Just seems like were all looking for that one and only. but yet its so hard to find these days , I thought it might be nice if we could chat about what were really looking for?

It seems there is a lot of us on here and no one is getting any were..let us know if you have had good luck at it are bad luck.. are any thing else youd like to talk about ..

HMMM, WHAT WE ARE REALLY LOOKING FOR...? WELL THATS EASY, THE BOARD TELLS IT ALL.. THE LADIES ARE HERE LOOKING FOR A RELATIONSHIP, AND THE GUYS ARE HERE LOOKING FOR A HOOKUP.
OKAY...MY BESTFRIEND (A GUY WHOM I MET ON THIS SITE) ....I WAS AT HIS HOUSE THE OTHER NIGHT AND WE WERE TALKING ABOUT THE LUCK WE HAVE BEEN HAVING ON HERE... A STORY FROM HIM.... HE MEETS A GIRL (WHOM WAS LOOKING FOR A RELATIONSHIP, CHRISTIAN GIRL SO IT SAYS...NOT LOOKING FOR SEX) THEY MET AT HIS HOUSE, TALKED, AND HOOKED UP THAT VERY NIGHT. NOT THE ONLY ONE ITS HAPPENED WITH. SHE CALLS, AND CALLS, SO HE HAD A FRIEND CALL HER AND TELL HER HE HAD A GF AND TO STOP CALLING... SHE CALLS A LIL LATER AND TELLS HIM SHE CANT GET HIM OUT OF HER MIND...BLAH, BLAH, BLAH...
I JUST DONT GET IT..
WE SAY WE WANT ONE THING AND THEN SHOW A PERSON SOMETHING COMPLETLEY DIFFERENT.
WHY CANT WE ALL BE COMPLETLEY HONEST.
HERE LET ME START............ I AM LOOKING FOR A COMPLETELY COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP... ONE THAT "COULD" GO SOMEWHERE IN THE FUTURE, HOWEVER I WANT THE PASSION AND THE SEX OF THE MISTRESS... ANYONE UNDERSTAND WHERE IM COMING FROM?

GUYS DONT PRETEND TO ...WHATEVER, OR LEAD A GIRL ON ...LETTING THEM THINK YOU REALLY LIKE THEM WHEN YOUR JUST LOOKING FOR A PIECE OF ASS...SERIOUSLY ... ITS RUDE, AND CHILDISH. I THINK SOMEOF US NEED A BACKBONE AND OTHERS NEED CONFIDENCE.

MY OPINION...NOT THAT IT MATTERS.

i'm looking for friendship,companionship and a good dancer..doesnt seem to be anyone in my age range that wants the same,tho.can no one have fun VERTICALLY anymore?

I know you're just expressing your opinion, but one thing really stuck out. If you think that every guy on this site is just looking for a hookup/piece of ***, you're dead wrong.

Keep it simple, If u want sex say so... Don't beat around the bush... Just right in.. If not let it go...

gee why does that sound familiar..oh lol thats exactly whats been happining to me they seem interested and if they get a peice boom all ov a sudden you dont hear from them same as if they dont get any happened to me a few times....i know not every guy is like that but im seriouly loosing hope on finding one

wow. It sounds like your friend is a complete tool. And a cowardly one at that. Perhaps it would be easier for people to get together if people stopped being selfish self-centered azzholes.

just my opinion.

O.k. I could rant on and on forever about this topic, but I'll try to make it short. I'm SO sick of females saying the same tired cliche about "all you guys are the same, you just want a piece..." Look, if you ladies want to hold on to that argument, do so; BUT you can't keep falling for the guys who are playing "the game". Those are the guys you all are attracted to. The smooth talking, so obvious that all they want is a piece, club-rats! Yet, when a nice guy comes along who can hold a relationship, and treats women with respect, your not interested. It's like women walk around with magic sunglasses on that attracts them to guys that will treat them like a piece of garbage, so much so, that their are countless books, websites and other literature written by "the game-players" to teach other guys the way to "play the game" and score with lots of women. The truly sad thing, is that stuff works.