don't do anything right now.
let the fraudee expose her/his self. it will happen u know.
u found out about it, and it is just a matter of time....
sit and watch.

I was misled and decieved by some people on here and it really changed how I feel about this place.

well mirror mirror, i was told this is a dating site, and lots of crap on a dating site.

i got this information from the post office....a gal who is a nurse but gets on all the sites.

if u get burned, jump in the pool, and put the fire out.

next time be more careful, and i am very sorry if u got hurt.
me, an old woman....no feelings or hurt left inside.

problems can be compounded not facing them head on and dealing with the damage afterwords. Usually not letting an issue snowball means less damage control after the fact. A lot of men lie to try to get what they want. Those bottom feeders make the rest of us look bad because I don't need to lie about squat. I got a personality and a life. Los Angeles is all about what you look like and how much money you can flash. That ain't me. I do have a touch of vanity and some pride (well, a lot of that) but superficial I am not.
It is one thing to hate the game but if the payer is honest up front there is no reason to front.
If the player is a lying sack of dog poo you need to turn the fools rock over on him. Your friends need to face the truth as much as G Dog needs to. If they are your friends for real then they will understand.
Friends watch out for friends.
Then again is it your friend being a lying dirt bag? If so then you are part of their lie!!!
Don't be part of someone else's intrigue. Their sins can come back on you a lot more than it comes down on them.

Nah...it's a friend who knows (kinda') that they're being played...

Old Italian idiom:

"Buono come il pane":

“As good as bread.” A stock phrase typically used in situations when someone or something has unexpectedly behaved very badly, e.g. the Rottweiler who just killed a child, to its owner’s vast surprise: “He always seemed as good as bread!”

your right.Thanx for the advice.

I personally like to give them enough rope...

and watch them hang themselves!

Very entertaining!

I like to see them fail and trip over themselves.
:]

Tell, you wouldn't want anyone else to go through that and have to find out the hard way.

I'm thinking it all depends on how severe the level of this prank.

I mean someone could easily say that they are a new car salesman but in actuality they are used car salesman. Hmmm, damn the severity, IMO all car salesman should be burned along with lawyers, but that's just my opinion. LOL.

No, seriously, how bad is the situation? You should be able to judge that based on the information that you have.

By the way, anyone get messages from West Africa? Two girls messaged me for serious relationship, but they are in Ghana. I'm so naive. I sent them my bank account number, NOT. LOL>

If you do it, do it with no personal agenda.

Give objective facts and release investment in the outcome of what the other does with the facts.

If there is an investment, then you are trying to control the situation, outcome, or people involved (whether it is for benevolent reasons or not) and that is not healthy for YOU. Instead, focus on what you need to do to feel better about yourself. Forgive yourself (for whatever reason), and find a way to move on.

So You've met my parents?

oh geesh
she kind a sorta said a friend kinda sorta knew..
just what is this drama all about? or is this just a thread to keep us going and *****in?

Post it all over myspace!!
Hahahaha kidding!

I'd tell everyone, even though they won't believe me until they get themselves screwed over and then I have all rights to say "I told you so!".

It keeps you coming back in, eh Duff? I've taken care of MY personal situation...but obviously this has happened to others or they wouldn't keep bringing it up, huh?

BTW...Thank you all for your contributions!

well thank you for thanking me. but i could never figure out WTHWGO.
(what the hell was going on)

woodja mind starting from the beginning and spare no details so we can figure out if we said or did the right thing.

i think that somebody was ficking somebody, and somebody else knew and wanted to try, but then again that would be fraud, and if someone found out, god only could help them, but they all kinda sorta knew...is that the way it went.?????
and good old u wanted to protect all of them? from each other? or what?

what the hell kind of plot is this? well, a very good one....larry luv or buzzer1936...the one that writes books and wants u to visit in a see through nightgown would love it.

Perhaps Duffy, you should take your own advice at the top of the page & just sit back & watch...eh?

As I stated earlier, I did not want to embarass anyone...MY situation is under control...you will not get any juicy tid bits from me...so, if you're looking for drama...maybe you can start your own thread about it?

And again...I wish to thank the ones who gave me CONSTRUCTIVE advice...have a great day!

i forgot what i said. dimentia u know eh?
sit back and watch what? it is all over from what u r saying, and frankly i am not sure what happened if anything.

and u won't supply the details um well the facts r the facts, and without that we cannot make a healthy diagnosis now can we.

hats off to u ms. phuque....don't get urself all upset over this post.