i see both sides of this..
my best friend has 2 best friends.. one is me.. and the other is her ex bf from highschool.. its been a long time since highschool.. and they have grown up and are not longer attracted to eachother in a relationship sence.. ive seen them toghether.. its like a brother sister thing.. and not a sex thing.. her bf is ok with them hanging out and when she comes to visit me he is always hanging out here too.. hell he hangs out here when shes not here.. lol.. hes a really sweet guy and goes thru gf's like water.. kinda keeps going for the users.. we talk to him.. council him.. and help pick up the pieces when he gets screwed over again.. and when he does the screwing over as well.. hes kinda like a lil brother to me.. and her best friend..


on the other hand my lil bro's best friend was a guy.. 2 weeks after they got married she went on a "family vacation" that had been planed for over a year to california with her best friend and his family.. long story short.. about a year later after she had cheated on my bro with 2 other guys.. he found out that she had not had sex with.. but had all but with this "best friend"... tho none of us were suprised.. we all saw the signs and the sexual tension between them..



the unique part of this story.. the best friend in both instances is the same guy...

I about just p!ssed myself reading that!

I love Gypsy's mind!

You break up and find someone with a little integrity.

i would have no problem with that, as long as the loyalty is still there and they dont end up stabbing you in the back.... i mean on the flip side, i have a lot of female friends, and have had my share of girlfriends who have issues, cause a lot of my "girl" friends are also exes, but i am never cheating with them

Good point

whoa