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Topic: Why Do Some Men....
ChangeofHeart's photo
Tue 12/09/08 05:54 PM

stand women up?!?! I mean I spent time getting dolled up for nothing! I feel like a fool.

I mean did he even think of the rejection it would cause me?

That hurt and you call yourself a Christian.

Lose my number!
Men dont stand up Woman they like, without a good reason. Who knows what pressure he felt. Unless he had a emergency, he should have called several hours before the datesad2

Zulu42's photo
Tue 12/09/08 05:56 PM
Thomas, what a great idea!


I have been stood up before but and although I get mad I try not to jump to conclusions right away because there are sometimes where people really do have something bad happen to them.Here is a good way to find out if they really stood you up.


Call him the next day and say you were sorry for standing him up.Say you really wanted to meet him but you had a emergency and couldn't make it.If he says something like "yeah I was there and waited a half hour and you didn't show up",you know he is a liar and you should never talk to him again.If he says "I couldn't make it either"(for what ever reason)then at least he is telling you the truth.It's up to you if you want to make a second date.

FearandLoathing's photo
Tue 12/09/08 06:00 PM

Thomas, what a great idea!


I have been stood up before but and although I get mad I try not to jump to conclusions right away because there are sometimes where people really do have something bad happen to them.Here is a good way to find out if they really stood you up.


Call him the next day and say you were sorry for standing him up.Say you really wanted to meet him but you had a emergency and couldn't make it.If he says something like "yeah I was there and waited a half hour and you didn't show up",you know he is a liar and you should never talk to him again.If he says "I couldn't make it either"(for what ever reason)then at least he is telling you the truth.It's up to you if you want to make a second date.



Actually that is an awful idea...use lies to weed out a liar is counter-productive. Just leave it be, if he calls ask...if not you have your answer.

Krimsa's photo
Tue 12/09/08 06:01 PM
Agreed

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