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Topic: what do you do...
parttime_vikingfan's photo
Mon 01/05/09 07:49 PM
Just block him and forget him, the more contact you have with him the easier it will be for him to rationalize something more.

_karen_'s photo
Tue 01/06/09 09:03 AM
thanks everyone..yeah he wasn't my type at all..he gave me his number like the first day we talked..didn't call him.
then yesterday he asked if we wanted to hang out...
crazy.
i blocked him.

lilith401's photo
Tue 01/06/09 09:29 AM
You will have to ignore them and be firm. Strong boundaries...

Totage's photo
Tue 01/06/09 09:36 AM

when you don't want someone but don't want to hurt their feelings???frustrated
and i already told him but he wont leave me alone!!


Ignore him

Adrenaline's photo
Tue 01/06/09 10:03 AM
If you have been polite and he still doesn't get the hint, it's time to take off the kid gloves and be blunt. After that, block or ignore until he gives up. There is no rule saying that you have to sacrifice your enjoyment of the site because someone wants to be stupid. Chances are, he did it to someone else until they block him and now he moved onto you. He'll either get the picture and grow up, or he'll move to a different site. Either way....win win

no photo
Tue 01/06/09 10:10 AM
i had one a couple of days ago and it was just unbelievable and polite didnt work! Now when she sees me she insults me, go figure?

no photo
Tue 01/06/09 10:10 AM
im hiding behind cartman!

no photo
Tue 01/06/09 10:11 AM
But there are some awesome people on here too!

Krimsa's photo
Tue 01/06/09 10:13 AM

when you don't want someone but don't want to hurt their feelings???frustrated
and i already told him but he wont leave me alone!!


If its a person from this site, you can ban him.

_karen_'s photo
Tue 01/06/09 02:58 PM

If you have been polite and he still doesn't get the hint, it's time to take off the kid gloves and be blunt. After that, block or ignore until he gives up. There is no rule saying that you have to sacrifice your enjoyment of the site because someone wants to be stupid. Chances are, he did it to someone else until they block him and now he moved onto you. He'll either get the picture and grow up, or he'll move to a different site. Either way....win win

I told him we could be friends (but wouldn't that hurt a guy if he liked you?) and he still IMed me..ugh. whatever. some people just don't get it.

no photo
Tue 01/06/09 03:03 PM
Some people never understands, it won't matter what you do being rejected is not something they comprehend.

Having feeling for someone who is not interested in you happens you just have to accept their decisions.

no photo
Tue 01/06/09 04:30 PM
Help him :-)

Tell him to move on. Tell him there will be a time and place where he will meet that special someone, so don't be needy and settle.


usernamefayou's photo
Wed 01/07/09 03:06 AM
Dude is most likely as young as you are, yes?

It is their nature to try, try again, try one more time, try something else, go back to the original strategy, and so on.

Therefore you must act accordingly, which is that of insanity.

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