Oh so your independant;


So, that must mean you want everything your way!



Is that what some think?


I am speechless........


If everything is your way why have a relationship?



Can't believe what some folk think...



Yes his foot got stuck in his mouth I do believe???

Amazing what people assume! I think men are afraid of that word
"Independent"

hmmmm I always too independant to be a good thing, I'd rather not have
to deal with someone who "NEEDS" me but someone who "wants" me!!

well of course you want everything your way

as does everyone else

the problems start when you expect to have it be that way

a very unrealistic idea

we all must compromise on a lot of things

and some things should be nonnegotiable

but hey what do ii know

ya know to much adj that is why i am going to have to behead you

hey hey niow tulip that is cruel and unusual youknow
we do NOT allow castration around here

LOL Good one Daniel!

I just wonder which he'd choose if we gave him a choice? How
bout it Robin?

Yep I am independant and do want everything my way...It's works out
pretty good when you're single!!!!!!!

To me that's great. hopefully that means "low maintenance"

I'll prob get in trouble for that!!!

Humm just because we are Independent does not mean we are selfish just
means we can very well take care of ourselves and don't need someone to
do the things for us all the time. We work pay our own bills and handle
the things life throws our way. We still have feelings and
know when to share (well at times lol) We know how when to give or take.
(if we want to that is) lmao But we also can make up our own minds what
we want and when we want them. We don't need anyone to tell us how to
live our lives. What we are looking for is someone to share our lives
and still be us. lmao

HMMMMmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

That's what I said!!!!

Don't tell me ya lost for words Fanta lmao

I fiqure independent in a woman meant I better be good cause she didnt
need my ass( I was disposable)...

No we like to share our lives...We just don't need to be taken care
of!!!!!!!!!

what do you mean "was" fanta?

lol

yea yall like to share your lives, just not your bathroom.....

LMAO, actually not at all just more or less means ya don't
have to babysit them 24/7 they can take care of themselves (hummm well
that way too) But still the closeness of another is still needed. It's
finding the right one is the problem. Most that are Independent will
lose some of that to a point. When they are with someone else. Some
things are nice if the other one takes care of it. But that works both
ways. Humm men are considered Independent( well some are) lol Does that
mean we are also disposable to ya?

like I said.........
HMmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

I think that Fanta's answer just now, also answers the question of why
fanta is always searching for scraps and handouts as well tx