I second that

27 is a mature adult that can make their own decisions on who they are attracted to.

Call it a rose if you like, but it still stinks.

I hear what you are saying Mr. Music. I did come here to ask advice and I appreciate your input. If I wasn't having doubts I wouldn't have asked the question...although I was more concerned over the off again on again thing rather than the age difference. I was caught up in the whole excitement of the happenings. Taking a 16 year break from dating to raise ones children as a single parent after being left alone can leave ones self a little vulnerable to loser syndrome. This woman gave me a wake up call I much needed.I am not persuing her. I let it die. My point here tonight was after her contacting me on a personal level again. You see she lives two houses down from me i see her and her parents almost every day.

Oh, don't get me wrong. You're a grown adult and you can do as you please, just as she can. I'm just saying it's something I personally wouldn't do.

I understand. sincerly thank you for your input.

It nice for you she is 27 and mature female. And it is fun for right now. But it might be a year and then you've let your emotions go and it is going to be a world of hurt instead of new and exciting. Might not even make it that long. Before the tables turn. You don't want to in the end when she stops seeing you look like a stalker. And even if you don't show it on the outside. The inside is going to me messed up.Just keep it lite like a once a month romance. That way she has time to find herself. Things are going on with her. She needs to feel loved right now. I have a daughter 27 and just had a grandchild because of the bio clock she think at 30 happens. There at a different time in there life at that age. I know you feel wow a girl 20 years younger. Be careful there.

When I read this, the word "settling" comes to mind.

I don't agree that any interaction trumps sitting at home.