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well....I want a pony, and a baseball mit, and a G.I Joe with full battle gear and a grenade launcher.......  This isnt letters to ..... Santa.... Is it....... The "F" should a been a dead giveaway for me... Nevermind......  
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 Taking a nap and hope I feel better in an hour! later gators! bye woody 
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Edited by
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Please just tell me... cause I just don't get it... Some people can't handle/are afraid of anyone really knowing them or loving them. Maybe they think they are unworthy or defective. Maybe they are afraid to get left or rejected. Perhaps they weren't really as available as they first presented themselves to be. Maybe they lied about who or what they were and could no longer carry on the farce. Those that are objectifying a partner, seeking only the hot @ss, will find other "hot @sses" before, during, and after yours....count on it. It is not the individual that matters to them, it is the body parts they fetishize. I have heard that if you can date a guy for a year without having sex with him, you are almost guaranteed to be married within 2 years. I think thats asking for too much restraint on both parties' part. Or there is the taxi cab theory... (modified into my words) Guys going around screwing and trying to get into every and anything's pants. Until one day they turn on the for hire light and pick up the first gal that comes along.. and that is who they marry or get serious about. People settle down and marry "the best possible available person" when the time becomes right for them. It is all about timing and availability and whether they coincide at the right time. From recent experience, I have seen that often, they don't. |
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I feel, and this applies to both sexes, that when a man or woman is "ready" to settle down, find someone to truly be with, that finding what they want becomes a chore. It frustrates them to a point that they wanna give up. And, normally, it is when they are about to give up that someone walks into their life. And, at that moment, they are trapped, cause they love what they are feeling for this person. But at the same time, they have planned on just giving up on love, and thus, they become cynical to the idea. I have seen this happen so many times. I guess what we all need to learn is that you just can't give up. Hard as it is to actually do that, you have to try.
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Please just tell me... cause I just don't get it... Some people can't handle/are afraid of anyone really knowing them or loving them. Maybe they think they are unworthy or defective. Maybe they are afraid to get left or rejected. Perhaps they weren't really as available as they first presented themselves to be. Maybe they lied about who or what they were and could no longer carry on the farce. Those that are objectifying a partner, seeking only the hot @ss, will find other "hot @sses" before, during, and after yours....count on it. It is not the individual that matters to them, it is the body parts they fetishize. I have heard that if you can date a guy for a year without having sex with him, you are almost guaranteed to be married within 2 years. I think thats asking for too much restraint on both parties' part. Or there is the taxi cab theory... (modified into my words) Guys going around screwing and trying to get into every and anything's pants. Until one day they turn on the for hire light and pick up the first gal that comes along.. and that is who they marry or get serious about. People settle down and marry "the best possible available person" when the time becomes right for them. It is all about timing and availability and whether they coincide at the right time. From recent experience, I have seen that often, they don't. |
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I feel, and this applies to both sexes, that when a man or woman is "ready" to settle down, find someone to truly be with, that finding what they want becomes a chore. It frustrates them to a point that they wanna give up. And, normally, it is when they are about to give up that someone walks into their life. And, at that moment, they are trapped, cause they love what they are feeling for this person. But at the same time, they have planned on just giving up on love, and thus, they become cynical to the idea. I have seen this happen so many times. I guess what we all need to learn is that you just can't give up. Hard as it is to actually do that, you have to try.   Holy crap!!! There is alot of really insightful people here!!!
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I feel, and this applies to both sexes, that when a man or woman is "ready" to settle down, find someone to truly be with, that finding what they want becomes a chore. It frustrates them to a point that they wanna give up. And, normally, it is when they are about to give up that someone walks into their life. And, at that moment, they are trapped, cause they love what they are feeling for this person. But at the same time, they have planned on just giving up on love, and thus, they become cynical to the idea. I have seen this happen so many times. I guess what we all need to learn is that you just can't give up. Hard as it is to actually do that, you have to try. Holy crap!!! There is alot of really insightful people here!!! Nah....I just pulled that one outta me buttocks! 
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I feel, and this applies to both sexes, that when a man or woman is "ready" to settle down, find someone to truly be with, that finding what they want becomes a chore. It frustrates them to a point that they wanna give up. And, normally, it is when they are about to give up that someone walks into their life. And, at that moment, they are trapped, cause they love what they are feeling for this person. But at the same time, they have planned on just giving up on love, and thus, they become cynical to the idea. I have seen this happen so many times. I guess what we all need to learn is that you just can't give up. Hard as it is to actually do that, you have to try. I agree; but as someone recently said, accepting that you may be alone for a long time is different than giving up. It hurts the same, but it is putting the investment in the outcome out of your hands, having faith, and living your life with grace. I am hoping to get to this point. Trying to find my way. Almost there. |
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I honestly believe that no man knows what he wants and if he does and he finds it he gets scared and runs away.... You just might be right!  you need to take a look around at where your at....most everyone here has a past,and if given time the walls can be brought down......but not by just anyone!!!!! |
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I feel, and this applies to both sexes, that when a man or woman is "ready" to settle down, find someone to truly be with, that finding what they want becomes a chore. It frustrates them to a point that they wanna give up. And, normally, it is when they are about to give up that someone walks into their life. And, at that moment, they are trapped, cause they love what they are feeling for this person. But at the same time, they have planned on just giving up on love, and thus, they become cynical to the idea. I have seen this happen so many times. I guess what we all need to learn is that you just can't give up. Hard as it is to actually do that, you have to try. I agree; but as someone recently said, accepting that you may be alone for a long time is different than giving up. It hurts the same, but it is putting the investment in the outcome out of your hands, having faith, and living your life with grace. I am hoping to get to this point. Trying to find my way. Almost there. I see what you are saying Angel, and I agree with it too. I mean, if you do accpet that you will be alone for awhile, then that is what you have chosen for your life. But...you never do know who will walk into your life tomorrow. My point is that I see people really look so hard for someone, only to become so fed up with it. And, by that point, someone usually comes into their life and tries to love them...but they won't let them. I guess the timing would just be off and all, but then again, what if that person is who you were looking for? Tough choice to make, and that is why they call them choices in this game of life. |
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I honestly believe that no man knows what he wants and if he does and he finds it he gets scared and runs away.... You just might be right! you need to take a look around at where your at....most everyone here has a past,and if given time the walls can be brought down......but not by just anyone!!!!!  Especially if your MARRIED
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To the OP - he doesn't sound like such a good friend if the friendship revolves around him getting the close intimacy of your friendship without him contributing the same level back to you.
Just my two cents but he needs to grow a pair and be honest with you if he's really your friend. |
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To the OP - he doesn't sound like such a good friend if the friendship revolves around him getting the close intimacy of your friendship without him contributing the same level back to you. Just my two cents but he needs to grow a pair and be honest with you if he's really your friend. Well I am suppose to talk to my BFF tonight about it... so I'll let you guys know. |
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I honestly believe that no man knows what he wants and if he does and he finds it he gets scared and runs away.... You just might be right! you need to take a look around at where your at....most everyone here has a past,and if given time the walls can be brought down......but not by just anyone!!!!! Especially if your MARRIED as soon as you moe out of your mommies basement, then you can have an opinion!!!!
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hey wolfie poo
 how are ya darlin?
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hey wolfie poo how are ya darlin? Im good thanks!!!!
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I honestly believe that no man knows what he wants and if he does and he finds it he gets scared and runs away.... You just might be right! you need to take a look around at where your at....most everyone here has a past,and if given time the walls can be brought down......but not by just anyone!!!!! Especially if your MARRIED as soon as you moe out of your mommies basement, then you can have an opinion!!!!
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Edited by
A64WOODY
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Sun 12/14/08 04:06 PM
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Some people are so insecure that they resort to childhood antics. One has to wonder where they hide the diaper they wear when they go to bed.
****Smile**** IT'S IN YOUR FACE!!!! P.s. TRY A REAL PIC SOMETIME. *I'm sorry,(((Tanya))) *
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I happen to know exactly what I want. No, I'm not from an alternate dimension, it's just what happens to people who've been dateless their whole lives. To make up for lost time, we seriously consider what would make us happy long-term so we're not wasting precious years drifting from relationship to relationship.
Funny thing is, when I identify myself as someone who knows exactly what he wants, others sometimes accuse me of being shallow for not experimenting. 
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I happen to know exactly what I want. No, I'm not from an alternate dimension, it's just what happens to people who've been dateless their whole lives. To make up for lost time, we seriously consider what would make us happy long-term so we're not wasting precious years drifting from relationship to relationship. Funny thing is, when I identify myself as someone who knows exactly what he wants, others sometimes accuse me of being shallow for not experimenting. I also know exactly what I want, but people tend to say things like "You only THINK you know what you want. I could change your mind." But they never can. The larger problem is when you know exactly what you want but it's now extinct. |
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