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Topic: Girlfriend has a guy bestfriend
MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 12/08/08 10:57 AM
Is it okay for your girlfriend to have a guy bestfriend?

quiet_2008 Joined Sat 08/30/08 Posts: 11138	Mon 12/08/08 10:58 AM
only if he is gay

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Mon 12/08/08 10:58 AM
As long as he's not an ex.....

HasidicEnforcer Joined Thu 12/20/07 Posts: 10235	Mon 12/08/08 10:58 AM
yes My bestest friend in the world is a guy and he is the ONLY person I trust to take care and raise my daughter if anything should happen to me and her father.

Muddysneakers77 Joined Thu 08/02/07 Posts: 1530	Mon 12/08/08 10:58 AM
only if he is gay QFT!!!!!!!!!!!

Muddysneakers77 Joined Thu 08/02/07 Posts: 1530	Mon 12/08/08 10:59 AM
As long as he's not an ex..... QFmoreT

MsCarmen Joined Wed 05/07/08 Posts: 6282	Mon 12/08/08 10:59 AM
Speaking from a woman's point of view, it better be, or he won't be my boyfriend any more. I won't give up my friends, especially my best friend, just because he's insecure.

Riding_Dubz Joined Wed 05/21/08 Posts: 22110	Mon 12/08/08 11:00 AM
Does he also drive a blue prius

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Mon 12/08/08 11:01 AM
As long as he's not an ex..... agreed. I have some great guy friends and I would be pissed to be told by my BF is wasn't ok to be friends with them anymore. That's all they have ever been, FRIENDS.

Redsoxfan1 Joined Sat 12/29/07 Posts: 8388	Mon 12/08/08 11:02 AM
I think it is! My last bf had female friends, one his "best" I see no problem!

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Mon 12/08/08 11:04 AM
Listen, the only ex I'm friends with... I know how good he is in bed. Just thinking it makes it not okay for us to hang out. I know he feels the same way. There is no love there, but it's not hard to tell there is a sexual tension that is wickedly inappropriate. So we e-mail and talk rarely on the phone. But we don't go out.

SKPCG Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 14708	Mon 12/08/08 11:05 AM
As long as he's not an ex..... You said it!!!! If they'd ever nookied or dated, no way!!

mmmike Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 556	Mon 12/08/08 11:06 AM
When I was married my wife had a guy best friend I was ok with it untill I saw them making out

franshade Joined Tue 07/24/07 Posts: 24704	Mon 12/08/08 11:06 AM
My b/f is a male and I wouldn't trade him nor give him up for anyone.

adirtygirl Joined Tue 03/11/08 Posts: 4008	Mon 12/08/08 11:06 AM
I have a guy BFF...He has been a great friend to me and a great role model to my kids...He wants to date me but I know it would ruin our friendship, and he is o.k. with that..I can tell him anything about anything...He is always there for me... He dates and always tells me about it...Nice to have the other side to get a outside point of view and have no ties.... Anybody i date knows about him and if they have a issue with that I say BYE BYE!!!!!!

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 12/08/08 11:07 AM
only if he is gay Thats what I was gonna say

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 12/08/08 11:08 AM
When I was married my wife had a guy best friend I was ok with it untill I saw them making out

wendynhouston Joined Sat 08/18/07 Posts: 708	Mon 12/08/08 11:08 AM
Ok I don't see anything wrong with a girl having a guy for a bestfriend. I also don't see anything wrong with a guy having a girl for a bestfriend. Here comes the but: There's a problem when he ignores his girlfriend and devotes all his attention to his female bestfriend. Same would be true for the opposite. I just don't experience with that situation.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 12/08/08 11:08 AM
Ok I don't see anything wrong with a girl having a guy for a bestfriend. I also don't see anything wrong with a guy having a girl for a bestfriend. Here comes the but: There's a problem when he ignores his girlfriend and devotes all his attention to his female bestfriend. Same would be true for the opposite. I just don't experience with that situation. Well said

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Mon 12/08/08 11:12 AM
She must be butt fugglier than a bull dyke!!!! Preferrably with no teef and breath like cat food!!!