we were supposed to keep score?????


ummm......a few errors......a couple of (odd) balls!!!

3 strikes......guess im out!!!!

Could you tell us more about the couple of balls?

There are 3 guys on here who really know what they're doing.

Guess I got lucky huh?

Patsfan, when do I get my date!!!!

Met one person so far. Going on 3 weeks now since the first date. Really had an amazing time with her and now the table has turned. She planned to see me the last two nights in a row and never called or messaged. We talked it over the first night, and if she wasn't lying, her story was understandable. But she turned around and did the same thing last night. Haven't talked to her yet. I'm not making any assumptions as to what happened. I just hope I didn't get burned. She really is incredible.

Kind of wondering about this site. Like some of the people I have talked to in forums but so far both I actually made a date with were deceptive.

A third wasted a lot of my time and did a pretty negative number on my holiday as a repeat no show useing his kid as an excuse.

One I actually dated I discovered was being treated for major mental health issue and lied about it. When I tried to end the contact it took telling him I would get a restraining order to get him to leave me alone. He now uses the pictures from our dates to advertise himself. But I have blocked him.

Sad because I still say there are some really nice people on here. I think the reason most of the guys are not dating is they are not asking but that is just my guess.

Met a few as friends, both male and female, but met the one man that made me realize I didn't have to look any further for my soulmate. The one man I didn't NEED to have around but WANT to be around, TheCaptain.

Thanks for weighing in!

ok here is the deal. if you shoot 3 times and miss then quit, then you get no cupie doll, if you continue to shoot, you will eventually hit.
good luck.

Not really. It's just a numbers game. Women are outnumbered by guys by about 3 to 1 here.

That simply means the women will have more to choose from, and 1 out of every three guys will just get passed up.

* Disclaimer * these numbers have not been scientifically measured. They are simply estimates ( although I would bet they are pretty accurate ) based on my own observations.

No dates.

A few contacts via email.

One, so far, that there may be a " click " with. Remains to be seen.

Other than that. Zilch.

one meet = friend

one potential meet = "still waiting for the meet" as they live further away...

lots of friends from everywhere that I email almost daily.

forums keep my mind off of my own issues, and are entertaining.

So all in all, its still fun.

I have met great friends but I also have been involved with a man that I met in a different site and we have been together for a year...........