No arguments, please?

How many of you have dated...& kissed someone...only to find out later that they are bi? I don't expect many of the men would have a problem...but what do you women think?

I would not wittingly kiss a bi male or female. If I have, I am still clueless and would like to remain that way. Just not my thing.

Can't remember if there was any dating involved, but yeah. I immediately felt filthy. I couldn't get to a shower fast enough.

I really don't see why it would be a big deal.

The first girl i ever kissed turned out to be a complete lezza

I would not have a bother with this information. I do not care who a man is dating when I am not dating him. Does not matter if man dates a woman or a man. When the man is dating me then the man must only date me and not another person.

I've done that a couple of times. My view on the matter is, if they are going to be interested in someone else, does it really matter what sex that someone else is? The important part is that they are not interested in you but another. If someone is bi, then they like both guys and girls. But either way, they see something in you or (hopefully) they wouldn't be trying to pursue you. Once the spark is gone, it doesn't really matter if it is a man or woman that they are leaving you for. I would imagine the subject would only become an issue in the event of a threesome or open relationship.

my former turned out not only to be bi...but into her twin sister as well.

i kissed a gay guy once. he was my best friend, and wanted to know what it was like to kiss a girl..

ive also kissed a gay girl and a bi girl..

it was like kissing a anyone that you have no feelings for.. jsut a meaninless kiss..
*shrug*

I've had several girlfriends who were bi -- it never made any difference to me -- people like what they like....

If I'd not had sex with them, no big deal. However, if we were intimate, I'd flip out. I actually ask people if they've ever had sex with a man. I'm very careful and I'm a blood donor.

So I have been told

Wouldn't bother me in the slightest. I've known many bi and lesbian girls. My cousin is a lesbian and there's nothing wrong with that.

We won't go there.

This is not about whether homosexuality is right or wrong...but I was afraid some might morph this thread into that...hence the title "Controversial Topic"... Just trying to keep things on track...

nope and hope I don't ever

I guess I don't really see the point of this thread. What were you hoping to get from people?

HONEST answers...not combative ones.

A few years ago, I was in this situation...I chose to break it off before it got to the "intimate" stage.

I've kissed people who are bi. Not had sex with them, though. But really, if it came down to it, it would matter that they're interested in me at that point. Not someone else. Other than that, I don't see it as being a big deal.

I couldn't donate blood any more if I had sex with a man who's had sex with another man.

I enjoy being to do that.