I need some advice here........So here's my problem,

I've been chatting with a great guy for a while now. He's wonderfull and seems to be very close to what I'm looking for in a potential partner. But we live miles apart, two totally diffrent states, I want to meet and he keeps avoiding it. We both have busy schedules, and limited transportation, but he just has no desire to me face to face. We always make time for long talkes or chat's online but when it comes down to it he always dodges around the fact that we have yet to meet. I've even offered to go to him and he says it's not a good time.

So the fact of the matter is I'm just looking for advice, Do I break it off or do I try to make this work as a long distance relationship?

he's married!!!

Something smells, to me. I would have a "come to Jesus" conversation. Why don't you want to meet?
His answer; or lack of; will tell you what to do.

Thats IT!

I'm going with that one, or at least in a committed relationship. I'd dump him!

If he's been avoiding meeting despite your bending over backwards to make it happen, then he doesn't want to. Probably married or in a relationship and just looking for kicks, sorry to say. This is not a relationship, ld or otherwise, sounds like him getting some kicks at your expense. If I were you, I'd say put up or shut up and if he won't, then I'd run as fast as possible in the other direction.

Girl! Can't you see he have a wife?You are wasting your time. Any other man would say: YES Baby come to me!

he's married or he lied to you he maybe an old man cripple and lied like alot on here i'd dumped him fast bets he's like 80 years old and married

D*mn*t are you all serious.........he says he's just shy and wants to take it slow......I must really be silly

He is either married, has a live-in or just isn't interested enough to meet. You need to have a heart-to-heart with him.

Sounds like he is hiding something from you.

Yes, I'm sorry to say this is probably true.

If he is that adamant(sp?) about you not meeting him, that is a HUGE problem. I agree with everyone, sounds like he's married and just looking for someone to fill a void in his life.

You're not silly. I'ts just easier to be objective and see these things when you are not the one involved. That's what friends are for.

I can see where it could be that he is yanking my chain I guess I just wanted to give him the benifit of the doubt. He say's all the right things and sounds so honest when he does.......

I guess you live and learn right.....time to have a talk with him and see if I can resolve anything

my advice, stay out of ldrs.

Do you have his phone number? If you don't, ask him for it. If he is married or in a relationship, he won't give it to you. If he isn't involved with someone else, then more than likely he is not ready. You never know, maybe he just got out of an ugly relationship and is not ready to start a commitment. There is nothing wrong with waiting a little longer, as long as you know the truth about him.

Good luck to you.

Mos Def................