Topic: Why Do Some Men....
beautyfrompain's photo
Mon 12/08/08 08:40 PM

You got to weed out another loser without wasting too much time and effort.
AND
You didn't have to kiss him at the end of the date.:banana:

Which is worse?

Getting stood-up?
or
Going on date, and its a bust?
being a bust would of been better...at least I would not of wasted my hours upon hours on the phone with him and looking like a fool at starbucks!

Haloheldbyhorns's photo
Mon 12/08/08 08:44 PM
I can say that as a man I have NEVER stood a woman up. I can not understand a man doing it either unless there is a death in the family or other emergency, and even then I would call to let you know why I was not picking you up. It is just disrespectful to do other wise.

no photo
Mon 12/08/08 08:44 PM


You got to weed out another loser without wasting too much time and effort.
AND
You didn't have to kiss him at the end of the date.:banana:

Which is worse?

Getting stood-up?
or
Going on date, and its a bust?
being a bust would of been better...at least I would not of wasted my hours upon hours on the phone with him and looking like a fool at starbucks!


No not a fool!
Someone who stands by their word with actions, willing to take a risk in life, willing to let love into your life again, not a fool in my book.
He is a fool, he lost your respect,trust and friendship.

whispertoascream's photo
Mon 12/08/08 08:48 PM

Could have been second thought's. I've been guilty of this a few time's. What can I say? I got cold feet!!!!!!!! I was just chicken to go out with somebody that I didn't know.



I am sorry there is never a reason to do that to somebody. To me it is cruel and heartless.



To the OP, I am sorry that this happened to you. Just think one persons lost means an even better persons gain.

Atlantis75's photo
Mon 12/08/08 08:50 PM


You got to weed out another loser without wasting too much time and effort.
AND
You didn't have to kiss him at the end of the date.:banana:

Which is worse?

Getting stood-up?
or
Going on date, and its a bust?
being a bust would of been better...at least I would not of wasted my hours upon hours on the phone with him and looking like a fool at starbucks!


That's terrible. I wish I could actually get to the "e-mail me" part with women here let alone phone or actual date..and others go this far and do such a thing. mad

Winx's photo
Mon 12/08/08 08:51 PM



You got to weed out another loser without wasting too much time and effort.
AND
You didn't have to kiss him at the end of the date.:banana:

Which is worse?

Getting stood-up?
or
Going on date, and its a bust?
being a bust would of been better...at least I would not of wasted my hours upon hours on the phone with him and looking like a fool at starbucks!


No not a fool!
Someone who stands by their word with actions, willing to take a risk in life, willing to let love into your life again, not a fool in my book.
He is a fool, he lost your respect,trust and friendship.


Nicely said, M.Michiganman.flowerforyou

mikew1979's photo
Mon 12/08/08 08:54 PM
I've been guilty of that back in my young days as well. Came down to cold feet. You're beautiful and will find better. Don't let it get to you. : )

no photo
Mon 12/08/08 08:57 PM

stand women up?!?! I mean I spent time getting dolled up for nothing! I feel like a fool.

I mean did he even think of the rejection it would cause me?

That hurt and you call yourself a Christian.

Lose my number!


I am sorry that this happened to you. Even if it was an emergency situation a courtesy call would of been in order. You are beautiful inside and out and deserve better. Because we are both Christians I will share the scripture that came to mind when I read your post:

Proverbs 16:33 (Amp)
The lot is cast into the lap, but the decision is wholly of the Lord [even the events that seem accidental are really ordered by Him].

He's a jerk and thank God you didn't waste time finding it out later.

:heart: :cry: :heart:

beautyfrompain's photo
Mon 12/08/08 09:01 PM

I've been guilty of that back in my young days as well. Came down to cold feet. You're beautiful and will find better. Don't let it get to you. : )
Kicks you :angry:

Atlantis75's photo
Mon 12/08/08 09:01 PM
At least have the courtesy to sit through that date if you managed to go this far,if you really don't like her, thank her for the date and move on.

JustAGuy2112's photo
Mon 12/08/08 09:02 PM


I've been guilty of that back in my young days as well. Came down to cold feet. You're beautiful and will find better. Don't let it get to you. : )
Kicks you :angry:


Gotta give him credit for admitting to it and actually saying WHY he did it.

ArtGurl's photo
Mon 12/08/08 09:02 PM
Well that is just rude! I am sorry that happened to you! flowerforyou

beautyfrompain's photo
Mon 12/08/08 09:02 PM


stand women up?!?! I mean I spent time getting dolled up for nothing! I feel like a fool.

I mean did he even think of the rejection it would cause me?

That hurt and you call yourself a Christian.

Lose my number!


I am sorry that this happened to you. Even if it was an emergency situation a courtesy call would of been in order. You are beautiful inside and out and deserve better. Because we are both Christians I will share the scripture that came to mind when I read your post:

Proverbs 16:33 (Amp)
The lot is cast into the lap, but the decision is wholly of the Lord [even the events that seem accidental are really ordered by Him].

He's a jerk and thank God you didn't waste time finding it out later.

:heart: :cry: :heart:


Thanks for that :smile:

Atlantis75's photo
Mon 12/08/08 09:03 PM
ehh...another thing.. why Starbucks???

mikew1979's photo
Mon 12/08/08 09:03 PM
:( Hey ... It was pathetic .. and through the years I've grown to realize how disrespectful it was and have since apologized. But That was also when I was 18, being 29 now I will never make the same mistake.

beautyfrompain's photo
Mon 12/08/08 09:04 PM



I've been guilty of that back in my young days as well. Came down to cold feet. You're beautiful and will find better. Don't let it get to you. : )
Kicks you :angry:


Gotta give him credit for admitting to it and actually saying WHY he did it.

Yes, I do

Holly4459's photo
Mon 12/08/08 09:04 PM
I wish I knew the answer to that!

It's happened to me many times....noway


beautyfrompain's photo
Mon 12/08/08 09:07 PM

ehh...another thing.. why Starbucks???

That's where he wanted to meet and I don't even like coffee.

Winx's photo
Mon 12/08/08 09:08 PM
Throw rocks at him.:angry:

beautyfrompain's photo
Mon 12/08/08 09:08 PM

:( Hey ... It was pathetic .. and through the years I've grown to realize how disrespectful it was and have since apologized. But That was also when I was 18, being 29 now I will never make the same mistake.
That's good :smile: