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Topic: dang. he said it...
singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Sat 01/10/09 02:20 PM
someone has to..... I mean, she said in the original post that he said he was horny. Why does that make him a jerk? (other than the fact he just invited her over to have sex, that is a little too forward. this part I'm not disagreeing with.) I just want to make sure that you girls aren't looking for a man with no sex drive at all. like some sort of an all obeying drone that in the end will bore you to death in real life. No, I was just commenting on your post about you saying that maybe he was horny.

baitshopbilly Joined Thu 01/01/09 Posts: 85	Sat 01/10/09 02:23 PM


JoeW99 Joined Tue 12/30/08 Posts: 809	Sat 01/10/09 02:23 PM Edited by JoeW99 on Sat 01/10/09 02:25 PM
someone has to..... I mean, she said in the original post that he said he was horny. Why does that make him a jerk? (other than the fact he just invited her over to have sex, that is a little too forward. this part I'm not disagreeing with.) I just want to make sure that you girls aren't looking for a man with no sex drive at all. like some sort of an all obeying drone that in the end will bore you to death in real life. Maybe i can clear up something for you. ANY GIRL/WOMEN in this forum can get laid... if you are a female and just want to get laid you go to a bar (disguard your standards) and make it known this is your intent. THERE WILL ALWAYS BE A GUY TO TAKE YOU UP ON IT. - mind you not a good guy.. but a guy. Not every man on this site can do the samething.. call it unfair but it's life. What i'm trying to explain to you is chances are most of the females that come to this site are looking for something more meaningful then random FUCl<. They are looking for a relationship or someone that is real. Thus a converstation and getting to know each other as well as having like interests seems a must before you dive into the.. LETS GET NAKED line. Hope you kinda get where i'm coming from on this.

thinkingaboutit09 Joined Fri 01/02/09 Posts: 1370	Sat 01/10/09 02:24 PM
well this is what i know. There are some women on this site that are not as innocent as they portray themselves to be. Sometimes saying how perverted one man may be just says im a prude. i dont know thats just me no offense to anyone. I love women and im willing to give that person when i find her what she wants. I dont care for all this distant sex stuff either, but im not gonna say i wouldnt do it for the right person either. Yep thats too much info! Just wanted to make my point thats all. One person saying another person is perverted does not make them a prude. well i agree but i pay attention and i can read between the lines so whatever. I was trying to bring the other side of the argument without being offensive. its hard to do sometimes. sorry Sounds to me like you were just assuming. [/quote okay

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Sat 01/10/09 02:24 PM
I think you were just reading into things too much. I don't think she said anywhere she wanted a guy who didn't have a sex drive.

baitshopbilly Joined Thu 01/01/09 Posts: 85	Sat 01/10/09 02:27 PM
good point joe. isn't that why we are here too?

PacificStar48 Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 13764	Sat 01/10/09 02:32 PM
someone has to..... I mean, she said in the original post that he said he was horny. Why does that make him a jerk? (other than the fact he just invited her over to have sex, that is a little too forward. this part I'm not disagreeing with.) I just want to make sure that you girls aren't looking for a man with no sex drive at all. like some sort of an all obeying drone that in the end will bore you to death in real life. Interesting point. I sure don't want a man I can't turn his temperature up! Just be nice if he could rein it in until he decides if there is more to me. The "heat" is not enough to keep a relationship going.

JoeW99 Joined Tue 12/30/08 Posts: 809	Sat 01/10/09 02:32 PM
good point joe. isn't that why we are here too? Sadly for me not yet. This is a New Year Resolution thing to meet new people. It actually has been a nice experience so far. Not sure if i'm looking for forever with anyone yet, but yeah looking for people that are real. Maybe we both will find what we are looking for lol. Best of Luck

thinkingaboutit09 Joined Fri 01/02/09 Posts: 1370	Sat 01/10/09 02:40 PM
someone has to..... I mean, she said in the original post that he said he was horny. Why does that make him a jerk? (other than the fact he just invited her over to have sex, that is a little too forward. this part I'm not disagreeing with.) I just want to make sure that you girls aren't looking for a man with no sex drive at all. like some sort of an all obeying drone that in the end will bore you to death in real life. Maybe i can clear up something for you. ANY GIRL/WOMEN in this forum can get laid... if you are a female and just want to get laid you go to a bar (disguard your standards) and make it known this is your intent. THERE WILL ALWAYS BE A GUY TO TAKE YOU UP ON IT. - mind you not a good guy.. but a guy. Not every man on this site can do the samething.. call it unfair but it's life. What i'm trying to explain to you is chances are most of the females that come to this site are looking for something more meaningful then random FUCl<. They are looking for a relationship or someone that is real. Thus a converstation and getting to know each other as well as having like interests seems a must before you dive into the.. LETS GET NAKED line. Hope you kinda get where i'm coming from on this. I do! But what about being a prude thats a reality too! Not to say being that way is so bad because ive been told im one before so go figure. My impression was the comment was prudish, so maybe im too kinky i dont know. but thats how i took it.

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Sat 01/10/09 02:55 PM Edited by Winx on Sat 01/10/09 02:56 PM
I think you were just reading into things too much. I don't think she said anywhere she wanted a guy who didn't have a sex drive. She didn't say anything about a sex drive. She didn't like that he said, "Call me. look, you're horny.. i'm horny so yeah" in an email from a guy that she has never met before. Why don't men understand that's wrong to do to us?!

angelindarkness Joined Sun 11/25/07 Posts: 6492	Sat 01/10/09 03:21 PM
Maybe i can clear up something for you. ANY GIRL/WOMEN in this forum can get laid... if you are a female and just want to get laid you go to a bar (disguard your standards) and make it known this is your intent. THERE WILL ALWAYS BE A GUY TO TAKE YOU UP ON IT. - mind you not a good guy.. but a guy. Not every man on this site can do the samething.. call it unfair but it's life. What i'm trying to explain to you is chances are most of the females that come to this site are looking for something more meaningful then random FUCl<. They are looking for a relationship or someone that is real. Thus a converstation and getting to know each other as well as having like interests seems a must before you dive into the.. LETS GET NAKED line. clapping and a standing ovation

thinkingaboutit09 Joined Fri 01/02/09 Posts: 1370	Sat 01/10/09 03:21 PM
I think you were just reading into things too much. I don't think she said anywhere she wanted a guy who didn't have a sex drive. She didn't say anything about a sex drive. She didn't like that he said, "Call me. look, you're horny.. i'm horny so yeah" in an email from a guy that she has never met before. Why don't men understand that's wrong to do to us?! personally i wouldnt do it but lets be honest here most men think with there penis at times and its a cruel reality. I try to be as gentlemanly as possible but if i got the hots for someone im not gonna say i dont have thoughts. I'm a gentleman because i want a lady and i know they deserve that respect. I am just saying i have stepped on it before and wished i hadn't. her instincts where probably correct and the guy was a perv. But cut us some slack ladies we cant control both our brain and our penis at all times under all circumstances. Men are just different and a lot of us work like a light switch. But women are much more complicated and we know that just give us a chance to try and figure out how to flip that switch.

jdcolvin Joined Thu 11/15/07 Posts: 508	Sat 01/10/09 03:24 PM
try to remember that there is a hugh flaw in the male animal...We have two heads and only enough blood to run one at a time

angelindarkness Joined Sun 11/25/07 Posts: 6492	Sat 01/10/09 03:27 PM
My impression was the comment was prudish, so maybe im too kinky i dont know. but thats how i took it. raising hand here I don't think anyone on this site would tell you I am not majorly kinky, but that I can be quite shy and prudish at times, too. These concepts are NOT mutually exclusive. There's a time and a place....and the right person for everything.

JoeW99 Joined Tue 12/30/08 Posts: 809	Sat 01/10/09 03:27 PM
Maybe i can clear up something for you. ANY GIRL/WOMEN in this forum can get laid... if you are a female and just want to get laid you go to a bar (disguard your standards) and make it known this is your intent. THERE WILL ALWAYS BE A GUY TO TAKE YOU UP ON IT. - mind you not a good guy.. but a guy. Not every man on this site can do the samething.. call it unfair but it's life. What i'm trying to explain to you is chances are most of the females that come to this site are looking for something more meaningful then random FUCl<. They are looking for a relationship or someone that is real. Thus a converstation and getting to know each other as well as having like interests seems a must before you dive into the.. LETS GET NAKED line. clapping and a standing ovation Ahhh lubs you too! Still think it's unfair you women can get laid whenever! Hell a 1 minute post on CL and you will get 200 responses... just so unfair.

JoeW99 Joined Tue 12/30/08 Posts: 809	Sat 01/10/09 03:28 PM
try to remember that there is a hugh flaw in the male animal...We have two heads and only enough blood to run one at a time Sad but soooooo true.

Tanzkity Joined Wed 04/30/08 Posts: 3743	Sat 01/10/09 03:29 PM
I have had men email me and just plain say I want to F you.......when can we hook up and leave there number..................AHHH those are the charming ones..............freakin internet.......

angelindarkness Joined Sun 11/25/07 Posts: 6492	Sat 01/10/09 03:32 PM Edited by angelindarkness on Sat 01/10/09 03:32 PM
I have had men email me and just plain say I want to F you.......when can we hook up and leave there number..................AHHH those are the charming ones..............freakin internet....... The reason they continue to exist in such large numbers is because once in a while (and often enough) they get lucky and find females that are willing to give them what they want. Its like Pavlov's dog. Its called "operant conditioning". Unless you extinguish the behavior (do not reward it), it will continue. Now, this is not to say that females don't do the same thing to males at times....

thinkingaboutit09 Joined Fri 01/02/09 Posts: 1370	Sat 01/10/09 03:49 PM
I have had men email me and just plain say I want to F you.......when can we hook up and leave there number..................AHHH those are the charming ones..............freakin internet....... yep not cool at all! and there are women that do the same thing too!

Tanzkity Joined Wed 04/30/08 Posts: 3743	Sat 01/10/09 03:52 PM
I have had men email me and just plain say I want to F you.......when can we hook up and leave there number..................AHHH those are the charming ones..............freakin internet....... yep not cool at all! and there are women that do the same thing too! Yeah im sure there are women out there out for the samething but how productive can that be just go the bar and pick a skank there are a lot of them out there..............