Topic: Would a reckless moment change your mind?
sweetcountrygirl's photo
Fri 04/13/07 08:57 AM
Would a reckless moment driving change your mind about the person you
claim to love?
Example...55 mile an hour curb, taking it at 70 just to prove you could,
( or rather to see the reaction on the other persons face...)...Noone in
danger, no other oncoming traffic...
Would it change your mind about the person driving if you were
considering a relationship?
and how would you react when you were called an idiotic fool???

jeanc200358's photo
Fri 04/13/07 09:01 AM
I almost always drive over the speed limit (depending on conditions and
if I "feel" I can handle it) but NEVER "wrecklessly" and I'd NEVER EVER
EVER EVER do anything "just to see the look on someone's face." Talk
about the epitome of stupidity!

And if someone did that to me I'd have to question their sanity and,
therefore, whether or not I'd have a relationship with them.

oldsage's photo
Fri 04/13/07 09:02 AM
Would never ride with that person again.

Had that happen on a bike yrs ago. Deck'd the guy as soon as we got
off. I drove us home.

RainbowTrout's photo
Fri 04/13/07 09:08 AM
I would get away from that person for two reasons. First, for my own
safety and second for their safety. Then to be called idiotic, hmmm, I
would think that person that fast would be idiotic. I would take that as
foreshadowing as in a book. What if there were kids involved? My dad
when teaching me to drive had me to slow down because people don't
always do as you would expect them to do.

no photo
Fri 04/13/07 10:12 AM
putting your life in jepardy, just to show off to some one is stupid.
ego is a dangerous thing, i wonder how cool it would make this guy feel
if he lost control and killed someone, would he be bragging then?

LAMom's photo
Fri 04/13/07 10:22 AM
Driving reckless something i would not do,, not to prove a point or to
see the look on his/her face... So if put in that
situation I would have to sit back and really revaluate the
relationship that I am in and wonder what is really going
on in the mind of the one that I am having this relationship
with,, for something might be deeper than seen to ones eye and for being
called and Idiotic Fool: Well thiers the door and I am out of here... I
value my self worth and those around me.

no photo
Fri 04/13/07 10:33 AM
I'd ditch him ((((((((sweets)))))))) hey gurly happy

the Idiotic Fool part would've tipped the scale the WRONG way.. the
other cud be constued as horse play and although a lil reckless.. a
'caution' or 'respect' could be asked NOT to do it again.. but that last
part?? noway you're feelings, reGARDLess of how 'silly' they may be in
HIS eyes.. SHOULD be respected!!


but thats just MY 1.8983 cents worth :wink:

sweetcountrygirl's photo
Fri 04/13/07 01:47 PM
So, in essence...
the way a person drives reflects his or her character?
Should you judge an entire relationship based on one incident?
Now the name calling was totally uncalled for..
understandably very immature...


I wonder how many of YOU have gotten into a vehicle and drove after
having "just one beer"...

Just thoughts...


sweetcountrygirl's photo
Fri 04/13/07 01:48 PM
anyway...He has been ditched...or vice versa...