Topic: Why does society seem to frown on single people? | |
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Edited by
SweetnFunny
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Tue 01/06/09 09:10 PM
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We're damaged goods. I've heard that, too. |
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I don't get why it seems in the U.S. culture that its such a negative thing to be single. cuz single ppl tend to be unstable, and some extremely crazy. Just check out the crazies throughout the history. All were singles :-) Yah like jack the ripper for one! He killed tons of people. Or how about Vlad the impaler. Total nut ball. The kids from that school shooting... You know that trench coat mophia thing. Mr. Apple White - Leader of the mass suicide cult known as heavens gate. He lead them to there deaths. In a sense he is a mass murderer. What I'm saying here is. I guess people are afraid of us single people. Question is who amoung us are going to be the next nutty axe murderer. Thats why I say say just start a cult. With cults at least your not alone and every one is too drugged to not love you. I'm kidding bout the start a cult part. But really, people are afraid of being killed by the single. Thats my theory. |
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We're damaged goods. Thats my take on it. |
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Couples are always worried that single people will try to cheat with thier mate. They think we are always on the prowl.
Some people think there has to be something wrong with us if we can't find a mate. I know I feel awkward when I am the only single person in a group of couples. I am either ignored or showered with extra attention because they feel sorry for me. They are always trying to match me up with unsuitable men. |
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I don't get why it seems in the U.S. culture that its such a negative thing to be single. Sadly the ideal that the ultimate goal in life for a man and a woman is to find a mate is still in effect. I believe alot of it comes from religious background. The belief that a mate and commitment makes for more stable, socially acceptable and moral humans is the problem. |
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Tis' all about money. They want you to get hitched, pop out a bunch of offspring, and go into a debt in which you cannot escape.
Capitalists. |
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<--------they don't frown on this single person.
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Edited by
62easygoing
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Wed 01/07/09 03:26 AM
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that's not how they look at you OC---is it??
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prob so |
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or if your divorced there must be something wrong too....or married 4 times.. but facts are.. some people dont take marriage seriously and when one works on it it doesnt work it takes 2 |
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We're damaged goods. That's the value some place on you, yes. How can you not help but internalize it, especially when those that do matter the most to you. |
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