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I am asking for honest opinions of girls who are actually in this age group. Guys with sarcastic remarks - please refrain and have some maturity =) Ok so my question is this. What do girls (GENERALLY) in the age group 18-22 really look for in a guy? It seems if they aren't about looks, they are about money, or vise versa. Never personality. I ask this because I'd like to think I am a genuinely nice guy and I'm prolly average in looks. I dont have money, and im not where I want to be in life (living at home still -_-) and also no license (long story half of the reasons were beyond my control) and have some serious trouble finding ppl interested in me. What happened to girls wanting a nice guy who will treat them right? Or am I just looking in all the way wrong places? Call me pathetic if you wish, but I am putting myself out here hoping for some honest opinions of this matter. Constructive criticism I do not mind, but insults...please refrain from. Live Right Now Just Be Yourself I Doesn't Matter If Its Good Enough For Someone Else: Jimmy Eats World Who cares what a girls wants is a guy to be himself and treat her with respect. I do care what girls want because the one thing I want out of life is love and I sure as hell can't have that alone now can I? lol. But yeah I WISH all girls had your mind set about respect and such, I wouldn't have an issue then -_- Hey Money doesnt matter to me I make my own, u live with your mom so what as long as you have ambitions to get out of there you know. cool, so some girls out there arent just after money. good to know. ty. I've never been just after money - even at your age. |
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I see you are a writer and a intellectual. Very good.
Perhaps create a bookclub and that way you will get the kind of woman who you might like and like you. Creating a book club isn't hard. You can post on the internet everywhere that you are looking for people to start a bookclub in your area. I did it once and had in the beginning 4 people. Later we were 25 people. Half woman and other half men. A couple eventually starting dating and having a serious relationship. I see you are seeking a real solution. I think this might be a idea if I may. Good Luck on the search for true love. |
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I think the problem is you're looking at the women as a whole age range. Everyone is an individual and everyone wants something different at any given stage in their life. You just need to find that ONE girl who is compatible with you, but one thing maybe all girls find attractive is confidence (not cockiness, there is a fine line) and you seen really down on yourself about not having your own place and not having alot of money, etc. If thats all they want, then I don't think you should even waste your time with them...Maybe you should try meeting girls in a place where money isn't a factor, like at the library or something simple like that? I stated the age range because I am 20 currently, so obviously im not going to wanna date someone too much older or younger than me lol. ty for your opinion. |
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I see you are a writer and a intellectual. Very good. Perhaps create a bookclub and that way you will get the kind of woman who you might like and like you. Creating a book club isn't hard. You can post on the internet everywhere that you are looking for people to start a bookclub in your area. I did it once and had in the beginning 4 people. Later we were 25 people. Half woman and other half men. A couple eventually starting dating and having a serious relationship. I see you are seeking a real solution. I think this might be a idea if I may. Good Luck on the search for true love. tyvm. it is a good idea however...im more one to write than read. i know its taboo for a writer to hardly ever read...but thats me for ya. but i might try to use that idea but a diff kinda club possibly, cuz that would be cool even if it didnt bring me a relationship. thanks =) |
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Yeah girls do pick up the "Gold Digger" title all the time. But I mean seriously look at Kevin Federline all his woman have been meal tickets. Listen kid, Don't rush things you will find the person you are meant to be with, maybe God means for you to get on your own feet before he sends her your way.
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luv2roknroll
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Sun 12/21/08 03:54 PM
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Oh hell... Guess im TOO OLD to answer again. <sigh> I'm still open to your opinion. It's just my age group seems to have shifted in values and desires out of a guy. As it seems now, I can care and do everything in my power to take care of someone I love, but if I can't afford a shiney new necklace or can't be the one driving, then forget it. That's honestly how it seems now. Well maybe you need to start looking at us older ones than... I wouldnt want, or need, you to buy me anything babe... just lovin me would be enough! BTW...your very beautiful! |
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Oh hell... Guess im TOO OLD to answer again. <sigh> I'm still open to your opinion. It's just my age group seems to have shifted in values and desires out of a guy. As it seems now, I can care and do everything in my power to take care of someone I love, but if I can't afford a shiney new necklace or can't be the one driving, then forget it. That's honestly how it seems now. Well maybe you need to start looking at us older ones than... I wouldnt want, or need, you to buy me anything babe... just lovin me would be enough! BTW...your very beautiful! Ha thanks but I'm not interested in women who are 4+ years older than me. Then I feel more like a child -_- |
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BAAAAsically the girls our age take the good duys forgranted, there's something about a dirtbag I guess.. I always see the paradox of goodgirls with @ssholes and the nice guys with the mean girls....
Way I see it, stay sweet and true to yourself and all that good suff, and things even out. it only does so much good to go out looking for love, let it find you.. |
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BAAAAsically the girls our age take the good duys forgranted, there's something about a dirtbag I guess.. I always see the paradox of goodgirls with @ssholes and the nice guys with the mean girls.... Way I see it, stay sweet and true to yourself and all that good suff, and things even out. it only does so much good to go out looking for love, let it find you.. Ty. I dont really go out looking for it though haha. The most I do to "look" for it is like joining this site and even then i dont REALLY think ima find ne one on here ya know? lol. thanks tho. |
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