Nah, he just told me I was wrong for not wanting more than just friends with him. It was always his way or no way, that drives me nuts.

Haha what a loser.

1110, 1111, 1112,

ummmm....ok 1112.

No wait...

There was that one dude in Chico too.

Ok..1113.

two

I couldn't agree more!

That's sad

me 2

One relationship
4 "dates" since it ended like 3 months ago... not going to count repeat dates that turned into nothing.

Looking forward to meeting people that turn into something in 09 i guess

Eventually we've got to find the right one...

wouldnt you say??

My Grand total is shamefully 6 guys that I dated throughout the year of 2008. My first relationship was quite serious and lasted between October 2007 to April 2008. After him a friend convinced me to try two dating websites, Okcupid.com and Mingle2.com. There were a few guys that wanted to start dating me seriously that I went off with a few times but I was always left with the horrible task of disappointing them and rejecting them because we weren't compatiable. It was difficult because I knew how horrible rejection was as an individual and I never wanted to make someone feel that way. The last guy I went on a first date with was wonderful and the date was terrific but he actually rejected me. Only two guys out of six rejecting me isn't bad odds. I realized through the course of my dating experiences that I wasn't ready for the complications of being with another individual. Most of the individuals I actually agreed to date I could only see myself being great friends with in the first place. I find this surprising to say but the last guy probably saw what I wasn't capable of seeing within myself. That I wasn't ready to date. Though his reasons for our breakup were that he wasn't ready to date anyone seriously I think it was a combination of his reason and his preception of me. Honestly, I think he really just didn't find me attractive and there isn't a thing wrong with that reason for breaking up with someone. If there isn't a physical attraction you can't have a relationship. So no hard feelings and I am sorry for my reaction being so harsh because like everyone who is rejected it is hard to deal with that pain.
What I discovered after his rejection is that I wasn't happy with my life. I was dating because I thought if I could convince someone else to be happy with me by being the image they had created of me I would find happiness too. Someone told me at the dinner table on New Year's Day that you can't find happiness being with someone else because only you can find that for yourself but having someone specail in your life should make you happier. I knew the saying that you have to love yourself before someone else can love you but if you switch the word love with happy her comments made perfect since.
Though my holidays were a joke and I spent most them depressed about my current life situation it gave me a great opportunity look back over the past and openly analyze a few things about myself that I wished to change. One thing I changed rather quickly was dwelling in the past. I decided to leave the past where is belonged.. in the past. My goal for this upcoming year is to simply be myself rather than what others think I should be to them. This is a year of revelation and fresh starts for many people.
After coming back to Mingle2.com to address an individual that my friend discovered to be quite unique. I looked up two people I missed talking to when I was on this site. They were my friends Pete and Mike. My discovery was that I missed our conversations and I regretted not ever getting the courage to meet them in person. Though I don't plan on starting a new relationship this upcoming year other than with myself it would be nice to finally have the courage to become friends with them other than over the internet.

2 absolute disasters early in 2008 and after the second i concluded maybe im as socially dysfunctional as well and got scared for the rest of the year. but im back dysfunction and all.

There one for us out there one of these days should find them.

I say bring on #1114!!!

2

One lasted one night, the other lasted about 2 weeks.

Two. First and Last dates in the same night. I'm batting zero.

5 in person - 1 which turned into a nightmare.

I didn't date anyone in 08, just my online sweetie. Hi hon ! Im bein good !

I dated someone from Oct. '07 until July of '08.





A month-and-a-half after we broke up, I reactivated on Mingle2.

one person from this site.

2

Lost count...no one worth remembering really except one.