Kind of down in the dirt from missing someone, cant sleep, having a serious case of the blues

Here, my beard will comfort you ^_^

thats messed up. who offers a beard to their kid after he loses his tedy bear.


there there dude u will eventualy find another one , i understand it is hard losin ppl close to ur heart but time slowly heals the wounded.

A kid has no business being around a bear anyway >:(

Whoa that's kinda disturbing.

Its not that i lost her, i feel like i am losing her, we havent spoke in a lil while and i miss her like crazy and she wont pick up or anything. this is something i was trying to steer away from but i dont really know whats up or whats goin on but insecurities are running my mind wild and it scares me a little, i dont know if shes mad at me, if there is someone else or what but its making me feel weird

Did you try bringing her chocolate and flowers?

give it like a day and a half then call her up and fix her dinner or something

some people just need some me time sometimes

did u guys do the nasty? meyby shes pregnant, the same happened btween my cous n his girl. or jus give her a couple days then like another dude said invite her to dinner or go out for coffis n just have a talk.

those are good suggestions, its just that its an long distance relationship, um we spoke for a little bit last night but through messaging but she was a friend having drinks which is her roomate which i understand im sweating that but she can see her anytime regardless of her schedule, and we havent spoken and the only time we do talk is at night when she gets out of work and i would wait up... ti ended up turning into a lil argument like why couldnt she step away for a lil bit and talk she wasnt really seeing where i was coming from and i think she got pissed and i hope she didnt do anything you know, i felt like there was more than just her roomate there cuz i dont see whats so hard about stepping away to talk know we havent for almost a week, and that really hurt me because i would have not done that to her

Maybe it's time you moved on. She doesn't sound very considerate of your feelings. Let go and if it was meant to be she will come back.

are you sure she has been avoiding you, or have you been too clingy...absence makes the heart grow fonder!! She may be blowing you off, but maybe not. Just come right out and ask her, say"are we done? what's going on with you?" and if she says she wants to be with you, then try backing off, let her come to you instead of you hounding her all of the time! See if that changes her attitude torwards you, you will probably see a big difference.

i dont know but, things have been feeling a lil weird since December but i didnt really worry about it, but when it got closer to Christmas it started to get to me just things i want to get off my chest and let her know.. cuz i started to feel like its something that she is not telling me but i didnt want to get into because i figured its just insecurities from being hurt in the past but last week and and especially last night really got to me i went to bed angry at her which kept me up... i just really do love her, and i hope she isnt doing anything behind my back, i really need to talk to her its kind of frustrating to, i been a lil irritable about it all day

i was just thinking about that but her absence from me is making my heart grow fonder, and i need to ask some questions also.. i know exactly what you mean, i try not to be clingy cuz i know its aggravating but when i love someone it comes out lol, and i asked her about that too it dosent bother her she liked it but i start to feel weird and i do back off at times and become a lil shy again and she dosent want me to do that, but after this i think i am gonna back off for a lil bit cuz its getting to me, i would get real comfortable and when this happens its like "ahh man" or like a kid playing happily in a store and then their mom is suddenly gone but shes in the next aisle (that hapened to me before) lol

i want to thank everyone for their comments and insight, im not really the one to come out and put my feelings or emotions out on blast but i had to let it out, i try to keep it to myself but at times you need a second opinion, um talking to yall really made me feel better yall are great and thanks again, um to that beard thing, that was pretty creepy..lol but its cool man keep doin you, and everyone goodnight i'll fill in on what happens i hope its good, (and watch it might be that her phone is dead or something small and im here spazzing over it like an idiot ... lol), but i still have thoughts racing in my head so im jus gonna write and listen to music till i fall asleep.... thanks once again take care, and if yall have a problem or want to talk you can hit me up

boy, you need to just be blunt with her and then deal with her answers!!! It will be better for you and her in the long run. And then tell her you will not tolerate her putting you off and you deserve someone who will put in as much as you put into the relationship and then if she keeps putting you off... you will just need to bounce!

Usually when you feel like something is wrong, it is. People with nothing to hide, they hide nothing.

You need to really talk it out with her. And decide if you are okay with being treated the way you are. If so, stay with her. If you feel you deserve better, go out and get better. Good luck to you in whatever you decide.