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Can't help you with the "girl" part. I've outgrown that a long time ago, and I've moved on to women. However, it might be prudent to take a different approach. 1. Don't appear desperate. Not saying that you necessarily are, but it's very unbecoming, and it's a big turn-off. 2. Don't chase. You'll wear yourself out doing all the work. 3. MOST IMPORTANTLY!! Do NOT come in with the mentality of this being simply a site to (possibly) find a date, nothing more. Think outside the box. To be more precise, think of it as a socialization site. Meet friends first. You must first be a friend in order for a potential relationship to blossom. I dont view this site as you think. I am trying to make friends and such. I post in various topics just about anything posted by just about anyone. I do feel this is a socializing site and such. |
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Do you talk to girls outside of the dating site world?
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Im not in that age group but I can tell you this, and girls, dont hate cuz you know its true...they are about looks, and they really dont know what the heck they want at that age. I didnt know what I was doing at 18-22 yrs old. A guy that has his own pad and money would be great but I didnt seem to find that type either. Im just saying that young girls are having a lot of fun these days gettin a lot of attention from multiple men. Not all girls but some. Just be patient, the right girl will come along and everything will just fall into place. You cant rush it, you got plenty of time.
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Do you talk to girls outside of the dating site world? Duh? I hang out with a few, talk with a few via phone, work with a TON. And also go to college and talk/meet some there too. But again, most the people I meet view me as pathedic which obviously most of you do as well so it was pointless as I thought before I even posted this to make this topic. I shoudl have listened to my gut instinct. Is there a way that I can delete this? Knowing my luck the answer is a no -_- |
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Im not in that age group but I can tell you this, and girls, dont hate cuz you know its true...they are about looks, and they really dont know what the heck they want at that age. I didnt know what I was doing at 18-22 yrs old. A guy that has his own pad and money would be great but I didnt seem to find that type either. Im just saying that young girls are having a lot of fun these days gettin a lot of attention from multiple men. Not all girls but some. Just be patient, the right girl will come along and everything will just fall into place. You cant rush it, you got plenty of time. Thanks for being one of the few ppl who didnt make me regret posting this. |
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Do you talk to girls outside of the dating site world? Duh? I hang out with a few, talk with a few via phone, work with a TON. And also go to college and talk/meet some there too. But again, most the people I meet view me as pathedic which obviously most of you do as well so it was pointless as I thought before I even posted this to make this topic. I shoudl have listened to my gut instinct. Is there a way that I can delete this? Knowing my luck the answer is a no -_- Well why do you think they veiw you as pathetic? What is it that you do when your around them that they form this opinion? |
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Do you talk to girls outside of the dating site world? Duh? I hang out with a few, talk with a few via phone, work with a TON. And also go to college and talk/meet some there too. But again, most the people I meet view me as pathedic which obviously most of you do as well so it was pointless as I thought before I even posted this to make this topic. I shoudl have listened to my gut instinct. Is there a way that I can delete this? Knowing my luck the answer is a no -_- |
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Playing the martyr won't help your cause much, either. I'm sorry the answers you got were not what you wanted to hear, but you must understand, we DID offer our opinions, which is exactly what you asked for. Couldn't hurt to pay attention to them, as pretty much all of us have been there.
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Do you talk to girls outside of the dating site world? Duh? I hang out with a few, talk with a few via phone, work with a TON. And also go to college and talk/meet some there too. But again, most the people I meet view me as pathedic which obviously most of you do as well so it was pointless as I thought before I even posted this to make this topic. I shoudl have listened to my gut instinct. Is there a way that I can delete this? Knowing my luck the answer is a no -_- Well why do you think they veiw you as pathetic? What is it that you do when your around them that they form this opinion? The girls I know and hang out with and all that think of me as a brother. Most of them had/have had bfs since ive met them or arent interested in anything more than friends. |
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Playing the martyr won't help your cause much, either. I'm sorry the answers you got were not what you wanted to hear, but you must understand, we DID offer our opinions, which is exactly what you asked for. Couldn't hurt to pay attention to them, as pretty much all of us have been there. playing the what? |
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*sigh*....use the dictionary.
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I am asking for honest opinions of girls who are actually in this age group. Guys with sarcastic remarks - please refrain and have some maturity =) Ok so my question is this. What do girls (GENERALLY) in the age group 18-22 really look for in a guy? It seems if they aren't about looks, they are about money, or vise versa. Never personality. I ask this because I'd like to think I am a genuinely nice guy and I'm prolly average in looks. I dont have money, and im not where I want to be in life (living at home still -_-) and also no license (long story half of the reasons were beyond my control) and have some serious trouble finding ppl interested in me. What happened to girls wanting a nice guy who will treat them right? Or am I just looking in all the way wrong places? Call me pathetic if you wish, but I am putting myself out here hoping for some honest opinions of this matter. Constructive criticism I do not mind, but insults...please refrain from. Live Right Now Just Be Yourself I Doesn't Matter If Its Good Enough For Someone Else: Jimmy Eats World Who cares what a girls wants is a guy to be himself and treat her with respect. I do care what girls want because the one thing I want out of life is love and I sure as hell can't have that alone now can I? lol. But yeah I WISH all girls had your mind set about respect and such, I wouldn't have an issue then -_- Hey Money doesnt matter to me I make my own, u live with your mom so what as long as you have ambitions to get out of there you know. |
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Do you talk to girls outside of the dating site world? Duh? I hang out with a few, talk with a few via phone, work with a TON. And also go to college and talk/meet some there too. But again, most the people I meet view me as pathedic which obviously most of you do as well so it was pointless as I thought before I even posted this to make this topic. I shoudl have listened to my gut instinct. Is there a way that I can delete this? Knowing my luck the answer is a no -_- Well why do you think they veiw you as pathetic? What is it that you do when your around them that they form this opinion? The girls I know and hang out with and all that think of me as a brother. Most of them had/have had bfs since ive met them or arent interested in anything more than friends. Well...seems like you need to get out of the friend zone. Find out if they have single friends. Honestly...the nice guy thing really doesnt work at your age. I was there not to long ago. I'm not saying be a straigh up asshole, just show confidence in yourself. Dont be afraid to ask girls out. Dont be afraid of rejection. Be a little brass and over confident sometimes. Be a showoff. Be different. |
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Honestly, I don't know if I'm just a strange girl of my age group or what, but...
I'm not really looking for looks, money or a someone who lives away from their parents. I want someone who is down to earth, is emotionally stable and isn't fussy about the fine details of things in life; someone who can just roll with the punches and make the best of things. Another big thing is that they have to like me back. XD |
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I think the problem is you're looking at the women as a whole age range. Everyone is an individual and everyone wants something different at any given stage in their life. You just need to find that ONE girl who is compatible with you, but one thing maybe all girls find attractive is confidence (not cockiness, there is a fine line) and you seen really down on yourself about not having your own place and not having alot of money, etc. If thats all they want, then I don't think you should even waste your time with them...Maybe you should try meeting girls in a place where money isn't a factor, like at the library or something simple like that?
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*sigh*....use the dictionary. It looked more like a typo than a word. a person who seeks sympathy or attention by feigning or exaggerating pain, deprivation, etc Thanks for the insult. I wasnt looking for sympathy or any of that bs. I was curious what your opinions were about the GIRLS and what THEY look for, not of my life and sh*t. If someone who was 18-22 and a girl responded to this with "you not having a license or your own place is mainly why most girls arent interested" i would have been like oh ok so it is that thanks. but no. that was what i was looking for, but instead i got all the other stuff. CAN I DELETE THIS TOPIC SOMEHOW!? |
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didnt people are looking for different things,eventually you will happen upon a girl looking for the same things you are ..and that my friend is the perverbial needle in the haystack,just make sure when she is searching in her own little haystack...you prick her good....
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Do you talk to girls outside of the dating site world? Duh? I hang out with a few, talk with a few via phone, work with a TON. And also go to college and talk/meet some there too. But again, most the people I meet view me as pathedic which obviously most of you do as well so it was pointless as I thought before I even posted this to make this topic. I shoudl have listened to my gut instinct. Is there a way that I can delete this? Knowing my luck the answer is a no -_- Well why do you think they veiw you as pathetic? What is it that you do when your around them that they form this opinion? The girls I know and hang out with and all that think of me as a brother. Most of them had/have had bfs since ive met them or arent interested in anything more than friends. Well...seems like you need to get out of the friend zone. Find out if they have single friends. Honestly...the nice guy thing really doesnt work at your age. I was there not to long ago. I'm not saying be a straigh up asshole, just show confidence in yourself. Dont be afraid to ask girls out. Dont be afraid of rejection. Be a little brass and over confident sometimes. Be a showoff. Be different. Ty for offering more what I was looking for. And I am as such. I ask plenty of girls out, none of my friends have ne single girls my age apperently, least they say they dont. I am confident in many things. I flirt, and all that. |
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Sorry you won't pay attention to the help we're offering. You're on your own.
And no, you can't. |
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I am asking for honest opinions of girls who are actually in this age group. Guys with sarcastic remarks - please refrain and have some maturity =) Ok so my question is this. What do girls (GENERALLY) in the age group 18-22 really look for in a guy? It seems if they aren't about looks, they are about money, or vise versa. Never personality. I ask this because I'd like to think I am a genuinely nice guy and I'm prolly average in looks. I dont have money, and im not where I want to be in life (living at home still -_-) and also no license (long story half of the reasons were beyond my control) and have some serious trouble finding ppl interested in me. What happened to girls wanting a nice guy who will treat them right? Or am I just looking in all the way wrong places? Call me pathetic if you wish, but I am putting myself out here hoping for some honest opinions of this matter. Constructive criticism I do not mind, but insults...please refrain from. Live Right Now Just Be Yourself I Doesn't Matter If Its Good Enough For Someone Else: Jimmy Eats World Who cares what a girls wants is a guy to be himself and treat her with respect. I do care what girls want because the one thing I want out of life is love and I sure as hell can't have that alone now can I? lol. But yeah I WISH all girls had your mind set about respect and such, I wouldn't have an issue then -_- Hey Money doesnt matter to me I make my own, u live with your mom so what as long as you have ambitions to get out of there you know. cool, so some girls out there arent just after money. good to know. ty. |
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