Wow, how cool is this? Everyones worried...you're all such good friends!

Good luck Shadow. I hope she's got her expectations lined up and does
not turn into a happy meal, if you know what I mean. Together you guys
could write a book! Interesting stuff and it's nice to see some light at
the end of the tunnel. By the way, nice legs Jean!

Sometimes you can't help but jump to quickly. The big thing you have to
ask yourself is what you want in a relationship... ie. long term, not
serious, etc. Next you have to put into perspective the ramifications of
moving fast. I've been through the same ordeals and my next attempt I'm
going the friends route for a solid month prior. Procrastinating has two
great benefits. 1.) You actually get to know that person's flaws and
character. (I swear 90% of the women I've jumped to quickly with have
turned out to be psychotic!) 2.) The anticipation is great! After you've
both been longing to move forward and you finally decide to do so it has
to add that much more heat! Just my opinion. Good Luck.