Well....if it's the first few times going out...I would have some kind of plan in mind.

Asking someone out on impulse can be a good thing, but it's usually better to make sure it's feasible the first few times.

After that, it's not as much of a rejection if she says she can't go because she has other plans.

Sounds to me like this guy is just trying to find out if you'd drop what you planned on doing in favor of going out with him.

plans are good...I mean i have a busy schedule and stuff...but it is nice to be spontaneous and jsut do things also.

whichever time allows.

I had one of the best happenings on a dime!!!She called and said let's eat and I did. We were together only for two years!

I actually asked him about it and he said he's not good at planning.

Oh please. How difficult can it be.

" Gee. I think I'll ask * insert name here * if she wants to go out to dinner Friday night. Maybe I'll take her to Outback. "

Can you say bullsh*t????

I really was just asking others to see what they do.

Sing.....I'm anal about planning. I think I have issues...haha.

The guy I'm dating laughed at me because I made him give me directions home from his house in case he got stuck at work and couldn't meet me there and I had to get home without seeing him. That case was maybe more of me being directionally challenged, but it also had to do with planning my time so I could be home in time for the kids.

I kind of like to know what's going on for the week and at least have a tentative plan in my head. Spontaneous things are great, but when you have a busy life there isn't much room for them. A date I definitely like to have planned so I can schedule in time to shave my legs....