okay well heres the 411 on myself. i am 8 months pregnant by my ex-boyfriend who decided to immediately dump me after we both found out the news. BUT HOLD UP before you go and say "omg you slut how could you get pregnant at such a young age?!?!" well i'll have you all know that i did graduate with a full degree from my school and i am attending night school to become a registered nurse, yes it will take a while and yes i do intend to keep this baby. i've got a wonderful support system from my family and really thats all i need.

I was alone the first time I had sex

yeeah okay?

I, for one, cant judge U in any way, I think its commendable what U are doing and where U want to go!!!! I wish U nothing but the best in whatever U achieve and admire U for your desire to give your child a good life!!!

You go girl, your a very strong woman, don't you ever let anyone stand in your way, I am in the medical field and you made the right choice. Good Luck.

I thought we were doing confessions

No one was going to call you a slut....At least ur doing the responsible thing

UNlike ur ex

Honors to you and lots of bricks for your ex.

If they don't know what can happen when they use it and live up to their actions then they should get castrated.

My roommate in college got pregnant her junior year. She not only kept the baby, she went to school full-time and worked 2 jobs. It was tough but she did it. She now is an RN and has her Masters. It can be done.

RESPECT, and good luck to ya.

Does this mean your belly button's an outy now?

i'll quote my mother,

"any guy can get a girl pregnant, but it takes a man to raise that baby."

i intend to find the right daddy for my little girl.

its kinda sticking out, but not a whole lot lol

I got pregnant once and had these two doctors fighting over me to see which one could claim paternity without a DNA test but my Panamanian lawyer boyfriend put a stop to all that with an injuction just after my best friend commited hari kari with a lemon squeezer because she was jealous of my roomate who decided to go back in the closet because her dad was about to sign her out of the will and...


wait...no...sorry... I'm not a female...

That was only a soap opera I once seen...

duh...


Good luck and all my best to you and the soon to be tricycle motor.

its hard to not have sex especially at 18, so dont feel guilty about that. besides i think if the truth be told we all have our skeletons. Your beautiful, young, and have your whole life ahead of you. Sometimes making a mistake challenges your character what are you gonna do now? sit and mope or learn and still be successful despite the circumstances? Im not saying your moping just saying thats the options. when things go wrong in my life it motivates me generally i have had my days moping too. hope that helps

I commend you on allowing your baby to live. And you made a mistake, we all have at some point. But you can learn from mistakes and life does go on and it does get better. This ex-boyfriend showed his true colors. Too bad you didn't see his true colors sooner. But Thank God!
Even though losing someone you "think" you love does hurt.....be glad that you didn't marry this loser!Had you known this joker and the real him, I bet you never would have given him the time of day! Just becareful and protective with your heart in the future when you began to date again. There are lot's of losers out there. You want a winner. And you will find a winner. Learn to recognize a real gem and avoid the counterifets. The key is to take your time and guard your heart. Whatch and listen. If you will take your time and see many men instead of closing your self off to just one, you will begin to have more power and more discernment.Pick better men. And it's ok to say No to losers. I wish you the best! Your going to get along just fine! I belive you are a smart woman with a good heart. And now to go with that, Your going to have a smart heart! God Bless You!

Kuddos to you for being strong!


Congradualations on your baby!


His loss! ( from experience,make sure you claim full custody right off the bat)

can you say catharsis?