He doesn't sound like he's ready to make a commitment...move on.

Words of wisdom. No need to go jumping to conclusions if you have something good going on, but at some point you got to take a @#$% or get off the pot.

True....I've been waiting about 6 months now. We have these long wonderfull talkes on the the phone and mail each other at least every other day. I'm not getting the vibe that he's involved Just a constant desire to stahl on meeting. I'd like to date him but I am reluctant to comit if I've never met him face to face. He keeps pushing for a commitment from me, but just wont take the chance and meet me.

I'm at my witts end and when I talk to him next I guess I'll just be blunt and spell it out for him. Meet or lose me.

How can You have a committment without meeting? I know another Lady going through the same thing for about 6 months.

What did she end up doing?

I agree with that completely! Trust me, you might have great phone and e-mail "chemistry" but when you meet in person, it's often something else entirely. I'd have to wonder about someone who wanted a commitment but didn't want to meet in person? That's a HUGE red flag.

whatever the details he is not finding value in a meeting . . . he is probably not what he seems either, chalk it up as lesson learned and move on. good luck!

Well finally talked to him and told him the deal. Allagedly we are going to met in Febuary for V-day. If he scams out I'm done.

Thank you everyone who gave good advice and many happy returns to you