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Do you like to make plans? Or, are you one of those last minute kind of people?
This guy that I've talked to a little bit has asked me out twice now. Both times he asked the night of. I already had plans, so I haven't gone out with him. If I wanted to meet someone new, I at least try to plan a little.. not wait until the night of. Maybe that's not what most people do, though. |
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Plans please. I consider it good manners to at least ask 24 hours ahead of time.
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I like to plan especially when first meeting someone. It seems to make the date go a little smoother.
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a bit of both, really. (This comment was planned and scripted.)
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Definately plan ahead a little bit...
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I would have to, since I'd need a sitter. I prefer to have plans when dating someone.
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aye, plan ahead if its a date
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I probably would have gone out with him had I not been busy. But, that's been twice so far. Even asking a day in advance would be better than asking that night.
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nope I'm the spontaneous sort
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Well in this type of case.. I would always make plans. So then both partys have a good ideas of when we are gonna meet etc.
I mean it would be rude just to call some one out of the blue inless your long time friends and have been talkin for weeks about doing stuff that's different. But yeah if it was me, I would make plans.. seeing as I work and never know at times when I might be free or not etc. So I would repesect the same out of the other person I would like to see etc. |
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I believe in planning ahead.
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Well in this type of case.. I would always make plans. So then both partys have a good ideas of when we are gonna meet etc. I mean it would be rude just to call some one out of the blue inless your long time friends and have been talkin for weeks about doing stuff that's different. But yeah if it was me, I would make plans.. seeing as I work and never know at times when I might be free or not etc. So I would repesect the same out of the other person I would like to see etc. this is why I like to chat and know someone prior to meeting them - we can have the confidence to pick up the phone and say, hey let's grab a bite  works for me - know it doesn't work for most 
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Edited by
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Fri 12/12/08 04:24 PM
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how about telling him this instead of us?
 and myself i'd prefer the planning of at least 3 days.... but if you told him that the first time there would not of been a second time. |
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Everyone is different when it comes to this. Just tell him if he wants to make plans with you it may be better to plan something in advance.
I prefer plans, but with my schedule sometimes I do things at the last minute as well. And, good luck when you guys finally do go out. 
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how about telling him this instead of us? and myself i'd prefer the planning of at least 3 days.... but if you told him that the first time there would not of been a second time. Never said I didn't tell him. I was just curious what other people think and do. |
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Everyone is different when it comes to this. Just tell him if he wants to make plans with you it may be better to plan something in advance. I prefer plans, but with my schedule sometimes I do things at the last minute as well. And, good luck when you guys finally do go out. Last minute isn't a bad thing and I know that planning something isn't always an option. But, we'll see, I guess. |
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i assumed u didnt since he did it a second time
in that case... why would he do that again? he must be doing it on purpose then cause hes chicken to meet you
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Everyone is different when it comes to this. Just tell him if he wants to make plans with you it may be better to plan something in advance. I prefer plans, but with my schedule sometimes I do things at the last minute as well. And, good luck when you guys finally do go out. Last minute isn't a bad thing and I know that planning something isn't always an option. But, we'll see, I guess. I say don't wait, invite him out unscripted and unplanned
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or if u want to see him tell him how about i take a raincheck? and then say how bout if i call you when i can go and appoligise to him and tell him it's just a busy time of the year for you
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i assumed u didnt since he did it a second time in that case... why would he do that again? he must be doing it on purpose then cause hes chicken to meet you You shouldn't assume  .
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