hi,i met someone on here about 4 months ago he works in different parts of the world,he came home on monday and im supposed to be meeting him on saturday but he hasnt been in touch with me since getting back.am i being taken for an idiot?i like him and thought he liked me,but i clearly thought wrong.i dont feel i can trust him now!

If he just got home from being out of the country, give him some time to settle back in - I'm sure he had things to do. Yeah, it would have been cool if you'd heard from him, but I wouldn't get upset.........yet.

hes only here a week

Maybe he just wants to rest or perhaps he is married or has something else going on.It happens

i think he may be married actually altho he says hes divorced.newa guys thanx 4 the answers il let u no how it goesmerry christmas 2 u all xxxx

Merry Christmas to you too

I`m sorry,.

I hate the waiting game myself,..

He should at least make himeself available to confirm your meeting. If he doesn't at least make that effort, don't go.

Sounds like a scammer to me!

My Two Rules of Trust:

1.) Never trust anyone you meet from a dating site.

2.) Never trust anyone you meet from anywhere else.

Do you have his phone #? Just call him.

It sounds fishy to me that he has not even called you once. There are so many players on here and the "coming from out of the country bit" -- sorry, but that would make me really suspicious. I hope he is for real, but I have serious doubts. I have recently talked to several guys "working" outside the country.

I am pretty much agreeing with Lex on this one these days.

Be really careful. Take care.

Trust No one

hey guys just 2 let u all no he did contact me last nite!some rubbish bout not gettin here til friday!he said he was stuck in boston n then had 2 go 2 dubai!so i jus sent him a message on here 2 tell him hes full of s**t n gudbye!i like honest people!anyway thanx 4 all ur advice im lonelyso if anyone wants 2 talk any time feel free 2 contact me ok xx

Ummm...if you had taken a look at the weather report, he very well could have been stuck in Boston.

Your choice to call it as you see it. But on that one he actually could have been telling the truth.

It doesn't sound good that he hasn't contacted you, but things happen. If you are willing to wait and see what his response is if or when he does contact you then that's your call.

OP before I even read your second post I had a response for you. First him not contacting you right away I am sorry but that sounded legit.
I have several friends and family members that work either out of the country or up at the north slope for up to 8 weeks at a time. When they come home the first couple of days are taken up entirely with playing catch up.

Now he says he was stranded in Boston well I totally believe him. I know I barely got home for Christmas and I was on the West coast due to weather. There were news bulltet in's and such everywhere that most people weren't going to be meeting flights or even getting a flight due to weather.

This kind of sounds like to me that you aren't as interested as you were when you set up this date. I think I would take a long hard look at myself and wonder why such red flags came up for you. Life happens.
As someone else stated your call if you go or not, me I would go and enjoy myself. After all if he is going to be in the country only one week well he must have thought you were something special to give you any time at all.

well,..I`d say he just might appreciate your response and respect you for not puttin up with any crap,..

I know what its like to have your trust betrayed by people that you think are your friends.

hi i no it may sound like im bein a bit negative, but i really did like himn i know bout the weather in boston,but wen he spoke 2 me last on here he told me he was in toronton i feel so upset that its gone wrongbut thanx 4 the advice anyway x