its so cold outside and we are iced in here im so bored. So i had a ? I was wondering why every relationship that seems like its so amazing and you are so happy. Like your in your own world when you are with her she amazings you like no other can even start to do. Why does it all fade away and fall apart so fast?

I'm wondering the same thing right now....

I know right liek i thought she was the one i was with her 2 years we were the happist and cutest couple ever than all hell broke loose and i was left to pick up the pieces

welcome to life.

Nothing lasts forever.

Especally Happiness.

exactly..i just dont understand why it has to be that way its cold!

Yep they make you feel so special for so long and then its like a bomb going off...I just can't figure it because I never say things I don't mean to people I care about.

I know what i did... I was stupid but i dont understand how you throw away 2 years. How someone can tell you "I dont want to be any where with any other guy than with you and this moment you have my whole heart dont break it baby" how do you say that to me with tears in your eyes than just walk away cause of some stupid ****. I dont get it she even admits she isnt as happy as she was with me and it kills her all the time... Women are so confusing i swear lol

I blame global warming.

Im assuming what you are talking about here is normally referred to as the "honeymoon" phase of the relationship. That's when you very first meet someone you are sexually attracted to and you finally do go out with them and it is working out splendidly in the beginning. At that point in time everything is new and exciting and the sex or at least the point leading up to physical contact is all very playful and fun.

That period will last about the first 2-3 months of the relationship and then you slowly get used to one another and some of that excitement gradually begins to fade. You also become more comfortable together so some of the vices and bad habits might start rearing their ugly heads.

There are people who ONLY desire the excitement of a brand new relationship and they are fixated on the initial courtship phase and they immediately dump the person as soon as they feel like that period is over and a more serious commitment is expected of them.

Are you this type of man?

lol... I just realize i sound so bitter im really not I just dont understand it is all

nah i know what you mean.. the thrill wares out but no i really loved her a lot like i didnt get bored with her we just had a lot of drama around the end

But what did you do? Maybe that was something she'll never get past 2 yrs or not...

For me it never starts to fade but for the other.. well that's a different story I guess. I have always felt that they were just filled of lies and found something or wanted something more than I was able to give/offer.

Are you talking to me? Use that quote feature because it helps when a lot of people are on thread. Well how long was this relationship before it ended? I dont think you mentioned that.

Oh wait I see 2 years. Thats still a relatively short term thing. You must have had an inkling it was on the outs?

not much took my buddy out cause he was moving away to chicago so we went to a college party down ISU. She could never trust me though which was sick i didnt even drink that knight but it all started to unravel :-(

Well maybe it is for the best. Sounds like there was a lack of trust. Probably she was just ready to move on.