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Topic: So, You Find Out That They're A Fraud...
lilith401's photo
Tue 12/30/08 12:43 PM
Expose expose expose...

If they did it once, they will do it again. Each victim is not the only victim.

cityblues21's photo
Tue 12/30/08 12:54 PM
Don't want to be played... would want to know. Straight up.

Britty's photo
Tue 12/30/08 12:59 PM

No difference to me.

If you know someone has something to lose by being associated with them, you have a responsibility to say something. Privately if you have to, or not. As long as you can back it up with proof.

Yes, the person may get annoyed or angry with you, especially if they've already been convinced or for some reason or another, need to remain in denial. However, I think that in the end, that person will realize the gift you were trying to give them and understand. Forgive. Perhaps even thank you. I recently thanked a couple people that tried to warn me of something in the past.

Its a personal decision, but I think it is worth it. Its also about personal integrity.


Good advice. For me, privately is the preferred method.

flowerforyou

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Tue 12/30/08 04:07 PM

i forgot what i said. dimentia u know eh?
sit back and watch what? it is all over from what u r saying, and frankly i am not sure what happened if anything.

and u won't supply the details um well the facts r the facts, and without that we cannot make a healthy diagnosis now can we.

hats off to u ms. phuque....don't get urself all upset over this post.



Thanks Duff! I gave your response all the consideration it deserved...

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Tue 12/30/08 06:41 PM

Expose expose expose...

If they did it once, they will do it again. Each victim is not the only victim.

flowerforyou

If there's smoke, there's fire.

If you see one cockroach, your place is probably infested. ill

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Tue 12/30/08 06:46 PM

problems can be compounded not facing them head on and dealing with the damage afterwords. Usually not letting an issue snowball means less damage control after the fact.

Valid point and well taken.

It is one thing to hate the game but if the player is honest up front there is no reason to front.

Some only give half truths and severely minimize. Lie to themselves, even.

evian001's photo
Tue 12/30/08 06:47 PM
as much as i love the term blow the wistle (thanks to too short)

in reality i wouldnt say nothing......

QTPIE11's photo
Tue 12/30/08 07:43 PM
Blow the whistle! The they have the option to believe it or not but if you never say anything...then their choices are limmited..knowlege is power...happy

Duffy's photo
Wed 12/31/08 12:03 PM
oh i think this is just an exercise to see if we know what we r talking about. thanks for giving me exposure. that is exactly what i need.
good luck all u victims out there of whatever it is we r to feel pitty for.....since it is not exactly clear......pitchfork pitchfork pitchfork pitchfork pitchfork

no photo
Wed 12/31/08 01:50 PM
:laughing: looks like her dimentia kicked in again:laughing:

Hmmmmmmmmmm, I'm not seeing any 'pitty parties' here...just folks comparing notes. I have moved on and I'm completely content with my life now.


Expose expose expose...

If they did it once, they will do it again. Each victim is not the only victim.


So true lilith...I am only one of the 13 I know about from JSH/Mingle that the '@sshole' messed with...for all I know, there could be more.

Duffy's photo
Fri 01/02/09 11:08 AM
well shutterbug....
here is my dimentia story....i am not sure what is going on here...it has to do something with some guy messing with someone. but c dimentia does that 2 u...u miss details. ask me if i care really...
why don't u go out and do something like save a cold dog or cat this season...

u r only 49......
:banana: :banana: :banana: :banana:
nice horse.

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