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Topic: What's the difference between "girlfriend" and "a girl I'm d
torres585's photo
Tue 12/16/08 04:02 PM
Yeah, yeah I know, it's like "chicken or the egg"!I'm probably just grabbing straws here, but if there's any universal difference tell me.

I dated a girl for a month or so, but we never talked about being gf/bf. I guess it was too soon for that!


MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 12/16/08 04:08 PM
:smile: If you have a defined commitment, then she is your girlfriend.:smile:

ledi180's photo
Tue 12/16/08 04:12 PM
Of course, Mirror is correct bigsmile

no photo
Tue 12/16/08 04:18 PM
Ohhhhhh, this I can relate to!!
Had this very subject lately close at home. We finally decided on the "ungirlfriend" name because I was so freaked out by the word. I'm over it now....hehe. It had to do with just being afraid of being hurt again and so forth.

I do think they are correct in that if you decide to commit to each other and nobody else, then you are indeed gf and bf. It was just so odd to me to be using those terms after being married for 12 years. I was saying "the guy I'm dating" and he was saying "my girlfriend".

I guess it really doesn't matter as long as you both understand what the terms of the relationship are eh?

imsingle951's photo
Tue 12/16/08 04:20 PM

:smile: If you have a defined commitment, then she is your girlfriend.:smile:
What he said

torres585's photo
Wed 12/17/08 01:32 PM
I suppose you can't declare something you never talked about.

I'll go with Mirror.

Goofball73's photo
Wed 12/17/08 01:54 PM
If you are only in it to tap it, and nothing else, then she aint your woman.:wink:

Ruth34611's photo
Wed 12/17/08 01:56 PM

If you are only in it to tap it, and nothing else, then she aint your woman.:wink:


So, if you're having sex with a girl and she's not your girlfriend...what is she?

Goofball73's photo
Wed 12/17/08 01:57 PM


If you are only in it to tap it, and nothing else, then she aint your woman.:wink:


So, if you're having sex with a girl and she's not your girlfriend...what is she?


A really good friend?bigsmile laugh laugh laugh

Ruth34611's photo
Wed 12/17/08 02:00 PM



If you are only in it to tap it, and nothing else, then she aint your woman.:wink:


So, if you're having sex with a girl and she's not your girlfriend...what is she?


A really good friend?bigsmile laugh laugh laugh


Then what is a girlfriend?

Goofball73's photo
Wed 12/17/08 02:02 PM




If you are only in it to tap it, and nothing else, then she aint your woman.:wink:


So, if you're having sex with a girl and she's not your girlfriend...what is she?


A really good friend?bigsmile laugh laugh laugh


Then what is a girlfriend?


Ok. If she is your girlfriend, then you will make it exclusive with her and only her, sleep with her and only her, and do all that routine gf/bf stuff. You can have a woman as just being nothing but sex to you. I have seen it. Never done it, but have seen people who have. Both man and woman have that understanding that they aren't dating, but are "friends with benefits".

buttons's photo
Wed 12/17/08 02:03 PM


If you are only in it to tap it, and nothing else, then she aint your woman.:wink:


So, if you're having sex with a girl and she's not your girlfriend...what is she?
better yet what is he?laugh more than likely the gal she is special especially if it continues past 2 times... and probabaly thinks she is the only one.... I'ts so wrong to mislead someone...

Goofball73's photo
Wed 12/17/08 02:04 PM



If you are only in it to tap it, and nothing else, then she aint your woman.:wink:


So, if you're having sex with a girl and she's not your girlfriend...what is she?
better yet what is he?laugh more than likely the gal she is special especially if it continues past 2 times... and probabaly thinks she is the only one.... I'ts so wrong to mislead someone...


He's a manwhore!laugh laugh

Ruth34611's photo
Wed 12/17/08 02:04 PM


Ok. If she is your girlfriend, then you will make it exclusive with her and only her, sleep with her and only her, and do all that routine gf/bf stuff. You can have a woman as just being nothing but sex to you. I have seen it. Never done it, but have seen people who have. Both man and woman have that understanding that they aren't dating, but are "friends with benefits".


I see. Thanks.

buttons's photo
Wed 12/17/08 02:04 PM


If you are only in it to tap it, and nothing else, then she aint your woman.:wink:


So, if you're having sex with a girl and she's not your girlfriend...what is she?
my answer if its been going on for quite some time .. is that she is a peice of azz
and he is a peice of shiznit

Goofball73's photo
Wed 12/17/08 02:05 PM



Ok. If she is your girlfriend, then you will make it exclusive with her and only her, sleep with her and only her, and do all that routine gf/bf stuff. You can have a woman as just being nothing but sex to you. I have seen it. Never done it, but have seen people who have. Both man and woman have that understanding that they aren't dating, but are "friends with benefits".


I see. Thanks.


Does that make sense to you?

Ruth34611's photo
Wed 12/17/08 02:06 PM




Ok. If she is your girlfriend, then you will make it exclusive with her and only her, sleep with her and only her, and do all that routine gf/bf stuff. You can have a woman as just being nothing but sex to you. I have seen it. Never done it, but have seen people who have. Both man and woman have that understanding that they aren't dating, but are "friends with benefits".


I see. Thanks.


Does that make sense to you?


Yes, it does.

Goofball73's photo
Wed 12/17/08 02:09 PM





Ok. If she is your girlfriend, then you will make it exclusive with her and only her, sleep with her and only her, and do all that routine gf/bf stuff. You can have a woman as just being nothing but sex to you. I have seen it. Never done it, but have seen people who have. Both man and woman have that understanding that they aren't dating, but are "friends with benefits".


I see. Thanks.


Does that make sense to you?


Yes, it does.


How do you see it Ruth? Goofy minds would like to know?

Ruth34611's photo
Wed 12/17/08 02:11 PM

How do you see it Ruth? Goofy minds would like to know?


I think you are absolutely right.

Fade2Black's photo
Wed 12/17/08 02:11 PM




Ok. If she is your girlfriend, then you will make it exclusive with her and only her, sleep with her and only her, and do all that routine gf/bf stuff. You can have a woman as just being nothing but sex to you. I have seen it. Never done it, but have seen people who have. Both man and woman have that understanding that they aren't dating, but are "friends with benefits".


I see. Thanks.


Does that make sense to you?



wow goof you're my hero love

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