Good luck Shadow. I hope she's got her expectations lined up and does
not turn into a happy meal, if you know what I mean. Together you guys
could write a book! Interesting stuff and it's nice to see some light at
the end of the tunnel. By the way, nice legs Jean!

As I said before I will say again:
Look before you leap.

Take your time don't rush anything like a fine wine it taste better with
age. When getting to know someone if you take the time to really listen
what the other one really says there feelings there thoughts there
dreams take the time to know them as a person and really listen to them
take the time to learn what makes them laugh or there fears. The things
they like to do. Ask about there child hood. When someone actually takes
the time and to ask. About your family and the things that happen in
your life as you were growing up, it gives one the feel that they really
do want to know you as a person.

IMHO, I think once you have ascertained that this persona has some of
the qualities you are looking for in a prospective partner, try and take
it to the next level. That's if you are really dating, going out and
all...

If it is internet dating context... Its a totally different monster...

I do agree with Jane, taking it too slow causes anxiety in me, stress.
Why play the guess game, when it is so much easier to talk it through?

Why engage in the endless chatting, taing it slow, if it will never and?

I'll say talk... get your answers and answer some questions as well. And
enjoy while you are at it.