no offence to guys or anything but have i just been runnin into the wrong people or do guys have no feelings, i went on a date with this guy and next day i saw him holdin hands with another chick kissin her, not the first time its happened but i was wonderin please guys n gals help me out, whats the deal? do you guys have no morals nemore whats goin on?

I think a lot of people (guys and ladies) are losing morals more and more. Kind of pathetic, I would say. Although, most people I know blame it on past relationships, where their lover was unfaithful. Makes my head spin!

Maybe it's you?

or maybe its just jerk guys

Nope. No morals. No standards.

We are all just a bunch of shi*theads who have nothing better to do than f*ck with women.

Is that what you were looking for??

No??

Try this then.

Instead of going for style...try going for substance. You'll be surprised just how good an " average " dude can be.

Maybe, has it happened with every guy or just some of them?

or maybe its global warming

Why did you not stab him in the throat in revenge?

If you let him get away with it, he is going to keep on doing it.

Stab in him the throat and then cut his winkle off.

just some, im a very nice person, and ive met alot of nice guys, but they just dont want me, they seem to date the *****y girls, haha it boggles me

Guys date *****y girls...and girls prefer men who are assh*les over a good guy any day of the week.

That's just the way it works.

You went on one date? One date does not a commitment make.

We have morals, some of us do anyway. I understand what you mean, and I'm sorry to hear this happened to you...While playing poker, I am generally surrounded by guys who would behave the same way, although one or two are different...Consequently, I've been invited to girls' birthday parties where all they do is exchange stories about how they all cheated on their last boyfriend...wasn't impressed with that topic of discussion...so remember, some of us guys deal with the same crap. What you went through is more a reflection of how wicked and evil society as a whole is, rather than the male gender.

it can be the guys
it can be you
it can be a mixture of the two
and please remember it was only date
they and you can still do as you please
people are known to have multiple dates
and see multiple people at the same time

re examine the whole ordeal ... BOL...

that wasnt my big problem its just in general i havent met a guy who really doesnt care about my feelings thats all

So...you went on a date with a guy...a date...and so now hes not suppose to date anyone else???

I'd boggle you!(Does boggle mean the same thing in the States that it does over here?!) lol

Learn from your mistakes and stop picking the same type of guys

Bingo

Well, that's a different problem altogether. The thing is, if that keeps happening over and over again, you have to look inside yourself to figure out why you're choosing the same guy. After a while, it's not them, it's YOU. And I don't mean that as a put down or insult in any way but there is something about that kind of person you are drawn to and you need to find out what it is and why in order to break the cycle.

Its only cheating if the guy makes some sort of a commitment to a relationship with you.If you like a guy you go out with ,and you feel like you want a relationship with him, then try to establish a commitment from him.