IS IT THUDERSTUCK60?????????????

Your'e probably just gonna have to get rude and say piss off

I have no idea what you posted a week ago, and I don't see a search function that would allow me to pull it up and read it.

1) You seem to assume that since you've seen him twice that he is trying to run into you. Wallyworld is a big store that lots of people shop at, especially at Christmass time.
2) It doesn't sound like you've read his e-mails after you told him you're not interested so how you can come to any conclusions about the contents or intent of his further e-mails is beyond me.

You're making assumptions and drawing conclusions from thin air. From what you've posted here the only logical conclusion I can come to is that you are freaked out because you want to be freaked out.

Guys that don't take "not interested" as being not interested can get creepy. If he hasn't listened to her in the past when she said she wasn't interested, that's the big issue right there.

If a woman thinks that saying she's not interested means a guy has to avoid ever being in the same store as her. Never speak to her again. Never e-mail her, and God forbid, never be nice. Then she's pretty self absorbed, presumptuous, and unreasonable.

Again, we don't know what the guys intent was, but at least you could act human toward him.

1. I dont care WHY he was in the same store, but I told him I am NOT interested. That means leave me alone. I am not self absorbed, I just don't want to be bothered. I told him that previously.

2. I have read all the email, all they say is that was him at the store, he wants to go out. It's the SAME crap. I don't feel I need to tell him AGAIN the same thing I told him last week.

I know your gonna stick up for your fellow man, but when a woman says NO THANKS. She really means it. And if that doesn't work, then it's called being a weird freak and possible the authorities getting involved. NO means NO.

You think that I am making assumptions, but YOU are the only one doing that about ME.

Hell kitten is one of the most "Human" on this site....

Awww thanks.

Dear Miss hellkitten54

Someone here seems to be aurguing that there is no reason for you to be freaked out over your quasi stalker friend that you have shotdown.

If the guy keeps bothering you after you have said no I would suggest that you seek further assistance.

No means no even if the quasi stalker is just trying to be nice.... get mean if you have to... I am sure that you are perfectly capable

Respectfully,

Yours

TO HIM YOUR GIVING HIM THE BOOT,,,,,BY THROWING SHOES IN HIS FACE...................

Get a life.

What I would do, in your posistion, is buy some pepper spray....if he twitchs wrong spray him in the eyes....then turn the situation in.

now why in the world would some one want to mess if you hun ????



just flat out tell him ...piss off !

It sounds like you've been as nice as possible and it is just not getting through to him. You may have to get a little mean about it.

If he continues, I would block him and document all of your interactions in person; it could come in handy lately.

I'm still going with the pepper spray....that sh1t friggin' BURNS....

TELL HIM YOU HAVE A STD.........

1) Telling someone you are not interested in a relationship does not mean 'don't ever speak to me'. The guy asked if he could help you. Not if he could jump you.

2) This is new information. In your OP you stated only that there was new mail in your box, not that you had any knowledge of thier contents. The guy is persistant. So what.

This is not about 'sticking up for my fellow man', rather this is about you treating a man like he's some vile creature and not a fellow human being.

I know as well as you the double standard when it comes to a woman saying 'no thanks' if a man always takes a woman at her word he ends up in deep ****. We're not talking about rape here, we're talking about saying 'can I help you'.

Even mentioning 'the authorities' getting involved only proves how self centered you are. The cops have far more important things to concern themselves with, without dealing with a paranoid young lady who likes to play the victim routine.
This guy has done nothing to you. He was polite in person and simply asked if he could help you with anything. Sending you a few e-mails does not even constitute minor harassment. So your insistence on labeling this guy as some sort of less-than-human stalker is not only completely uncalled for, but reflects more on you than he.