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You went on one date? One date does not a commitment make.  that wasnt my big problem its just in general i havent met a guy who really doesnt care about my feelings thats all Well, that's a different problem altogether. The thing is, if that keeps happening over and over again, you have to look inside yourself to figure out why you're choosing the same guy. After a while, it's not them, it's YOU. And I don't mean that as a put down or insult in any way but there is something about that kind of person you are drawn to and you need to find out what it is and why in order to break the cycle. Thats right. Sounds like she is attracted to the wrong type of guys. Try to go out with someone besides "cute guys". A persons heart can lead them astray. Look for particular personality qualities instead.
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this is turned into a thing where i think the guy has cheated on me, i dont care that he was with another girl, i just feel weird about it, i was just wanting some insight, and i dont go for 'cute guys' or typical 'ass holes' it just kinda happens that way, and i didnt try to dis any guy, ive met plenty of nice guys that i think are great, all im saying is that guys and girls both need to realize how they treat people thats my point, haha
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no offence to guys or anything but have i just been runnin into the wrong people or do guys have no feelings, i went on a date with this guy and next day i saw him holdin hands with another chick kissin her, not the first time its happened but i was wonderin please guys n gals help me out, whats the deal? do you guys have no morals nemore whats goin on?  Maybe it's you? or maybe its just jerk guys LOL, I always get a giggle reading your posts. Thanks for the laugh today.
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" Attracted to the wrong type of guys "....
So tell me something....how many young girls are ever attracted to the " right " type of guy before they get their heart broken a few dozen times? How many young women do you hear saying " Well it doesn't matter that he isn't hot. He has a fantastic mind!! "? |
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You went on one date? One date does not a commitment make. that wasnt my big problem its just in general i havent met a guy who really doesnt care about my feelings thats all Well, that's a different problem altogether. The thing is, if that keeps happening over and over again, you have to look inside yourself to figure out why you're choosing the same guy. After a while, it's not them, it's YOU. And I don't mean that as a put down or insult in any way but there is something about that kind of person you are drawn to and you need to find out what it is and why in order to break the cycle. Great answer! 
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Edited by
darkowl1
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Sat 12/13/08 03:30 PM
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it's greed, selfishness, and overconfidence. that's why most do this. people are people, and if this human race would drop it's male-female trump cards, to put each other in their place, you just might get along, for you would be on even keel, with just your feelings to go by.
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Nope. No morals. No standards. We are all just a bunch of shi*theads who have nothing better to do than f*ck with women. Is that what you were looking for?? No?? Try this then. Instead of going for style...try going for substance. You'll be surprised just how good an " average " dude can be.
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" Attracted to the wrong type of guys ".... So tell me something....how many young girls are ever attracted to the " right " type of guy before they get their heart broken a few dozen times? How many young women do you hear saying " Well it doesn't matter that he isn't hot. He has a fantastic mind!! "? i have said that quite a few times, but those guys are either already in realtionships with mean girls OR they just dont want a realtion, which i can totally understand because for one i dont right now either, but in the future id like to know how i can stray away from certain types of people, i always give everyone a chance, but im not good at telling what type of person they are just by how they look, so i guess i gotta trial n error things |
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Don't just single guys out at doing this. Sometimes girls can be just as cold as guys.
The bottom line is it just depends on the individual. Believe it or not, there ARE some good guys left out there. |
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" Attracted to the wrong type of guys ".... So tell me something....how many young girls are ever attracted to the " right " type of guy before they get their heart broken a few dozen times? How many young women do you hear saying " Well it doesn't matter that he isn't hot. He has a fantastic mind!! "? i have said that quite a few times, but those guys are either already in realtionships with mean girls OR they just dont want a realtion, which i can totally understand because for one i dont right now either, but in the future id like to know how i can stray away from certain types of people, i always give everyone a chance, but im not good at telling what type of person they are just by how they look, so i guess i gotta trial n error things you dont want a relationship? Well then this guy was right to date someone else if thats what he wanted to do. Good luck to him |
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" Attracted to the wrong type of guys ".... So tell me something....how many young girls are ever attracted to the " right " type of guy before they get their heart broken a few dozen times? How many young women do you hear saying " Well it doesn't matter that he isn't hot. He has a fantastic mind!! "? i have said that quite a few times, but those guys are either already in realtionships with mean girls OR they just dont want a realtion, which i can totally understand because for one i dont right now either, but in the future id like to know how i can stray away from certain types of people, i always give everyone a chance, but im not good at telling what type of person they are just by how they look, so i guess i gotta trial n error things That is not entirely true. They may be the guy that you have seen looking your way, but you never paid attention to because some other dude was right up in your space getting your attention. They may be the ones you see, when you are with a group of friends out somewhere, sitting by himself just watching people. Don't assume that they don't want a relationship. The first thing you are going to have to do is change your mindset. Until you do that, you will continue to go after the guys that are going to do the same things you are talking about in here. |
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" Attracted to the wrong type of guys ".... So tell me something....how many young girls are ever attracted to the " right " type of guy before they get their heart broken a few dozen times? How many young women do you hear saying " Well it doesn't matter that he isn't hot. He has a fantastic mind!! "? i have said that quite a few times, but those guys are either already in realtionships with mean girls OR they just dont want a realtion, which i can totally understand because for one i dont right now either, but in the future id like to know how i can stray away from certain types of people, i always give everyone a chance, but im not good at telling what type of person they are just by how they look, so i guess i gotta trial n error things That is not entirely true. They may be the guy that you have seen looking your way, but you never paid attention to because some other dude was right up in your space getting your attention. They may be the ones you see, when you are with a group of friends out somewhere, sitting by himself just watching people. Don't assume that they don't want a relationship. The first thing you are going to have to do is change your mindset. Until you do that, you will continue to go after the guys that are going to do the same things you are talking about in here. excuse me but you dont know me, so you cant say i do that i kinda brought this whole subject up in a wrong way so yeah.. |
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like most people in todays society, no morals, male or female.there are great people out there,just hard to find.both can be jerks.everyone is always looking for better than what they have.again,its his loss.the art of great morals and love are gone.to easy to move on.
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Edited by
JustAGuy2112
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" Attracted to the wrong type of guys ".... So tell me something....how many young girls are ever attracted to the " right " type of guy before they get their heart broken a few dozen times? How many young women do you hear saying " Well it doesn't matter that he isn't hot. He has a fantastic mind!! "? i have said that quite a few times, but those guys are either already in realtionships with mean girls OR they just dont want a realtion, which i can totally understand because for one i dont right now either, but in the future id like to know how i can stray away from certain types of people, i always give everyone a chance, but im not good at telling what type of person they are just by how they look, so i guess i gotta trial n error things That is not entirely true. They may be the guy that you have seen looking your way, but you never paid attention to because some other dude was right up in your space getting your attention. They may be the ones you see, when you are with a group of friends out somewhere, sitting by himself just watching people. Don't assume that they don't want a relationship. The first thing you are going to have to do is change your mindset. Until you do that, you will continue to go after the guys that are going to do the same things you are talking about in here. excuse me but you dont know me, so you cant say i do that i kinda brought this whole subject up in a wrong way so yeah.. I'm not assuming that I know anything about you. I am simply answering the questions as they are posed. You asked why the guys all do what has been done to you. I answered. If my answer wasn't what you were looking for...sorry about your luck. You also said that the good guys are all in relationships or don't want one. I simply pointed out that they aren't " all " in that boat. I didn't say that YOU " do " anything in particular. I said there was some other dude in your space getting your attention. It was a simple statement. You seem to be reading more into my response than was actually there. |
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no offence to guys or anything but have i just been runnin into the wrong people or do guys have no feelings, i went on a date with this guy and next day i saw him holdin hands with another chick kissin her, not the first time its happened but i was wonderin please guys n gals help me out, whats the deal? do you guys have no morals nemore whats goin on? One date is not exactly a marriage. These days, I'm really not romantically attached to anyone, nor am I in any hurry to be. When I am interested, however, I always narrow my interest to the one I want to be with and try to give the relationship the chance it deserves. I wont speak for the other 3 billion of my kind, that's just me. |
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this is turned into a thing where i think the guy has cheated on me, i dont care that he was with another girl, i just feel weird about it, i was just wanting some insight, and i dont go for 'cute guys' or typical 'ass holes' it just kinda happens that way, and i didnt try to dis any guy, ive met plenty of nice guys that i think are great, all im saying is that guys and girls both need to realize how they treat people thats my point, haha There are a lot more bad ones than good ones out there.... |
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