Topic: Getting Attached???
luckyguy2008's photo
Sun 01/04/09 08:58 PM
Who gets emotionally attached faster men or women?

Drifters13's photo
Sun 01/04/09 08:59 PM
Depends on the situation.......

IndnPrncs's photo
Sun 01/04/09 08:59 PM
I don't think it's a gender thing, I think it's a personality thing...

luckyguy2008's photo
Sun 01/04/09 08:59 PM

Depends on the situation.......



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luckyguy2008's photo
Sun 01/04/09 09:00 PM

I don't think it's a gender thing, I think it's a personality thing...



:thumbsup: Good point haven't thought of it that way!:thumbsup:

tessa68's photo
Sun 01/04/09 09:01 PM
mostly women being so emotional...

Drifters13's photo
Sun 01/04/09 09:02 PM


Depends on the situation.......



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Indnprncs Sumed up the same thing I was thinking.

willaxtman's photo
Sun 01/04/09 09:07 PM
hate to say it? but i think its USUALLY (not always) me.

cityblues21's photo
Sun 01/04/09 09:07 PM
From my standpoint.. being a women... I would say I do usually before the guy, but maybe they are better at hiding it?

luckyguy2008's photo
Sun 01/04/09 09:08 PM



Depends on the situation.......



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Indnprncs Sumed up the same thing I was thinking.



What types of situations would change the answer? or is it just the individuals?

TxsGal3333's photo
Sun 01/04/09 09:08 PM
Women are known to be more emotional then Men. But I do believe that through the years that has in fact changed for I have noticed that more and more men are more open with their feelings then they were in the past.

Were in fact that as far as getting attached emotional now it could be a toss up.

But as far as the one that comes unattached faster I still believe that would still be men for they seem to be able to turn their emotions off quicker then women can when it comes to relationships. Not saying that is a bad thing they just seem to be able to forget much sooner and get past it faster then most women can. Yes I said most for at times this situation seems to change from person to person actually sometimes the issues of gender has nothing to do with it but instead how that person was raised seems to have a bearing with how they in fact handle different situations. JMO

luckyguy2008's photo
Sun 01/04/09 09:09 PM

hate to say it? but i think its USUALLY (not always) me.



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luckyguy2008's photo
Sun 01/04/09 09:11 PM

Women are known to be more emotional then Men. But I do believe that through the years that has in fact changed for I have noticed that more and more men are more open with their feelings then they were in the past.

Were in fact that as far as getting attached emotional now it could be a toss up.

But as far as the one that comes unattached faster I still believe that would still be men for they seem to be able to turn their emotions off quicker then women can when it comes to relationships. Not saying that is a bad thing they just seem to be able to forget much sooner and get past it faster then most women can. Yes I said most for at times this situation seems to change from person to person actually sometimes the issues of gender has nothing to do with it but instead how that person was raised seems to have a bearing with how they in fact handle different situations. JMO



Good point I am more open with my feelings now than I ever was in the past. Family relations and upbring help with relationship and feeling issues as well.flowerforyou

luckyguy2008's photo
Sun 01/04/09 09:12 PM

From my standpoint.. being a women... I would say I do usually before the guy, but maybe they are better at hiding it?


I think you could be right. It is the macho effect we were all cursed with!flowerforyou

willaxtman's photo
Sun 01/04/09 09:15 PM
some people are very co dependent, and some are just very cold hearted. its not always a gender thing? but i would imagine upbringing and all that DOES have some kind of impact on it. i know with me? im a very co dependent person and much as i hate to say it? i seem only truly happy in a relationship for the most part. its truly diffrent for every person.

luckyguy2008's photo
Sun 01/04/09 09:18 PM

some people are very co dependent, and some are just very cold hearted. its not always a gender thing? but i would imagine upbringing and all that DOES have some kind of impact on it. i know with me? im a very co dependent person and much as i hate to say it? i seem only truly happy in a relationship for the most part. its truly diffrent for every person.


:thumbsup: Very true:thumbsup:

Drifters13's photo
Sun 01/04/09 09:19 PM




Depends on the situation.......



Help me out....How?


Indnprncs Sumed up the same thing I was thinking.



What types of situations would change the answer? or is it just the individuals?


Usually it's just the individuals.

keepthehope's photo
Sun 01/04/09 10:43 PM
Usually women, but I'm sure there are some men that do.

luckyguy2008's photo
Sun 01/04/09 10:50 PM

Usually women, but I'm sure there are some men that do.



You are so right, I am one of them!flowerforyou

PacificStar48's photo
Sun 01/04/09 11:04 PM
Depends what stage the guy is at. If a guy is ready to settle down they don't play and want down the aisle. If they are not all I can say is don't bother.

It depends on the woman and her situation. If she has kids to provide for sometimes it can make them panicky but generally it will make her hard to convince. Especially if she has a half way decent job.

It seems that the people who get attached fast are the ones who think that they don't get a lot of chances. Which is ridiculous with the number of single people.