Topic: To the people that have been married
dbh1966's photo
Mon 12/29/08 01:50 AM

Once for 11 years and was not happy. I am happy to be single again!


Yeah it is nice to be single again. :banana: :laughing: :laughing: :banana:

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Mon 12/29/08 02:19 AM
I think it will take alot to trust someone wont turn into a monster overnight......like my last husband did!!ohwell

But I still do believe in marriage.

MrsKaters's photo
Mon 12/29/08 04:14 AM
happy :heart: Just once and we are on our way to our first anniversary in 7 weeks

Seamonster's photo
Mon 12/29/08 05:18 AM

Marriage to me, is just a piece of paper. If I love someone, I dont need to sign a marriage license to prove it. So I will NOT be married again. Plus the cost of divorce sucks.:tongue:


Agreed, besides the tax break there is not much point in it.

TxsGal3333's photo
Mon 12/29/08 08:14 AM
Myself have only been married one time for 11 years.

Have been divorced now for 17 years.

Would I do it again sure if I thought they were the right person. bigsmile But ..........is it a must for me no I'm seeking the comminuted relationship more then anything that is what is on my priority list.

You see it is not the Marriage that in fact fails the two that took those vows it is the ones within the Marriage that failed to keep the vows they in fact took.


PATSFAN's photo
Mon 12/29/08 08:22 AM
One time & never againnoway

lilith401's photo
Mon 12/29/08 08:23 AM
I have only been married once.

I also believe in marriage and would do it again. I'd just choose a peer next time... and a person with whom I'd see myself with in 30 years and not bored or peeved with. And vice versa. And I'd definitely do pre-martital counseling or not get married. I think that is a good way to establish the expectations within the marriage to avoid resentment later. If the other person isn't willing, then no "I Do".

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Mon 12/29/08 08:24 AM

Let's just say I have enough ex-husbands that they could form their own support group.



rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl

Averageguy1964's photo
Mon 12/29/08 08:28 AM
one time was enough for me.

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Mon 12/29/08 08:43 AM
I am curious Lilith. Where do you find a peer when you oviously think you are better than anyone else???

lilith401's photo
Mon 12/29/08 08:45 AM

I am curious Lilith. Where do you find a peer when you oviously think you are better than anyone else???


No, you obviously think that I think I am better than "anyone" else. According to your statement.

I, on the other hand, don't think that at all.

PATSFAN's photo
Mon 12/29/08 08:47 AM
smokin I know I'm better than everybodysmokin

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Mon 12/29/08 08:49 AM
No. I just read forum and thought you could use a reality check!!

lilith401's photo
Mon 12/29/08 08:52 AM
Edited by lilith401 on Mon 12/29/08 08:53 AM

No. I just read forum and thought you could use a reality check!!


You are aware of my reality how, exactly?

I answered the question posed honestly. Your interpretation is your own. However, without any information as to
why I said what I said.... your post was an assumption. How was your post related to the thread?

I suppose my even responding to you makes me an ass. C'est la vie.

no photo
Mon 12/29/08 10:52 AM

How many times have you been married?

Me, just once was enough for me to know that I didn't like it.drinker


Once, and that was a mistake.

I don't see it happening again.



Haloheldbyhorns's photo
Mon 12/29/08 10:54 AM
4 times married and divorced not looking to do it again

mssilverfox's photo
Mon 12/29/08 10:58 AM
Edited by mssilverfox on Mon 12/29/08 10:59 AM
First marriage, 17 yrs, divorced

Second marriage, 4 mo., annuled, He forgot to tell me he already had a wife in another state...

Third marriage, 26 yrs, widow

lilith401's photo
Mon 12/29/08 10:59 AM

First marriage, 17 yrs, divorced

Second marriage, he forgot to tell me he already had a wife in another state, 4 mo

Third marriage, 26 yrs, widow



Hello Miss Fox.... how was your holiday?

Mr_Music's photo
Mon 12/29/08 10:59 AM
Divorced since '96. :banana:

If I ever got married again, it would be with someone I want to grow old WITH, not BECAUSE OF.

mssilverfox's photo
Mon 12/29/08 11:00 AM


First marriage, 17 yrs, divorced

Second marriage, he forgot to tell me he already had a wife in another state, 4 mo

Third marriage, 26 yrs, widow



Hello Miss Fox.... how was your holiday?



HI Lilith, It was great! My company is still here from N Dakota...