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Edited by
Sky_Rail
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Listen to that little nagging voice inside . If it a real relationship you might not have doubts or feel guilty . It is honorable of you to be the porsued instead of the other way around . Your true friends will fill you in on the weirdness factor . My hope is for eveyone to be happy , and for myself that means a relationship that is total and mutual. She is an adult , enough said. Thank you, and I have consulted with my closest friends and all they would offer is how much I need to get out and date. Take things slow.. I just worry they say what they think I want to hear. The internet however is a brutal cold yet sometimes caring ear to bend!  Seriously thanks to you all for letting me talk with you about this. |
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YES and now you are more confused than you were before!!!
 
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You are entitled to be happy. Who cares what anybody else thinks. She is of legal age. If you are happy with the situation, go for it!!!  I agree
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YES and now you are more confused than you were before!!!
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YES and now you are more confused than you were before!!! God I love the internet!!   
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You must be aware that any interaction ,even a tamporary relationship,trumps sitting at home waiting or hoping .You make her happy , she makes you happy ....forget what others say . Go forth and enjoy .
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You must be aware that any interaction ,even a tamporary relationship,trumps sitting at home waiting or hoping .You make her happy , she makes you happy ....forget what others say . Go forth and enjoy . This of course is very true, 16 years sitting home was no picnic. |
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It is different for a parent . I would imagine that all of your resources went to your kids ....wanting the best for them ....I applaud you for responding . Where would you be if you didnt get involved ? Year 17 / 18...
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It is different for a parent . I would imagine that all of your resources went to your kids ....wanting the best for them ....I applaud you for responding . Where would you be if you didnt get involved ? Year 17 / 18... This is true, and the result is I have two grown children who I love and love me in return. I regret nothing. I just am ready for a little me time. |
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It is different for a parent . I would imagine that all of your resources went to your kids ....wanting the best for them ....I applaud you for responding . Where would you be if you didnt get involved ? Year 17 / 18... This is true, and the result is I have two grown children who I love and love me in return. I regret nothing. I just am ready for a little me time. 
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My son is 20 and my daughter is 17.
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Time for you to take a dip in Lake Sky . Why not , you have certainly earned it .
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Edited by
MirrorMirror
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Sun 12/21/08 03:12 AM
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I understand what Gypsy is saying, but look at history,look at the bible, look at the rich "Older" guys. There is nothing wrong with an older man being with a younger woman (as long as she is over legal age). Its not a thing. Its not unusual. 27 is not a kid. 27 is a mature adult that can be with who they choose. Its normal. This woman would be acting the same with any other guy regardless of his age.
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Edited by
MirrorMirror
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Sun 12/21/08 03:11 AM
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 But I do gotta admit that being 31, I feel kinda odd when the young 19,20 year old chicks at college come onto me. Makes me feel good though. Been tempted a few times.
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Had a girl in one of my classes flirt with me all semester and I coulda swore she was 25 years old and come to find out she was 18.
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Let's put this into perspective. He's 47, she's 27. A twenty year difference. Some people think that there is no problem with this. Alright, fine.
Now, let's go back in time a bit. Let's make HIM 27, and her, 7. What's the problem with this? It's still the same 20 year difference. There is NO WAY IN HELL that I would date anyone more than 4 or 5 years younger than me, at most! |
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You must be aware that any interaction ,even a tamporary relationship,trumps sitting at home waiting or hoping .You make her happy , she makes you happy ....forget what others say . Go forth and enjoy . |
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