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Topic: "IN YOUR FACE" - part 2
feralcatlady Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 35491	Mon 12/22/08 06:40 AM
debbie you are crazy nah ya think......and I am off all the meds rare.......so dang.....what does that mean exactly....... I guess I am crazy..... gigglesnorting for real and then grabs rare and what OH YEA HAPPY DANCES

feralcatlady Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 35491	Mon 12/22/08 09:01 AM Edited by feralcatlady on Mon 12/22/08 09:02 AM
NEW SUBJECT: FRIENDSHIP WHEN YOU KNOW WHO YOUR REAL FRIENDS ARE. IN YOUR FACE WITH THIS ONE BIG TIME. ALL OPINIONS WANTED AND NEEDED. YOU HAVE TWO FRIENDS YOU HAVE MET IN REAL LIFE....YOU TRY AND PROTECT ONE OF THE FRIENDS AND IT BLOWS UP IN YOUR FACE....THEY IGNORE YOU....EXCLUDE YOU FROM A MEET AND ALL BECAUSE YOUR WERE TRYING TO PROTECT. WHAT DOES THIS SAY TO YOU ABOUT THE FRIENDSHIP? AND IF YOUR SO HURT...HOW DO YOU GET BACK TO A GOOD PLACE ABOUT IT.

KymmieSue Joined Mon 05/05/08 Posts: 1497	Mon 12/22/08 09:38 AM
First, you dont do anything to get back (assuming of course you have tried talking). Time is what you need, make sure they know that you still love them and care, then let time do what it does. We always seem to hurt those we love, in time if they are turely a good friend they will realize that you did what you did to protect them. They will realize that you did no more than they would have done to protect you.

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Mon 12/22/08 10:50 AM
Just me.....I disconnect the dots and walk away. Eventually they track me down in time to apologize. I do not believe in forgiving or forgetting. I do take them back as friends but, only on the condition that they know that I no longer trust them. (kind of freaks them out when I point out that I don't have to trust them to accept them) Like I said...that is just my way.

A64WOODY Joined Tue 03/04/08 Posts: 6830	Mon 12/22/08 12:21 PM
You're a hard man, Krupa!!! In my opinion, you've shown your friendship by trying to protect them, but ultimately, it is their decision to meet. As a friend, you should be there(on the outside) to share in the joy if it works for them(and maybe eat a little crow). Or to help them heal if it doesn't(and maybe give 'em an I told you so.)

bad_girl Joined Tue 07/17/07 Posts: 67379	Mon 12/22/08 12:34 PM
Woody, you have mail

A64WOODY Joined Tue 03/04/08 Posts: 6830	Mon 12/22/08 12:36 PM
Woody, you have mail Got it!! Thanks!!!

RareEntity Joined Mon 09/01/08 Posts: 23676	Mon 12/22/08 01:39 PM
if they got such a bug up their bbutt to do something so rash, then whatever, let them lie in their own bed

feralcatlady Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 35491	Mon 12/22/08 03:42 PM
Yea this situation is not about me....just one that has pissed me off more then anything....Here is my beef.....I am going to use krupa as an example.....Krupa has a problem with me...and instead of going directly to me...he e-mails a bunch of people and talks crap about me...well one of the people e-mails me and tells me what happen.....What is up with that....have a problem with a person go the hell to that person....don't go behind their back and spew crap....right.....what does that do...just make more people involved in drama that they don't need to be involved in.

feralcatlady Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 35491	Mon 12/22/08 03:42 PM
if they got such a bug up their bbutt to do something so rash, then whatever, let them lie in their own bed right on rare bear....new name for rare..gigglesnort

RareEntity Joined Mon 09/01/08 Posts: 23676	Mon 12/22/08 03:45 PM
if they got such a bug up their bbutt to do something so rash, then whatever, let them lie in their own bed right on rare bear....new name for rare..gigglesnort hehe nice, another to add to my list

awolf1010 Joined Sun 03/30/08 Posts: 7251	Mon 12/22/08 03:46 PM
I cant speak for all the guys here.....but the difference between men and woman's relationships vary greatly..... men can go years without speaking to a friend.....meet in a bar and take off like they never were apart. women......if they dont hear from a friend.....in 2 days time... that Bch!!! Fk her!!! yadda yadda

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Mon 12/22/08 03:55 PM
But...but....Baby! I only talk crap in front of your back! I swear!!!!!!! Oh man...do I hate that uncalled for melodrama crap...I seperate myself from those types with a quickness. Now it is time to lighten up with a quick commercial break...... Try new Preparation H! Now with flouride and a cool minty flavor! Reccomended most by Dentists and Proctologists... ....and now..Back to our show!

RareEntity Joined Mon 09/01/08 Posts: 23676	Mon 12/22/08 03:56 PM
good commercial krupa

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Mon 12/22/08 03:57 PM
...and Wolf definitely has a valid point.

RareEntity Joined Mon 09/01/08 Posts: 23676	Mon 12/22/08 04:06 PM
yea, i can see wolfs point of view

A64WOODY Joined Tue 03/04/08 Posts: 6830	Mon 12/22/08 04:12 PM
Yea this situation is not about me....just one that has pissed me off more then anything....Here is my beef.....I am going to use krupa as an example.....Krupa has a problem with me...and instead of going directly to me...he e-mails a bunch of people and talks crap about me...well one of the people e-mails me and tells me what happen.....What is up with that....have a problem with a person go the hell to that person....don't go behind their back and spew crap....right.....what does that do...just make more people involved in drama that they don't need to be involved in. Yeppers!!! Been there. My reply....f him!!

Holly4459 Joined Sun 06/29/08 Posts: 34785	Mon 12/22/08 04:14 PM
I'm still your friend Deb!

A64WOODY Joined Tue 03/04/08 Posts: 6830	Mon 12/22/08 04:16 PM
Yea this situation is not about me....just one that has pissed me off more then anything....Here is my beef.....I am going to use krupa as an example.....Krupa has a problem with me...and instead of going directly to me...he e-mails a bunch of people and talks crap about me...well one of the people e-mails me and tells me what happen.....What is up with that....have a problem with a person go the hell to that person....don't go behind their back and spew crap....right.....what does that do...just make more people involved in drama that they don't need to be involved in. Yeppers!!! Been there. My reply....f him!! Oh yeah! And i send all my dirty emails to you so you can get all hot and bothered!!!

feralcatlady Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 35491	Tue 12/23/08 02:46 PM
I'm still your friend Deb! Holly I love you.... and truthfully people not about me....cuz no way in God's green earth anyone and I mean anyone would get away with this with me....no way no how.