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You got to weed out another loser without wasting too much time and effort. AND You didn't have to kiss him at the end of the date. ![]() Which is worse? Getting stood-up? or Going on date, and its a bust? |
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I can say that as a man I have NEVER stood a woman up. I can not understand a man doing it either unless there is a death in the family or other emergency, and even then I would call to let you know why I was not picking you up. It is just disrespectful to do other wise.
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You got to weed out another loser without wasting too much time and effort. AND You didn't have to kiss him at the end of the date. ![]() Which is worse? Getting stood-up? or Going on date, and its a bust? No not a fool! Someone who stands by their word with actions, willing to take a risk in life, willing to let love into your life again, not a fool in my book. He is a fool, he lost your respect,trust and friendship. |
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Could have been second thought's. I've been guilty of this a few time's. What can I say? I got cold feet!!!!!!!! I was just chicken to go out with somebody that I didn't know. I am sorry there is never a reason to do that to somebody. To me it is cruel and heartless. To the OP, I am sorry that this happened to you. Just think one persons lost means an even better persons gain. |
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You got to weed out another loser without wasting too much time and effort. AND You didn't have to kiss him at the end of the date. ![]() Which is worse? Getting stood-up? or Going on date, and its a bust? That's terrible. I wish I could actually get to the "e-mail me" part with women here let alone phone or actual date..and others go this far and do such a thing. ![]() |
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You got to weed out another loser without wasting too much time and effort. AND You didn't have to kiss him at the end of the date. ![]() Which is worse? Getting stood-up? or Going on date, and its a bust? No not a fool! Someone who stands by their word with actions, willing to take a risk in life, willing to let love into your life again, not a fool in my book. He is a fool, he lost your respect,trust and friendship. Nicely said, M.Michiganman. ![]() |
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I've been guilty of that back in my young days as well. Came down to cold feet. You're beautiful and will find better. Don't let it get to you. : )
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stand women up?!?! I mean I spent time getting dolled up for nothing! I feel like a fool. I mean did he even think of the rejection it would cause me? That hurt and you call yourself a Christian. Lose my number! I am sorry that this happened to you. Even if it was an emergency situation a courtesy call would of been in order. You are beautiful inside and out and deserve better. Because we are both Christians I will share the scripture that came to mind when I read your post: Proverbs 16:33 (Amp) The lot is cast into the lap, but the decision is wholly of the Lord [even the events that seem accidental are really ordered by Him]. He's a jerk and thank God you didn't waste time finding it out later. ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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I've been guilty of that back in my young days as well. Came down to cold feet. You're beautiful and will find better. Don't let it get to you. : ) ![]() |
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At least have the courtesy to sit through that date if you managed to go this far,if you really don't like her, thank her for the date and move on.
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I've been guilty of that back in my young days as well. Came down to cold feet. You're beautiful and will find better. Don't let it get to you. : ) ![]() Gotta give him credit for admitting to it and actually saying WHY he did it. |
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Well that is just rude! I am sorry that happened to you!
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stand women up?!?! I mean I spent time getting dolled up for nothing! I feel like a fool. I mean did he even think of the rejection it would cause me? That hurt and you call yourself a Christian. Lose my number! I am sorry that this happened to you. Even if it was an emergency situation a courtesy call would of been in order. You are beautiful inside and out and deserve better. Because we are both Christians I will share the scripture that came to mind when I read your post: Proverbs 16:33 (Amp) The lot is cast into the lap, but the decision is wholly of the Lord [even the events that seem accidental are really ordered by Him]. He's a jerk and thank God you didn't waste time finding it out later. ![]() ![]() ![]() Thanks for that ![]() |
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ehh...another thing.. why Starbucks???
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:( Hey ... It was pathetic .. and through the years I've grown to realize how disrespectful it was and have since apologized. But That was also when I was 18, being 29 now I will never make the same mistake.
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I've been guilty of that back in my young days as well. Came down to cold feet. You're beautiful and will find better. Don't let it get to you. : ) ![]() Gotta give him credit for admitting to it and actually saying WHY he did it. Yes, I do |
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I wish I knew the answer to that!
It's happened to me many times.... ![]() |
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ehh...another thing.. why Starbucks??? That's where he wanted to meet and I don't even like coffee. |
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Throw rocks at him.
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:( Hey ... It was pathetic .. and through the years I've grown to realize how disrespectful it was and have since apologized. But That was also when I was 18, being 29 now I will never make the same mistake. ![]() |
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