stay on topic... No, I am not a cheater noway

Tanzkity's photo
Sun 01/11/09 09:48 PM

noway


i`m guessing 99.99% of the people who respond to this thread will say they are not cheaters. especially the ones on here looking for a relationship...lol


lol... true...
and its funny... I had asked before if people used drugs at all and EVERYONE said they never did. What a bunch liars... lol




Did it occur to you that perhaps that the people who have cheated will just choose not to respond to this thread at all? And that the people who are actually responding are telling the truth?
You are assuming just because the numbers are not what you feel they should be, that everyone is a liar... this really isn't a scientific poll to be able to base your theory upon of everyone not telling the truth. So you are unfairly categorizing everyone who responds as a probable liar...

And to stay on topic... No, I am not a cheater noway



Wow so this was suppose to be a trick question............or reverse psychology.............and both techniques didnt work.................good for you for telling it like it is.............happy

Deadline's photo
Sun 01/11/09 09:56 PM
Edited by Deadline on Sun 01/11/09 09:57 PM

noway


i`m guessing 99.99% of the people who respond to this thread will say they are not cheaters. especially the ones on here looking for a relationship...lol


lol... true...
and its funny... I had asked before if people used drugs at all and EVERYONE said they never did. What a bunch liars... lol




Did it occur to you that perhaps that the people who have cheated will just choose not to respond to this thread at all? And that the people who are actually responding are telling the truth?
You are assuming just because the numbers are not what you feel they should be, that everyone is a liar... this really isn't a scientific poll to be able to base your theory upon of everyone not telling the truth. So you are unfairly categorizing everyone who responds as a probable liar...

And to stay on topic... No, I am not a cheater noway


Actually… there has been several people that said they have cheated before…
I don’t think everyone is a liar, nor do I think everyone telling the truth. That is a fact. But cottonelle is correct. Telling the truth about this particular matter on this particular site can harm those who had cheated… Don’t you think?

That's why its safe to assume that not everyone is telling the truth.


canaryrx8's photo
Sun 01/11/09 09:57 PM
I've never used narcotics or cheated on anyone ever, belive it or not, it is possible to survive and live and not wither away into dust without infidelity and getting high/drunk/****faced etc. :tongue:
I believe in the "golden rule" and I've been cheated on before, I could never ever in a million years make another person feel the way that feels, it's a horrible feeling and no matter what circumstance or whatever, I feel there is honestly no excuse for it and I would never wish it on another person or partake in anything that resembles it. If you're in a relationship and something else comes along you should end it and go with the something else, not continue the existing relationship and pursue other ones, it's pretty simple really, but somehow lots of people really like to make a huge mess of it. laugh

HawaiiMusikMan's photo
Sun 01/11/09 10:01 PM
Never cheated but was cheated on once. I wouldn't do that to someone.

Deadline's photo
Sun 01/11/09 10:02 PM

I've never used narcotics or cheated on anyone ever, belive it or not, it is possible to survive and live and not wither away into dust without infidelity and getting high/drunk/****faced etc. :tongue:
I believe in the "golden rule" and I've been cheated on before, I could never ever in a million years make another person feel the way that feels, it's a horrible feeling and no matter what circumstance or whatever, I feel there is honestly no excuse for it and I would never wish it on another person or partake in anything that resembles it. If you're in a relationship and something else comes along you should end it and go with the something else, not continue the existing relationship and pursue other ones, it's pretty simple really, but somehow lots of people really like to make a huge mess of it. laugh


Good for you. I have never cheated on anyone and nobody ever cheated on me. But I have tried a lot of drugs in my lifetime. lol...

But trying is different from doing... I guess I am proud to say that I had never been addicted to anything.

cityblues21's photo
Sun 01/11/09 10:05 PM


noway


i`m guessing 99.99% of the people who respond to this thread will say they are not cheaters. especially the ones on here looking for a relationship...lol


lol... true...
and its funny... I had asked before if people used drugs at all and EVERYONE said they never did. What a bunch liars... lol




Did it occur to you that perhaps that the people who have cheated will just choose not to respond to this thread at all? And that the people who are actually responding are telling the truth?
You are assuming just because the numbers are not what you feel they should be, that everyone is a liar... this really isn't a scientific poll to be able to base your theory upon of everyone not telling the truth. So you are unfairly categorizing everyone who responds as a probable liar...

And to stay on topic... No, I am not a cheater noway


Actually… there has been several people that said they have cheated before…
I don’t think everyone is a liar, nor do I think everyone telling the truth. That is a fact. But cottonelle is correct. Telling the truth about this particular matter on this particular site can harm those who had cheated… Don’t you think?

That's why its safe to assume that not everyone is telling the truth.




Which is why I would think as self preservation, they would foregoe answering this thread at all, if they were afraid to say the truth. Eventually if someone lies it will be found out.

canaryrx8's photo
Sun 01/11/09 10:08 PM

Eventually if someone lies it will be found out.


yup, that pretty much says it all, nothing is more persistent than truth.

Deadline's photo
Sun 01/11/09 10:11 PM



noway


i`m guessing 99.99% of the people who respond to this thread will say they are not cheaters. especially the ones on here looking for a relationship...lol


lol... true...
and its funny... I had asked before if people used drugs at all and EVERYONE said they never did. What a bunch liars... lol




Did it occur to you that perhaps that the people who have cheated will just choose not to respond to this thread at all? And that the people who are actually responding are telling the truth?
You are assuming just because the numbers are not what you feel they should be, that everyone is a liar... this really isn't a scientific poll to be able to base your theory upon of everyone not telling the truth. So you are unfairly categorizing everyone who responds as a probable liar...

And to stay on topic... No, I am not a cheater noway


Actually… there has been several people that said they have cheated before…
I don’t think everyone is a liar, nor do I think everyone telling the truth. That is a fact. But cottonelle is correct. Telling the truth about this particular matter on this particular site can harm those who had cheated… Don’t you think?

That's why its safe to assume that not everyone is telling the truth.




Which is why I would think as self preservation, they would foregoe answering this thread at all, if they were afraid to say the truth. Eventually if someone lies it will be found out.


Actually... I wasn't thinking people were ling in this particular thread... I thought people lied in the thread I made about drugs: http://mingle2.com/topic/show/196311

7z3r05's photo
Sun 01/11/09 10:13 PM
hold l and r then press X X Y B A then START and SELECT

oh... nevermind.

ive never cheated on anyone and have been cheated on. it was NOT fun at all and forever jeopardized the relationship.

lots of pain.

cityblues21's photo
Sun 01/11/09 10:30 PM




noway


i`m guessing 99.99% of the people who respond to this thread will say they are not cheaters. especially the ones on here looking for a relationship...lol


lol... true...
and its funny... I had asked before if people used drugs at all and EVERYONE said they never did. What a bunch liars... lol




Did it occur to you that perhaps that the people who have cheated will just choose not to respond to this thread at all? And that the people who are actually responding are telling the truth?
You are assuming just because the numbers are not what you feel they should be, that everyone is a liar... this really isn't a scientific poll to be able to base your theory upon of everyone not telling the truth. So you are unfairly categorizing everyone who responds as a probable liar...

And to stay on topic... No, I am not a cheater noway


Actually… there has been several people that said they have cheated before…
I don’t think everyone is a liar, nor do I think everyone telling the truth. That is a fact. But cottonelle is correct. Telling the truth about this particular matter on this particular site can harm those who had cheated… Don’t you think?

That's why its safe to assume that not everyone is telling the truth.




Which is why I would think as self preservation, they would foregoe answering this thread at all, if they were afraid to say the truth. Eventually if someone lies it will be found out.


Actually... I wasn't thinking people were ling in this particular thread... I thought people lied in the thread I made about drugs: http://mingle2.com/topic/show/196311


Understood, but I would still think with the same premise, the people who CHOSE to respond to the drug topic would vehemently answer truthfully, and those who had something to hide or could not say truth, would foregoe the thread entirely. But this is just my opinion... ohwell

no photo
Mon 01/12/09 12:35 PM
Edited by angelindarkness on Mon 01/12/09 12:42 PM

Have you ever cheated while being in a relationship? Have you been cheated on?

Why do you think it happens?

I have never cheated. At least not knowingly. In other words, I never went behind anyone's back that I was committed to and/or actively seeing. I've never kept any secrets.

Yes, I have been cheated on.

It happens for as many reasons as there are people. Sometimes its an issue with the individual, other times, there is a problem in the relationship. The timing of when it happens can give you a clue as to why, sometimes, too.

no photo
Mon 01/12/09 12:37 PM


No, but I have broken up with someone to be with someone else! spock whoa shocked


that's not too far off....

Depends on what a person defines "cheating" as, wouldn't you think.

no photo
Mon 01/12/09 12:38 PM




i did. bigsmile
well, weed ... but who hasn't done weed?


as for the cheating?
i was cheated on twice .. out of three relationships. have i ever cheated? no. (honestly) but i wouldnt put it past me to cheat .. it's in my dna. mad


That's my point! Everyone has a least tried drugs!

I've never tried anything besides alcohol. Too many control issues to risk it.

SweetnFunny's photo
Mon 01/12/09 01:41 PM

Have you ever cheated while being in a relationship? Have you been cheated on?

Why do you think it happens?


Does emotional cheating count? Where you start talking to and confiding in someone else more than your mate? Or is that just a prelude to physically cheating on them?