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Topic: Public Display of Affection
imsingle951 Joined Mon 12/01/08 Posts: 1984	Mon 12/08/08 06:09 AM
Im ok with it. As long as it dont go too far.

Krimsa Joined Fri 04/25/08 Posts: 9960	Mon 12/08/08 06:11 AM Edited by Krimsa on Mon 12/08/08 06:12 AM
How do you feel about public display of affection? Im fine with it within reason. I realize that statement is somewhat subjective so I will define "reasonable" as it applies to me. Hand holding, a peck on the cheek, perhaps even some cuddling. Much beyond that I feel should be taken to a more private setting. I realize some couples are exhibitionists yet I dont feel that their personal erotic needs and desires should be projected onto me. That is a violation of my rights and boundaries.

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Mon 12/08/08 06:25 AM
I love watching people make out in public. It's why I always carry popcorn in my purse.

beachbum069 Joined Mon 04/07/08 Posts: 14325	Mon 12/08/08 06:29 AM
I love watching people make out in public. It's why I always carry popcorn in my purse. I'd like to make out in public with you.

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Mon 12/08/08 06:32 AM
I love watching people make out in public. It's why I always carry popcorn in my purse. I'd like to make out in public with you.

dcrdnk Joined Wed 08/15/07 Posts: 5094	Mon 12/08/08 06:33 AM
If your w/someone u really care about ....I see no prob....

MisKim323 Joined Sat 06/28/08 Posts: 14563	Mon 12/08/08 06:33 AM
Oh yeah

bad_girl Joined Tue 07/17/07 Posts: 67379	Mon 12/08/08 06:37 AM
I love it when Tom puts his arm around me, bends down and kisses me when we are out, I think it is grand

Muddysneakers77 Joined Thu 08/02/07 Posts: 1530	Mon 12/08/08 06:55 AM
I love PDA

lilbug Joined Wed 10/10/07 Posts: 14791	Mon 12/08/08 06:56 AM
How do you feel about public display of affection? His arm draped across my shoulders or wrapped around my wasit, holding hands, sweet kisses...It's one of the greatest things about being in love with someone!

TJN Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 6745	Mon 12/08/08 07:03 AM
hugs, kisses, holding hands it's all good I really love it when I have my girls cause I can act like a kid and NO grownups can say anything about it

Krimsa Joined Fri 04/25/08 Posts: 9960	Mon 12/08/08 07:06 AM
hugs, kisses, holding hands it's all good I really love it when I have my girls cause I can act like a kid and NO grownups can say anything about it Agreed. That even makes me smile in most cases when I see it. Its the hand creeping up under the shirt and the tongue being rammed down the throat in a full blown display of spit swapping eroticism. I can go rent a porn if I want to see that. I guess I clearly draw a distinction between "cuteness and affection" and highly sexualized eroticism. I realize that is the unpopular view though.

eileena9 Joined Fri 04/13/07 Posts: 28211	Mon 12/08/08 09:03 AM
hugs, kisses, holding hands it's all good I really love it when I have my girls cause I can act like a kid and NO grownups can say anything about it Agreed. That even makes me smile in most cases when I see it. Its the hand creeping up under the shirt and the tongue being rammed down the throat in a full blown display of spit swapping eroticism. I can go rent a porn if I want to see that. I guess I clearly draw a distinction between "cuteness and affection" and highly sexualized eroticism. I realize that is the unpopular view though. I don't know why you said it "is 'the unpopular view, though"................most people said the same thing you did, yes to PDA without the groping.

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Mon 12/08/08 09:06 AM
I think hand holding and kissing is sweet. However, I'm not a hand holder at all... can't stand it. But I do kiss in public.

Krimsa Joined Fri 04/25/08 Posts: 9960	Mon 12/08/08 09:08 AM
I think hand holding and kissing is sweet. However, I'm not a hand holder at all... can't stand it. But I do kiss in public. Im the same way. My hands tend to get a little clammy when they are held too long. It also restricts my movement. Not a big fan of that.

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Mon 12/08/08 09:10 AM
I think hand holding and kissing is sweet. However, I'm not a hand holder at all... can't stand it. But I do kiss in public. Im the same way. My hands tend to get a little clammy when they are held too long. It also restricts my movement. Not a big fan of that. Totally with you there! Great explanation of exactly what I think!

tigerman1956 Joined Fri 08/18/06 Posts: 11768	Mon 12/08/08 09:11 AM
I LIKE PDA'S, AND ARE WILLING TO GIVE THEM AS WELL AS RECIEVE THEM

wendynhouston Joined Sat 08/18/07 Posts: 708	Mon 12/08/08 10:15 AM
hugs, kisses, holding hands it's all good I really love it when I have my girls cause I can act like a kid and NO grownups can say anything about it I am the same way with my cousin's little girl or my friend's son. I love taking them for the day to the Boardwalk and playing in the water fountain with them. Gives me an excuse to act silly and not my age.

Delsoldamien Joined Sat 12/06/08 Posts: 454	Mon 12/08/08 10:27 AM
I like public displays of affection, as long as what we do does not cause too much concern. Hand holding or arm in arm is good... if you don't have sweaty hands!! kissing to a point is fine too, But I met a young woman that liked to push the boundries from time to time and would try things that normally wouldn't be done in public...it was uncomfortable at times,I must say exciting at times, but I finally told her that we either needed to go somewhere else or be more discrete..

DragonFlyTat Joined Fri 08/29/08 Posts: 3759	Mon 12/08/08 10:29 AM
My fella loves to pick me up in public. He is 6'3" and I am 5'2" so he loves to pick me up and kiss me. Loves holding my hand and putting his arm around my shoulders. I don't mind PDA but the arm around my shoulder makes me feel like he is leaning on me and throws me off balance. Other than that we get a lot of "Oh they are so cute" and "Aww".